Yak survive mami's nevilikovna ailment. A terrible diagnosis: how to accept ailment. Zoseredzhennya at prayer

What do you say here ?! - So boo. In the life of the skin, there are situations, if there is a need for medical help, special care, extraordinary procedures. Lyudin is taken to the lykarnya.

I, in any way, will zapodiyє countrymen. Physical and mental. Invisibility, unreasonableness, navpaki, clearer knowledge of the powerful diagnosis, thoughts about the loss of energy, obviously, if you feel guilty for those who see - a guarded one who is hungry for heavy thoughts. It doesn't seem like physical pain and discomfort.

Lyudina veruyucha spriymaє ailing yak viprobuvannya her spiritual fortune. Holy Apostle Luke gives us the words of the Savior:

“Blessed hungry nina, blessed hungry. Blessed are tormented at a glance, so be involved ”(Luke 6:21)

І in the Bible, і in the New Zavitі, and in the Diyannya of the Apostles it is even more abundantly said about those who are citizens in the whole world and are good. To this, the Lord will calm down those who are afflicted in His Kingdom.

In the endless rakhunka, the thought is even simpler and clear: the one who lives happily and without a life at once - having already taken away his piece of joy and blessings; and the one who is in the whole society of the suffering, the need, the sickness - takes away the city from the life of the life.

Orthodox in likarnia - theory and practice

Ale is the one on the right, talk about ailments, yaku can sprymati, yak blessing. And іnshe - see bіl, fear, confusion especially, right at a time. At the end of the hour, it is so important to get into the thoughts, adjust yourself in the way you need it.

Obviously, someone who is living in ailments is guilty of praying. Moreover, not only and, perhaps, not the style for health, the words about the Savior of the soul, about the salvation of the spirit, about the welfare of accepting everything that came without anger, girkoti or condemnation.

And we know that prayer is especially penetrating into fasting. Until then, the post will help to recognize from your soul of the evil one, which is especially helpful for us during the period of viprobuvan. Tobto, an Orthodox Christian, perebutyuchi in lykarna, is guilty of the power to internalize, to meditate on prayer and fasting.

Zoseredzhennya at prayer

Years in large hospitals and small churches. There, the services of the priest are periodically held for the sentinels, which is necessary. As far as the temple is concerned, for you cannot get up from the lid, you can’t go out and do it for the sake of self-determination - it’s just one viprobuvannya. This means that you will have to pray for the quiet of minds, like є.

Victory for prayer and salvaged reading, be it the power and the whole hour, as you give yourself to yourself! It is also possible to see unused thoughts, develop troubles and see, in the world, in the doorway of pain. If you can’t read, repeat the prayers about yourself as you remember to remember. Do not find yourself short. For example, the Isus prayer:

"Lord Jesus Christ, Sina of God, have mercy on me, the sinister"

The Orthodox nobility reminds us of our Father, and the Symbol of Viri - and the sacred words become a support for the thought, if it is hard to read from the prayer book.

Fasting with ailments

Zagalnovidomo, who allow the sick from fasting. Ale, from the other side, when there are ailments, they can help children to punish children for a special day, being mixed up in quiet products.

If you are not recommended to eat meat or dairy products, it is possible and necessary if you post ailments. It is absolutely necessary to discuss the price of your solution with the eligible drug and correct the answer itself to be interconnected. Proceed to the post only, as soon as they got rid of the lykar!

A trim post in a license can be important through those who are in the middle of a row. We do not have a special choice - the demand to give. Ale, on the other side, there will be vegetables, cereals, porridge, pasta. Tilki soup and other stravi, shvidshe for everything, come to me. From them you can and utrimuvatisya.

Remember that fasting in case of ailments, congestions with liquor, will be corny and to your mind, and soul. I don’t forget to post the demand, don’t just see it from їzhі. Uniquely empty spirits, empty (not reminiscent of prayer) spending an hour, angry and embittered, annoyed - not only in words and vchinkas, but in thoughts.

1. Accept, as a tribute, those who at once will have a vip test, and guess what will happen at such an hour. For the Orthodox ailment - the ability to bring up their spirit and stick their way up the highway to Poryatunka. Don't miss the її!

1. Be mindful, in how you have been drunk - tse, also, tribute. Obviously, in the skin disease it is possible to endure the lack of handiness: strangers are close, inappropriate procedures, the unwillingness to accept and accept ... ...

1. Remember mercy! Instruct people to come back to you and people (maybe, not only ailments, but also staff). The power of humility and love is imminent. If you will not be constantly adjusting yourself in a different way - the place of the blessed sentiments will be occupied by the development and vision.

1. Beat on help. For example, ask the nurse to place you in that part of the ward, if it’s easier to pray on your own, or ask the nurse to take you to the hospital church. If you see a post in a likarna - ask to put you some more porridge, ale without cutlets, or give you a little bit of bread. Do not vimag, but ask innocently. As soon as you introduce it, don't get overwhelmed. Reread point # 2.

1. So it was easier to pray - to ask to bring you a small ikon, prayer book, Evangel, saved books. I do not have this kind of mobility - do not get tired! Aje those that we need for Poryatunka, the Lord gives us. The skinny Orthodox is the image of God in the soul, and you can turn to God with your words.

1. Lykarnya is not a place for propaganda. Do not demonstrate your relevance. As you develop your brothers and sisters with Christ, you will become happy and happy. If you don't mind, you don't show any intelligence and sensitivity to your spiritual needs - don't mind anything, help your neighbors if you can.

1. Khvilini has a particularly strong pain, or I can help you - to pray and guess that the Lord is to His peaceless fellow citizens and even more vryatuvav us from death. I want to give us forever life in joy and mischief.

Only it is necessary to read and dyyalno dbati about your soul.

An important ailment will become viprobuds for a sick person, and for his motherland. How to reconcile and accept the situation, how to know the strength, how to fight for the hardship, how not to lose faith and how to know. At the daniy statty, a psychologist at the Orthodox crisis center, Innoy Mirzoev, will be asked

If our loved one is worried about the importance of the citizen, they are strong, but not by themselves, if they did not see it, then it is important to use the words that are needed and those to grow with him. Vinikak nutrition, yak correctly to see your own spirit.

The statement is simple. Naygolovnishe - bounty, love and respect. Often to finish the bootie by hand, trim by the hand, and words are not needed at all. Inodi mi boimosya destroy the sick - namagaєmosya translate rozmovu into third-party ones. Metropolitan Anthony of Surozh wrote that it’s a waste of time, and that it’s a screen so that we ourselves can get rid of the troubles. Ale, at the same hour, we will be entrusted from the land and from the truth, and from the truth. And for the children, it is even more important, since it’s like mariners to lead people into reality and relieve their strength by fighting against the ailments.

I saw the ailments in the first Moscow hospice, like a book of blessings from the blessing of Vladika Antoniya, I read the instructions on how to deal with the ailments. We have these words:

“People, who look for a great ailment, are importantly looming, but they are similar to a musical string, as they do not see the sound by themselves, but rather start to sound the dots of the finger”. On the whole, all human beings are based. Mova about those words that are needed to be overused in the process of splitting. Naygolovnishe, ludin's, yak's hand, just seeing our wide spirits. If we have it є, then we say everything is correct. Require all empty words.

- Buvah, with my deyami, I want to feel sorry for the ailing one for myself. Yak uniknuty tsyogo?

Persh for everything, it is necessary to show borderline respect for the sick person. I'll aim the butt. Until me, the woman of the kidnapped vik turned up to undergo chemotherapy. She is already in the fourth stage of cancer. The camp was important, ale vona sounded behind her to watch. For her it is calm, lying on a bed is equal to death. I won’t cry, for the sister of the mother of all turbots. Sister sniffs the ailment to lie down and do not give any robiti. A tense situation. The regret and the hyperopic is not productive. Requires love and partners' vidnosini. The skin has its own internal resources. The zavdyaki tsym to fight the resources of lyudin. And if you take on all the requirements and all the versatility - if you let your child's power independently, let your forces fight. As soon as you marvel at the truth in your eyes, then your relatives, who are even more aware of a sick person, think more to yourself - as if everything is better, the problem is less troublesome. And it is necessary to think about a sick person - how beautiful it is.

Є y іnsha extreme. Buvak, it’s important for a sick person to go through the stage of ailment. It’s not worth mentioning, but your physical camp is changing, you’re living for the colossal lives, calling on yourself the colossal turbotires. And additional help is needed! I have in my eyes a swollen grunt of tragedy tied with tsim. Lyudina survived the dignity of the love, weakened, ale, through the force of getting up, going through the crooks and falling into obscurity. And I didn’t tell the native people ... that the ailment himself didn’t ask for help at once. In such a situation, relatives need to be respected themselves, they need to analyze, work and help them.

- And how can a lump of people be embarrassed, and I can help them see the best people?

There are a lot of people who can hardly help me out. The stench sounded like patrons. In psychology, understanding is also congruent. Even if our behavior is very good. If we will be congruent, we will, then the people will still accept our help. Be-yak false to see. If you really want help, it’s unlikely that your help will be seen.

- Tim, who is physically awesome to people who are in power and change their mindset, like those who are close to them.

It is necessary for the nobility, it is important that ailments are going through a few stages in their own psychological camp. Tsi etapi - shock, aggression, depression and acceptance of ailments - is even better described by Andriy Volodimirovich Gnezdilov, a psychotherapist, hospice in Petersburg. The last of the stages can be different. If you are sick you can avoid aggression, but sometimes you do not take your ailment. But in general, the change of psychologic stani is even more characteristic.

Ninebezpechnisha - Shoku Stage... At the same time, there is a lot of suicide. The first person who is ill needs special respect and support. At the stage of aggression, Lyudin has her own feeling. I, as we know the order, requires the power of vitality and respect. That sick person cannot be trimmed in his own. Inakhe aggression can become an autoaggression, ruinous camp. I am mindful, it is important to relatives. It is necessary to learn, that a sick person needs to survive, and to show spirit and intelligence.

Often, relatives will fix a fire if there is a depression. It’s necessary to remember, don’t get depressed by the slides. If you need to go through, then through the countrymen you can buy up wine, through the countrymen you can come to God. If you regret the depression "score" for the help of antidepressants, there may be pathological changes in specialness. If a man does not survive the depression, he may not come before he understands his true camp, he will not have the strength to struggle.

It is more beautiful to know a qualified psychiatrist or a classy psychologist, who can correctly survive all stages of ailment.

It’s even more often ailments to skarzhayutsya: spat a kindred with a head in my problems, literally all the turbot is calling on itself. And then you can overexert yourself, or you can get more exhausted. As a result of ailments, a call is lost without respect. It’s necessary to remember, well, very well, as soon as ailments are close, it will be necessary to see us, a lot of patience and goodness, ale the turbot is guilty of being smart. It’s necessary that Lyudin was bacheloring, talking about new love and joy.

I can survive the ailment of my near and only with God's help. It is necessary to be more bewildered to God, to return, to receive communion.

Often, Orthodox people who are close to the non-churchly ailment of the people still want to be guilty of accepting the sacraments of spovid, communion, cathedral, and the people themselves are not ready for it. Turn the line of behavior more beautifully into a vipad?

We need to pray for qiu lyudin. Antoniy Surozhsky said miraculously about it: “The nav'yazuvannya of God in the hour of death of people, if that from God comes, it’s just awful. If you say that you don’t believe in God, you can say: “You are not true, but I believe. I will speak with my God, and hearken to thee, as one with one will be moved. "

If Lyudin is ready to talk about the virus, then it is possible to tell you more about her information. Then we passed books and disks to our patients. And on my way through books, including those by lucky authors, people came to see them.

A bit of rockin that before us a cholovik turned up, like a trivial hour doing yoga. Having got sick, he survived the importance of depression. Tse buv is highly appreciated and intelligent lyudin, which, in his spiritual joke, zayshov in the wilderness. Khvoroba called to viri. Tse became literally in my eyes. Win asking to know yogo zi priest, spilkuvavsya, reading. It’s a moment of zeros, which has followed people along the hibiscus. Selected my studies and said about everything. And before dying, I took the blackness.

In a folding situation, people powerfully win a miracle. There were people in the middle of your children, why did you help us to fix it?

I want to say that miracles are efficiently seen and people need to talk about it. Ale treba pam'yatati, for everything God has promised. I was stuck with vipadki, as innakshe yak won’t call them wondrous. Once a young woman came to us with an important depression - with a little child, having overshadowed a cholovik. Vona brought her name to the reception. A titty crayfish pukhlin has melanoma. Likari confirmed the diagnosis, the operation of the bullet was prescribed for Monday. On Saturday we went to the church. There she was spovidalas, received the Holy Communion. Dovgo stood by Bilya ikoni, praying. Mourn me on the phone my colleague and everybody: "It seems like the puddle is changing." We didn’t believe it. Ale viyavilosya, it is so effective. Likari niyak could not explain those who had become. Zhenka tsya, Thank God, she's alive at the same time. There we are constantly ringing, dyakuє, ale mi say, that dyakuvati is not necessary for us. Vona said that she prayed in the box that day. She said that she was not asking for myself: "May the Lord let me live a trifle, and help my niece." Khvoroba did not turn.

Another vipadok. The cholovik with cancer was brought to the operation, but the chublin was not. The professor barked, p_dozryuvav, scho overturned the ailments. And in the rozmovi with the retinue, the priest came and baptized him right in front of the operative.

to be viewed... Kozhen for us, hto pratsyuє s seriously ill people, maybe їkh zgadati. An orthodox lyudina, as if she is sick, is guilty of taking the blessing, lіkuvatisya, spіlkuvatisya with the spirit, pray, take communion. Vity - tse naygolovnishe. It’s important without it.

Bagato chronic ailments can be easily taken under control, as well as follow the recommendations of the doctor. Інші do not give themselves control, make a lot of smallness in the life of the sick, and inodі produce until they are lost in the sense of life.

It’s very, very rich to lay down all of our psyche and education, as we will be able to accept it from family and friends. Ale, medical statistics show that there is at least one of the choloviks with the chronic ailments of the suffering people from the depression, and most of the skin days are lost due to the low mood.

Confirm, close the circle: chronic ailments provoke depression, depression due to the symptoms of the main illness, decrease in the effectiveness of therapy and the prognosis of illness.

Chronic ailment with the development of depression

On the mental camp of a sick person, a lot of factors are being added: physical countrymen, changes in callousness, sickness, a ruinous way of liking, for example, the need for an operation.

Patients have a license for setting the mood of the wikipedia to see those close to them. Keeping an eye on fellow citizens of those who are ill. The situation is lost, if, as a result, lyudin's illness involves a social role: squad, cholovik, chief.

An increase in the depresivny stan_v vplivaє on the physical camp of the sick. Settlement of the recommendations of the doctor, weaken the efficiency of the policy and significantly increase the period of renewal.

Before it’s shown that depressive ailments can be reached, there are actually better results in rehabilitation, more often it is seen as a result of turning to the robot, and is thinking of going to retirement due to disability.

9 crocs, hanging on to life with nevilikovnoy ailments

Reconciliation with chronic ailments and intercourse, as they are carrying with themselves, in the hour. There is nothing to be seen at once, to that it is ill-advised to accept a new situation without a list.

Step-by-step rules to help grace life:

1. Become aware of your ailment... Tse її tidy, letting the demonic pour in. Do not pretend to diagnose your loved ones.
2. Let yourself go through grief, oppression, fear... Say to me, what you see and what you are afraid of.
3. Don't mess with asking for help If you need it, do not turbo-drive them from the smallest drive.
4. Talk to a doctor, Ask for an explanation of your nutritional deficiencies, talk about your fears and moods.
5. So dovgo, yak pricey, be active, Try to get out of the role of the victim.
6. Come on, get rid of the joy from other references, other successes.
7. Master your little joy, Do not think about the big plans, go to those, if the implementation of the changes.
8. Do not cheer your call- I will also paint myself.
9. Follow your body, Yak vin reacts to new drugs, but do not listen to the skin dryness.

Winter in a sick person's psyche

The chronic illness of one of the members of the family is seen on all members of the family, the cause of conflict, leading the union to the point of failure.

Some people who are ill will envision others, as they will not be able to win for the power of their countrymen. Even more often, the reason for such behavior is the depression itself - not diagnosed, and, moreover, uncrowded.

Depression is manifested by a tight, lazy mood, crying attacks, dragging, attacks of anger, pesimism. Hvoriy has no problems with quick accepting decisions, you can’t get over it, you can’t see it from a special life, once you start thinking about death.

Buvagh, it’s not a bad thing for people to know joy in life, I want to live in life, to live well, to learn new speeches. However, some of these children skewer towards self-ruining, oppressing themselves. For the family, it’s more majestic, but a child or a partner of a sick person can also start to fall into depression.

The effort is necessary to know, ale without self-routing

Concentration of respect on ailments is often rocked in such a way that the patient does not help the changes in his psyche;

The patient does not shy away from the Fakhivtsa, but he doesn’t want to introduce all the little things in “seemingly” ways. Take up cigarettes, alcohol, drugs or tranquilizers. This is a form of depression, not a safe behavior. Tse shlyakh in nikudi - zavzhdi produce health before the death.

The patient is guilty of talking to the psychiatrist, which is to start the most beautiful treatment, as well as help in the psychotherapy.

Podії, as change life, to bring in it the desolation and overlap. Vazhke zhvoryuvannya at a relative, for a sound about his serious ailment becomes an overwhelming burden. For scho? Yak gave life? Yak to take your ailment or be close to the lyudin? Chi є?

stagei experience

Closeness with the importance of ailment to the active development of the emoticon. The process of experiencing a few stages, described by a lykar Kübler-Ross, as a little rock sposter for ailing children in the classroom. This stage of experience is seen not only by sick people, but by their relatives. Even the possibility of losing people close to you and dying to yourself. Bagato describe the mill yak "they saw my half, part of me." What about the stage?

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It’s an important camp, people cannot believe that they diagnosed a deadly ailment. At all stages of the patient, it is possible to increase the number of diagnoses, or even go to the children. Tsey stan shock, severe stress, unkindness to accept reality.

protest

After learning to obey protest, aggression, gniv. "Why did I become with me?", "Did I deserve hiba?" At this stage, it is not necessary to get people to talk, you need to speak, shout out your fears and images.

bargain

The stage is characterized by hope, by atrocities before spiritual instants, to God. Lyudin's life is healthy, she's going to church, asking good help, seeing her in the picture. "As soon as I will be robust, then I will continue my life."

driving

Tse depressive і navyazhchiy stage. Appreciate all the gravity of the situation, give up, mourn for life. Sometimes you can see more of a fault in an hour. It is necessary to give a person close to him psychologically, to prodvzhuvati fight.

humility

Depression of podolan, people will come to their own will. The sickness grows spokiynishe, you can mobilize your zusilla. Relatives of varto do not help them to see ailments, show love and help. The whole period has a lot of knowledge of the sense of life, of trying to reappraise it.

Etapi may pass out of order, zmіnyuvatisya. The ailment can be zupinitiya at one stage or turn to the cob. To help close people to survive the ailment of the need for consciousness, to pass the ailment at the stage, to go to your soul.

Yak fit in?

Yak to fit in with ailments? What are the psychological methods? There is a special specialty medicine, with help it is possible to cope with ailments and it is traumatic to survive.

according to the assessment

Even more often, a person's ailment is constantly found in a confined space, for example, in a lykarnyan ward or his own room. It is important to calm down the situation. It is not a matter of zmushuvati all kuti with medicines, let me instruct you to be in love and accept speech. What a sick person? Chi є well, what a happy eye? The room is not guilty of nagaduvati a sterile object without a sign of life.

Vikoristannya humoru

Tsey method is a great psychologist Viktor Frankl. Win of the celebrities Tim, having seen at the concentration table, zoomed to know in the intolerable minds of the sense of life. Vin said, that humor is a rutting circle, which allows you to see. So, it is important to take your ailment as a danist, in none of it is not funny. Ale vikoristannya smіhu, humor can polіpshiti physical and mental camp. The main science is gelotology, there is a scientific grounding positive for a smile. The humor managers are active, the robot's heart grows, loosen up, and the mood changes. It’s not a gift for all the countries to come to important children, cheerful characters come to the saint in licornies, booths for people who have been abducted.

What can you do? Give yourself the opportunity to laugh, laugh to feel good, marvel at the good old comedy, read the classics of the satirical genre.

proximity

Yak survive, for example, mami's ailment? Often lyudin's ailment is seen from the family, he does not want to become a tyrant, to be lost in his own. Yak to help you? No need to think, the reason for the isolation is right against the loved ones. Tse one stage experience. Don't go to the stage of receiving the ailments, say, you will be in charge, embrace, but do not check it out. You can join the group for help of your place, you can joke on the Internet. Bagato people fit in with the experiences, having come together.

Little joyful life

If a person sees joy, then it will change. How can you shukati the joy of Lyudin's illness? Radіsnі moments to be known in the beloved hobby, re-glancing fіlmіv, reading good literature. A child's history with oncological illnesses will come to grips with it. Overwhelmed by the important situation, she wrote down the message sent to the Maybut for her daughter. I read verses, talked about my life, talked about love before her. The recordings of the boule were reminiscent of love and kindness, the stench helped a little more and the fear of being homeless.

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How can you kill?

If you do not cope with the situation independently, there is a group of children, people who are experiencing the same camp, or have fit in with their ailments. Do not be afraid to give free rein to the sentiments, only to tell about your emotions will help you to lighten your soul and relax. Remember, what a life of a warte, what a life and a price for a skin.

A quick sound about the importance, lethally insecure or non-violent ailments, such as cancer, insult, HIV infection, important for the brain, hormonal systems, and internal organs, for the loss of parts of these , so and for your loved ones.

Now a month / day / day / year ago, everything was good, ale sickness was rapt to be involved and everything was turned upside down. There is a prospect, for example, of a term operation with an inexpressible result of a trivial, important and painful treatment, knowledge in a medical institution. It’s a bit of a hint of a sick person’s unhappiness to oversaturated, to serve himself and to need to look after him.

Statistical navigation: "Your loved one is seriously ill: psychological help we are ill and our loved ones"

Psychologist Kübler-Ross in robots with gravely ailments and living people saw 5 stages of ailments.

The stages (period) may be trivial in children, they may not be in the same order as the descriptions below, and it may also be repeated, if people are already going through the stage.

To be stored for the cob in order to help it to the eye, to see it with them.

1. By the first reaction to the sound about the importance of the ailment, it is practical to get a shock or

Lyudin can’t and don’t want to change (the mental reaction of the psyche), but she became with him (anyway, close). Vin is experiencing a strong shock, a blow.

Shock can manifest itself in the form of stupor, apathy, inactivity - in this way, the body of the galvanized burrowing process of experiencing even more strong emotions, Nіzh znіmaє naprugu. The reaction is normal.

As long as your loved one is ill and overwhelmed by the phase of shock, it is not necessary to "include" him in the solution of the problem. It takes you an hour to come to your senses, to understand what to see.

It doesn’t mean that it’s not necessary to help a seriously ill person to survive terminovyh visits, as the stench is necessary and attributed by the doctor. Just be on the order from close, be respectful to the ground, because K. Shock can go into the offensive stage - aggression, hysterics, in strong emotional reaction.

1. The stage of protest and aggression: experiencing a strong emotional reaction, anger, anger

Aggression can be directed at both the drug and the loved ones, or at the share, at the suspension.

If you are close to your ailment, you will stay in such a camp, you may need additional help from the techniques described in the article "".

If your loved one is in an aggressive emotional phase, let him vigorise, let him catch his stupor, give him the opportunity to blame these fears, worries, stupefaction. at vimov important posts Emotional stress is so low.

In a larger period of protest and aggression, if the main reason for the fight has clashed, and your loved one is aware of the need to cope with negative emotions, you can get it right, get through the pain, survive the evil

Psychological help we are sick At the tsіy and інshih stages, you can be given by both close people and fakhivtsy. As long as your loved one is in a medical facility, do not take into account the suggestions of the help of a full-time psychologist or a volunteer. taka we are sick with help often a positive effect.

1. Stage please (bargaining) - people can be "home" with a share of God

For example: "if I am going to be a singing rite for the day, then I will enter the ailment."

Here it is important to give a good measure of beauty, to give people more positive information, you can tell the history of ailments with a positive ending, show you good books. Vira and hope for a burden is even more important for a sick person.

how are you close sickness And if I started, I just started thinking in a miracle and stopped picking up, even more importantly, so the people were motivating them for the quality of love. And even if it’s a lyudin’s help, we’ll live all the necessary calls. And as long as it is “vіnit”, or not to spoil anything - most often such a “vera” is attached to the unawareness of the vidmov from the struggle, the prikhovae vіdchay. And first, in the capacity of motivation, it is possible to get a boost for people, and you see it clearly.

1. stage of depression

Here the ailment will learn the severity of the ailment and sometimes the hope. It is possible to zakrivatisya from the spilkuvannya, not wanting anything and not checking anything. Few of them have lost their minds about the phase.

psychological we are sick with help from the side of the close ones, in order to give them the maximum pidtrimku, to show that they are not alone with their grief. You can give your eyesight, but you are worried about a new one, but your position never changed. І, madly, varto prodovzhuvati talk about him and his own feelings, і naygolovnіshe - just buti order.

If they give disgusting predictions, it’s not easy to infuse into a bad optimistic mood, but then it’s gone, but it’s actively motivated: “take it, don’t hang your nose” and so P. Tse can bring you to an even greater life, people until you see it, it’s not reasonable. Most ailments can be perceived as oppressive self-reliance on a whole stage.

If there are ailments in depression It is important to give you the power of a simple splash without dropping and dropping. It is important to take care of the regime, if you plan for a skin day, you will not be able to get away with it with other people.

Yaku can still be nadati we are sick with help, Glyboko getting bogged down in depressive experiences? Mai sense recommends antidepressant antidepressants. In the case of a psychotherapy stench, I can give a visible effect and make people feel better. Group therapy is a good resource for people who are very sick and for those close to you.

Additional help is necessary for the ailment, but the psychological education of our relatives is also important. Yaksho your dear ailment And if you are actively listening to him, you can see the whole din of feeling: bil, see, bezsilya, anger, troubles, sorrow, and also bring in guilt.

You can see more for a new, for your countryman, for your citizenship, for you, you want to find your way to your job. And it’s normal to feel, in the mind of spivchuvati, very sp_vpervivat and to rob a human being. Do not trim all the middle, know the way to go.

Relatives and loved ones of important ailments of people are often told to change their life, to become aware of the situation, which has changed. For example, one of the members family be brought to the attention of the robots in order to keep an eye out for the ailment. In general, you can cover up and Skoda yourself, you can get angry at the situation and not get sick.

You can see guilt - for those who cannot help a gravely ill For those who are not ideal, look after him, for those who you might want to pursue from us, to be less entrusted with him, vtekti, take care of your own right, for your razdratuvannya on ny, vreshti,-resht, for those scho vin is sick, and vi is healthy.

Quite importantly, learn it, name it, and do it, if you have it, you can talk about them. Yak usvidomiti? Feel the most often identifying by thoughts, for example: "I want to go to the fox and there is a break", "I can’t blame, for me it’s an unbearable burden?" - see. "I hammered in a bi!" - the price of evil. "I want to send him, close the doors and don't bachiti!" - razdratuvannya, vtoma. "How can I think about everything, if I need it so much?" - guilt.

Think about those, how to show the sick you the best, to get the best, and then try the intelligence, as you feel the sense of what. Who stand behind your sickly reaction to those who see?

It may be your own trauma, fears, for example, fear of getting lost without getting caught up to the end, fear of spending meaningful things, catching up with the attention of the people (even now, you will need it yourself), you will not be afraid of death, which We are on a mission to be seriously ill.

Only you can understand it, you can reduce the quality of your reaction. Even better, if you can give the robot a chance to advance with a psychologist.

Try not to forget about yourself. At such an hour, you need to learn more about yourself, you need more money, you need to use the resource of your ailing relative, and you need a resource to store up. Yak?

Think about the ones that are especially special for you? What do you value, love in life, what will give you strength, nathnennya? There can be no family, children, your friends, home creatures, drowning, hobbies, sports, just going to a local cafe or telephone conversation with one thing - all those who can bring you joy.

Make sure you plan your skin day and hour at busy times. Let us know about the people, ask for help in the whole world. Your important ailment is a relative, shvidshe for everything, if you are deprived of the radium that you see here draw joy and energy.

True, boom and in an insane way: some ailments will attract all the respect, for example, you can see from the help of a good-looking woman, vimag, but only if you ask him constantly, which means for you to get involved in a robotic hour yourself, your family, etc.

Here it is necessary to have intelligence, to stand behind the manipulative behavior of a sick person: feeling the fear of self-reliance, Isolation? In general, you can talk heart to heart, explain, calm down, don't throw yogo, but you have your own life. You can go home, as you will often be seen at your right, as you will be with your graph of robots, for more than an hour you will be assigned. It is not a matter of course to indulge in everything that is important for you in life.

It’s worthwhile to feed between the father’s and his own family (for example, vi cholovik, the mother of someone who is importantly ill) - it is important to see for yourself, for the hour and for the strength to come to the mother, and the little ones - to the guards and children. Do not be afraid to talk about your experience, because we are sick, it is important both for you and for someone else.

Try to make a difference for yourself, in this situation you can really kill for a seriously ill person, but it’s not in your power to change, learn between your vision. Do not call on yourself all at once: you have no affection for your homeland, your life is all the same for you, and yours is yours.

Do not sacrifice your lives, joke about additional help, get some people to wait for you, until you get help. Give the sick person the opportunity to take on themselves the view of quiet areas, in which there is the building itself: the choice of the drug, the method and the best of it. You should allow yourself to see, but in the world like this, you yourself pour into the situation.

If ailments are categorically considered to be victorious, this is a method of treatment, which will be optimal for you, do not think about it for your decision. Organize more beautifully with your doctor, which will help the sick person correctly assess the situation.

More about the boundaries: if it’s too hard for you to get rid of any problems and about ailments, tell your loved one about it, giving your eyesight, as if you were instructed, but you weren’t able to talk about this topic anyway, and I would like to go over to you.

Try to take the importance of the ailment of the close people, as a gift, as you cannot change, but in the middle of which you can develop those, for you to have strength: you can take it, but you can do it, but you can do it for the work, but it is important read a book, put on a good movie, take it for a walk.

Prepare a plan for a skin day, check out the recommendations of the doctor, organize your life in such a way, for the next hour, for the sick, and for your special inquiries. Replenish your life with righteousness, with your goals and values, at the moment “here and at once”, in your life with yourself, radically manifesting life.

Likuvannya can be dragged on for a long time, and if you wiggle the singing order of life, you can adapt to new minds, and you can help in any sick person, it will be easier for you to go to the fifth stage.

1. the stage of acceptance

Here ailments take on ailments, building up life in a new way, look at the values ​​and priorities, “rewrite” your life history. Є Masa applied, since it is important for the sick people reached such a level of self-actualization, that they didn’t care for the disease, and for the forecasts of a quick death, they got sickness more important for themselves and for the suspension, they knew the forces that were meaningful as much as possible for the time being decided.

Irving Yalom, describing the special growth of oncological ailments at the thermal stage: for them, the value of life is trivial, it is almost as if it is a bit of a cold weather,

Not all come to the whole stage, but for the quiet, who come, see the new facets of life.

Knowing that your loved one is in this phase, help you brighten your eyes, how to see him, help a gravely ill and you yourself must go through a difficult path to the end.

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