How can you help people to transfer bіl vіd vrati. In memory of a kind word i dilom

One of the members of the family. Zrozumilo, we are talking about death before the hour. The death of a member of the family before the seven passed the main stage of the life cycle. Before that, as the children grew up and knew independence, they opened their own family, let the robot live, live independently and so far. The death before the hour is not death in the first place, but death before that, like this, in the outward and whole, completed its family cycle. For example, dad died, since the children did not complete their education, did not enter into self-life, even earlier, because the lord, mother, leave the children still small.

Archpriest Andriy Lorgus

First for everything, it is important for the intelligence, that the family and the skin member of the family are experiencing death approximately the same way as the person is experiencing the diagnosis of grief. There are also the same stages according to Kübler-Ross: shock, death, gniv, spirits, grief, disorganization of the family, which will destroy the function of the family, break the role. It is possible to see as a reorganization, to supervise changes in the intensity of grief, to accept the loss of a member of the family. Possibility to see an update is a grief. Bidkannya can be stretched out, as far as possible, to finish up.

The first symptom of a withdrawal from shock is the deyak of the reorganization of the family, which supervises changes in the intensity of grief. Here we rely on respect for those who are only trying to redefine their functions and roles, which are a skin member in the mother’s home, as only those who are becoming accustomed to a new way of living, inevitably growing up to the needlessness Because of the fact that they are included in an active robot, people are aware of the situation for themselves, because they are aware of power. Such an activity, a social fate, is changed, for a sense of the feverishness and powerlessness. That is, here in a zvorotnіy proportion - as only people are repaired by the rank of change until the end, it is inherently reduced і tsі negative quality. Ale tse does not mean zvsim, but znikaє bidkannya. Grief here is practical at all stages, and in the distance, so it is a grief from a psychological point of view.

Symptoms of "normal" grief

Erich Lindemann (1900 - 1980) saw the symptoms of "normal" grief, that is, grief, which normally develops in skin people. The price can be saved and up to seven. Let us wonder, first for everything, at the symptomatology of "normal grief" in this case, then take on the food, as with grief pratsyuvati.

Nasam before, physical symptoms... Tse those, which are sposterіgaєmo among the people, in which there was death. First for everything, the periodic attacks of the physical countrymen - the tselyosi, the confusion, the untidiness, the heart attack and so far. Besides, such a person can see empty in the breasts, empty in the stomach, weakness, waste of meat strength: people just sit, his hands literally lie on the knees, for hanging the bridle of the tulub, you cannot lie, people, but the head is over for resting his head in his arms. It’s important for you to dichaty, it’s possible to get a little slow, maybe it’s a goof, it’s sensitive to noise, it’s strong responsiveness to noise, dryness in the mouth, cramping in the throat, difficulty in dying, heart attack and so far, and so far.

Here there can be one of these symptoms, but there can be all at once. Alert to me, that I’m guilty of being with people in the city, I’m guilty, for everything, at the first stage of the robot, I’m grieving about physical symptoms. Tobto, what a lyudin, who is experiencing grief, and who have some symptoms, persist: howb dikhav, i dikhati demand primusovo, to literally rob the dichotomous gymnastics, dikhati dikhati; in a different way, he slept, for someone else, maybe, demanding to give him a sodiyne; dal: schob lyudina yila - obov'yazkovo, through force, skil-nebudu, ale vin bude; If a new ball has the opportunity to live in silence, if you were given a good peace of mind, so as not to click on the phone, and, obviously, it is not guilty of going to the robot. So, a person can be occupied with a physical robot, as if to roam around the house, a little further surrounded, to that, as it was already meant here, in a new way, for all the presence of a waste of meat strength.

conduct warehouses... First for everything, it’s worthwhile in the move: to digest the mova, to get overwhelmed, or to navpaki hopeful to move, so it’s a feud that people are living with a drug. For being caught on one phrase. Quite well, intertwining, non-consistency mov. Visibility is of interest to the right, all like to fall by hand. The snake of food behavior, for example, is the appetite, but you are struggling with the demand - the appetite of the viclikati is ill-advised, and the internal bazhannya, for that it is necessary to add a little bit to the people, a little by little. First of all, post-robotic - it is necessary to get people, it is necessary to quit. Call the lyudin to say: “Okay, go-go, I’m safe.” Ні. Require obov'yazkovo quilting, schob wine beer і їв. If you want to help people in the city, then the guilt is guilty of being with him.

In the cognitive sphere, Tobto in the sphere of intellectu, a ludin in a gosudry mountain entrains me to myself, I think: “But I don’t fit. In me, I do not see. I don’t tell me, I don’t know anything ”. The interlocking of thoughts - so, it can be, it is difficult with concentration, with respect - a chain of buva. Ale, as a rule, is a person in her own right.

emoji sphere- Feeling and experiencing. ... Persh for everything, niv on those who became with him, with him, with him, close. A lot of gniv, to the point of it seems, most often people gnaw, ale of gniv's inclinations to wrap themselves up in depression, to which depression - aggression is implicated, my guilty memory. Feeling the feverishness, feeling the guilt, even the guest, the guilty one. Chim is closer to the bull of Lyudin, the yaka is dead, Tim is more than a guest of guilt. To what? “I’m yakbi, I’d not let this unfortunate fall. Yakby I will try, since I know likariv, since I am delivered liki, yakbi, yakbi, yakbi ... " If you feel guilty, the axis “I am not important”, “I didn’t talk”, “I’ve gone”, “I have deprived him of one” and so far, and so far.

Before the speech seems to be, it is even more important, often in close people after the death of a loved one and not even close to people, there is a resonance of fear and anxiety for their health and their own maybut. I don’t hate to contemplate at consultations, if people come and even if they have panic attacks, and even more often in the past, in the recent past, such people are responsible for the fact of death of a close one or not even a close relative. For example, grandmothers, didusy, grandchildren, uncles, two-year, three-year sisters, brothers. Especially, zychayno, father. If in the homeland there is one in the world, and a person, who knew him closely, take care of his fate, as he was close to his death, until he was lost, at the new Vinik, as a resonance was the fear for the hair of life, for the strong health.

And even more often fear, causing fear to be transformed into an unacceptable triviality, as it can be virostatic in such a symptom complex as a panic attack. To the very same here, in the whole sphere of the experience of these, even more importantly, grasp the triviality for your health. The whole reaction is normal. The price is normal. To brutalize respect, is even more important than intelligence, but often sharpened fears, anxieties, panic attacks, depression may be the result of death in a recent past close people.

Yak catching trivia? Looks like it seems, everyone feels like it, like only for the people, the need is for it. What does it mean to turn? At least, the two words mean: in Pershe, viznavati, viddavati sovit, and in a different way, or in a different way. Ale, at least, how can you see the triviality of yourselves, you can learn in your own way, the even more important fact, and other - you can say about it. Z kim and yak, if there is a visibility, if you sound it, you still need to wonder at the situation. For the sake of being close to people, friends.

How can you be guilty about it? Feel the guilt - the tse of the robot. Alle the demand for rosy, even more often, if dying is close, we have a lot of wine, neurotic wine, a lot of wine. I am guilty of the reason for the difference between them, the whole of the robot even with the fakhivts, Alevon in the tricky hour. Every time, in a moment of hospitable grief, it is very important to provoke something even more important or more beautiful.

Here is the hour of waking up, if the grief is bypassed.

persha stadiya, From dob to twos - tse shock і zarechennya vtrati. What does it mean? For example, if the relatives hear about death, the stench does not change in the price. Literally not to be lost in the price. So that the stench of repairing prodovzhuvati zvertatatis to likars, to those closest to them, but they confirmed it, but the truth is not so. At the last stage of the list of actions, the members of the family can get stuck on all the life. I know such women who do not look at the child of a child, for example, I carry the whole situation into a booth, the speeches of a dead child, who are perceived for themselves by a childish myth, that the axis of a child will turn in room and everything else.

Getting stuck at the last stage is even worse, it can lead to such dysfunction of the family, but it can literally fall apart in a literal sense. Bagato members of the family just leave such a family, the stench cannot get lost in them, it is impossible to live by entrusting them, who will continue to cleanse the long-deceased, abducted and lost, lost member of the family.

With a broach first time It’s very important, to support the funeral, the funeral, the funeral, the funeral, the commemoration, the commemoration and so far. The emotional and physical function of the family is even more pronounced here. And, of course, here it is necessary to show the turbo to friends, we know, close ones, and the members of the family themselves about those who need help, in self, in silence, in peace.

Two-five times That’s what it’s for the time of the month: there are many members of the family to turn to perfection - to robots, to the usual way of living, to their own right, like they were interrupted for a long time, perhaps, for someone less, for someone more. The first time the closest see more waste, the guests rose, and the distant relatives turned to their lives. The stench zalishayutsya from the price of empty waste. And they have a big gostro vinikak tuga, gniv, grief. The shock will pass, now is the hour of the hospitable bed, as it can be even more so - from the author of the months to three months, it is insisting that the stage has passed from the tightness and the fervor.

Three months to rock mourning, it is possible to say, seeing the feverishness, regressive behavior of the members of the family. For example, some of the members of the family can quickly remake themselves in the likeness of a little child, for which they need an extraordinary look and caution. You can, kogos torknettsya big world. And there will be a shukati of the intercessor of the behavior - the one who will be able to function as a deceased person. Tse can be the same members of the family. Children substitute for the father's father, father in one of the gras in the bend-over dead child and so far. In order to be able to see the divisiveness here, use the defender of behavior. It is obvious, with pathological behavior, with behavior, as to bring in more dysfunction, except for the grief itself.

Nareshty, see richnitsya... This is an even more important moment, since, according to the truth, there is no chance of being able to work with a child. Richnytsya is a very important podіya, if the mountains hang in private until the family symbolic grief, if the ritual completion is here. Tobto a commemoration, a commemoration, a divine service, a prayer, a trip to the storerooms, you can go to the other place, to the other district. Ale, at any time, relatives will know to rise, and in spilne grief will lie down the grief of the closest relatives. As soon as one does not get stuck, it’s not easy for the closest relatives to be separated from their mourning, not ready to be separated from their grief.

Does it mean stuck? Stuck - even if the stage cannot be improved, and the people cannot be improved. And this means that I don’t turn around until my everyday life, I don’t live my life in a pathological life, my mental state and I know my health.

nareshty, from p_vtora to two rockies If you spend this little power, you will turn to your own colossal life. Zrozumіlo, until kolishnyoї, even without that, hto pishov will be. Tobto until the end of the hour, the function of this family is overridden. The structure has come to the new stage by virtue of new roles: the role of substitution, the function of re-generation, the structure of the know-how is going to be transferred to the first stage. Zrozumilo, in a new pivot.

Since this is a part of the unnatural child, what will be the specifics of the stages? The stages are not the same. Here there may be grief, and here it is even more important, but the mother and father of the unnatural child were spiritually worried, lived in the same grief. Here, as a rule, outsiders do not take part, as they may simply not be dedicated in the whole. It’s even more important for him here, that the daddy's child - mother and father, cholovik and squad, - must smell at once, not at once, but at the same time they were experiencing grief, and the stench helped them to go through the stages. Ale in such a world is similar to the loss of a child, only there is no contact here, there is no visual memory, auditory memory, experience with the child. Here, all the crumbs are in a way, and here it is even more important to furnish, in front of which the child has gone. If you furnish it with the rank of being tied in the way of life of a friend's bet, or in particular the mother, who was blamed for the child, then there will, of course, be a serious problem with possibly guilty. And if there was a problem with health, because it’s not enough, then there may be some guilt because not everyone was stuck, because it’s because it’s stuck, it’s possible that it’s a problem with the recession, and it’s so specific, ...

Does it mean a robot with the grief of seven loved ones? First for everything, it is important to help the motherland go through all the stages... Yakim rank? At the dermal stage, it has its own behavioral symptoms. For example, at the stage of tightness and oppression, it is even more important to help with a close spogad the life of the deceased, to experience the knowledge of all this life, to repair from the earliest years of life, to look at the archives, the right, and the photograph. At the first stage, before it seems, singing myths pop up, it’s not degraded, so it’s such a rank to cope with grief. People look forward to singing thoughts, to discover what are the memorial ideas of the memorial, the album was folded and so far away. Tobto here є a lot of even more important speeches, which add to the experience. I think it’s additional help to the homeland to survive, that means, it’s because it’s hungry, it’s richly developed when it’s just one, and the same about the dead - about those who are sick, about those who have died, about those who have experienced the members of this moment in time everything is even more important.

pomichniks

It seems as if the robot is in the family, friends, loved ones - tse and but are present in the family and hearings endlessly, while repeating, as changing once in a time of grief, in addition to the occasional And, of course, you need to talk about your loved ones, who are experiencing grief, how they slept, the stench was asleep, they saw it, and turned quietly to life, like they were selling chekati.

Zrozumilo, again I am guilty of saying that a robot with grief, a robot with people, who have survived a difficult camp, is a serious robot, and I won’t be able to repent for everything, from the resources of the helpers themselves. So that the helpers will require diagnostics, the workers will require training, and the stench will take on the price. Naturally, it’s just as much of a thing about relatives as they don’t nourish. Relatives are grieving because of the stench of relatives, but not because the stench was taken to help. If there are volunteers who are close to know, then the stench is guilty of intelligence, but you can only smell it in the same way, as the stench itself is able to regulate its own emotional behavior, to complete the bout itself. And here there is another even more important ric: all additional help in a mountainous mountain needs to undergo a course of education in relation to magic and magic.

nourishment

Chi є risik, if you do not get close, but get lost in the face of the most grieving member of the family, why should the stench cope with the passage of the grief experience and continue the process?

Ні navpaki. As soon as the stench gets overshadowed, gets lost in this, death has begun, the stench will help podolati grief. So, again, I seem to re-live the life of the deceased, repeat, develop. All the important psychotherapeutic rituals, which help, and close - as times the people themselves, who can help the homeland.

What help can you get, how can substitutional behavior be manifested in this?

All the members of the family take on the whole substitutionary behavior and do not want to be amused at all, which they can help. For example, not a little boom, stretching out to fate, for two deaths of one of the members of the family, a child will pop up. The first one is called the one of the deceased. And to navіt even more than that, as bi priznachayut yo vіstititi that, especially as the elder child died, then when the young man was born, he nominates yak bi buti yoma as a patron. For if, for example, daddy is dead, the elder daughter takes care of the daddy's functions, for mothers and other children to replace daddy.

It's a pity, in such cases, the family is reluctant to learn about the current pathological situation, which is why this country is so powerful. And even more often, the very "intercessor", and quietly, if I accept it, I will help, I can wield such a camp. If some of the members of the family are ready to learn about it, to learn from them, the axis of that can be helped to learn about it, which has become so, and how it has become in the homeland in the whole situation. One cannot expect additional help.

It’s obvious that a person is stuck at the stage of bedding, but it’s not really, who can you help?

As soon as the lyudin does not want to go out of the stage, it is not possible for him to be forced to go. Ale, take it, you can be instructed and not to take part in yo myths. For example, mothers, marvel at the photograph of the blue, turn to death, like to live, talk to him, rejoice with him. It’s not a goiter’s fate. But you can not explain it and don’t take the matter into pure water, but you can don’t take part in this myth. You can absolutely firmly and unequivocally speak about a man, as about a man, pray for a new, zgaduvati yogo and do not bother seeing him, as you may think that a man hasn’t died. The axis will still be sufficient help. If you have a vipadku, ludin, who suffers from such stuckness, you can brutalize me, I can ask you for additional help, and if you ask me, maybe I’ll tell you it’s easier. And, maybe, I’ll see you out of the aggression, you get to live. Ale, take it, he will have a chance to find out the truth from the fact that he was entrusted with him.

Demand for intelligence, well there, de Lyudin wants to deceive himself, he wants to live in an unreal light, he wants to live in myth, we cannot change his life, we cannot force his life in reality. Ale mi sami, instructed to live, we can continue to live in reality, which does not play the mythology of the world.

Pidgotuvala Tamara Amelina

Natalya Kaptsova

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The death of a human being is not a cause of death, it’s more, if we do not see people close to us and dear to us. This is a waste of great shocks for anyone with us. At the moment of the loss of a person, I begin to see the loss of an emotional connection, if we feel guilty and unaccounted for before we die. All people perceived to be more oppressive, and may be severely depressed. To that, we wish you this year, how to survive the death of a loved one.

Death of a loved one: 7 stages of grief

Psychologists see 7 stages of sorrow, as all people are experiencing, sorrowful for the death of a close people. With a full tribute to the stage, do not scorn in the specific endorsement - the skin process takes place individually ... And the oskilki of the intelligence of the fact that you are going to see it, help you to get along with grief, I want you to tell me about the steps.
7 stages of sorrow:

1. The list.
   “It’s not true. It’s not a pity. This couldn’t have happened to me.” Fear is the main reason for exclusion. Your life has not become and has not changed at all. Calls, people in such a situation can simply be watched, or if they are actively involved in organizing a funeral, calling their relatives is not easy to survive. not grasping.
   However, it was pamyatati, that the people fell into zatipeninnya, not to seize the trouble of the funerals. The replacement of ritual services and the registration of all the necessary documents is fraught with destruction, dealing with people, and with such a rank it helps to get out of the situation.
   There are drops, if in the stage of being left out of the crowd the head is no longer adequate. I want such a reaction is short-term, I’ll still need help to get out of it. O. For many people, it is necessary to change, when you constantly name them on them, do not forget one thing and try to do three things ... And the axis is not so easy and calm, all the same is not possible.
   The stage is even more trivial. At the end of the period of a lyudin, he’s ready to go to the entrance of a loved one, and understand that he’s become with him. I as only Lyudin assuredly accepted, that the trapilia, in the beginning, goes through the stage to the offensive.
2. Gn_v, image, gn_v.
   Quite a lot of people will want to grow up, and to be projected for the whole new world. It’s a period of time for you to finish off good people, and it’s wrong to try to do it all. Such a storm of emotional viclikan sees the fact that everything is about to see, є a great injustice. The power of the whole emotional storm lies in the people themselves, and in addition, they are often called them.
3. Feel guilty.
   Lyudin is more and more often lost the moment we die, and come assimilated - there is little respect for me, there is even more sharp change. More and more often the thought "And why am I shattered, I will prevent death" comes to my head more and more often. There will be such fallacies, if you feel guilty about people wanting to go to see if you have survived all the stages of sorrow.
4. Depression.
   Tsei stage is most convenient for quiet people, like trimming all their emotsies in their own, not showing their feelings of despair. And at that hour, the stench hangs out from the middle of the people, I have begun to spend hope for those who, if something life turns into its normal course. They are overwhelmed in grievous sadness, they do not want to grieve, they have spied on them. Vin is in a gloomy camp and not in contact with other people. Namagayuchis to strangle your sentiment, the people will not let go of their negative energy, such a rank, which is more unhappy. When you waste dear people, depression can be annoying with important life advice, which can be overridden in all aspects of people’s life.
5. Praise for the fact that the pain has become and is relieved.
   At the end of an hour, people will go through all the stages of grief and, nareshti, make peace with him, how it has become. Now I can already take my life in my hands and direct it in the right direction. Yogo stun with a skin day will be pol_pshuvatysya, and anger and depression will be weak.
6. Vidrodzhennya.
   If I want a light without dear people to accept it smoothly, it is simply necessary to develop it. At the same time, a lyudin becomes uncommunicative and unrepentant, often thinking in oneself. Daniy step is trivial, it can be trivial from decіlkoh tizhnіv to decіlkoh rockіv.
7. A part of a new life.
   Passing through all the stages of grief in the life of people, they change a lot, including myself. Even more often, in a certain situation, people want to know new friends, change their minds. It’s not easy for the robot, but it’s where it’s living.

"Woe is old enough to be spared, if you feel special" (Erich Marya Remarque).

The theme of death is even more important, but even more important. Tse is prickly, unsupported, rapt's tragedy. Tim is more interested in seeing the close and native people. Such is the waste of the hunger for great shocks, the shock of the impact experienced by the blow left with scars in the soul for all life. Lyudin, at the moment of grief, saw the loss of an emotional call, saw a sense of the unconfirmed obligation and guilt. How can you fit in with the experiences, emotions, feelings and the life of the distance? How can I survive the death of a loved one? How can I help the one who sees it?

Putting a bitch suspension to death

“You don’t need a whole hour of placards”, “Trimaysya”, “Youmu is more beautiful there”, “Everything will be there” - all this will be brought to the attention of the mournful people. Buvah, vin vzagalit to get on with it. And it’s not like friends and colleagues of zhorystok and baiduzh people, it’s just a lot of people to be afraid of death and someone else’s grief. Bagato would like to help me, but I don’t know, yak і scho. The stench is afraid to show tactlessness, you can't know the right words. And the secret is to cry not in lukuvalny and votish words, but in clever visluhati and the date of the nobility, so you are busy with the order.

Today, the suspension of everything that is tied to death is unique: it’s unique, it’s seen as a complaint, it’s not like it’s grief. Children are afraid to report on death. In the society, there was a tendency to overconflict, but also a new manifestation of sorrow є I acquaint myself with a mental ailment or a breakdown. Slozi roztsіnyuyutsya as a nervous seizure.

Lyudin, in her sorrow, is lost on her own: you can't ring the phone at his booth, his people are unique, they are isolated from the support. Why do you think so? It is not known to me, how to help, how to get involved, how to say. We are not only deaths, but mournful ones. Evidently, spilkuvannya with them is not psychologically comfortable, the lack of hands is even more abundant. Can you cry, you need it, ale yak? What do you mean with him? Raptom zrobish still sick? Bagato we can’t know how to eat, go outside and wait for an hour, while the people themselves do not fit in with their second and do not come back to normal. Only spiritually strong people become entrusted with sorrowful ones in such a tragic moment.

The rituals of funeral and living in suspensions and retirement are like a relic of the past. Aje mi "civilized, intelligent and cultural people." Alle the same ancient traditions helped to properly survive the beat. For example, mourners, who were asked to the grave, who stink repeated the singing verbal formulas, winked at the quiet people, who were in a state of mind or shots.

At the present hour, it’s time to get into the wrong placards for bullies. I said about those who could deliver the rich souls of the dead, how the stench could be drowned on that light. For reasons of reason, the posters of the yakomog were taken less and streamed to yourself. Complaints and misplaced people before death may be even more dangerous for the psyche.

grief individually

All people in a rational way are experiencing bіl vtrati. To that end, grief at the stage (period), take it in psychology, cleverly and remember the dates of commemoration of the deceased in bagatokh holy religions.

At the stage, as people pass, pouring in the powerless factors: to become, vic, health, emotion, vikhovannya, emotional connection will die.

Aleksandr іsnuyut zagalny rules, as it is necessary to nobility, to assess the mental and emotional camp of the people, who are experiencing grief. It is necessary for the mother to manifest, as to survive the death of the closest people, as to help the one who has become unhappy. Introduce the lower rules and patterns to be applied to children who are experiencing more than a second. Ale before them, it is necessary to be placed with greater respect and protection.

Otzhe, near Lyudin died, how could he fit in with grief? In order to accept the food supply, you need to get back to be welcomed by the mournful people at all times.

hit

First of all, like seeing a lyudin, unsupported by the loss of a native, is the price of the unreasonable thing that has become. Yogi's head is spinning one single thought: "You can't get it!" The first reaction, yaku vin vidchuvah, is a shock. According to the essence, the main reaction of our body is such a "psychological anesthesia".

Shock comes in two forms:

• Zatіpenіnnya, unkindness of viconuvati zvichnі dії.
• Overwhelming activity, excitement, screaming, meticulousness.

Moreover, the tsi of the station can be cherguvatisya.

Lyudin can’t believe in those who have trapilia, because they have started a unique truth. At the bagatokh vipadkah sposterіgaє the rejection of the fact that it has become. Todi lyudina:

• Shukak is the person of the deceased in NATO people.
• Like him.
• Chuє the voice of pishov, seeing its presence.
• The plan is like a bedroom with him.
• Zberiga in the lack of a knot of yogic speech, oyag and everything that is tied with him.

If the lyudin’s stretching out for a trivial hour, I will shut up the fact of being lost, then the mechanism of self-deception will turn on. I don’t accept the waste, so I’m not ready to try the unbearable mental pain.

How can I survive the death of a loved one? Please, how to grow up to one in the cob period - to believe in those who were eating, allow them to be virvatis named, talk about them with those who are ready to listen, posters. Call the period for about 40 days. Iakshcho vin dragged on for a month or to see fate, then turn to a psychologist or a priest.

It is easy to see how the cycles go through the sorrow.

7 stages of grief

Yak to survive the death of loved ones? What is the stage of grief, how does the stench manifest itself? Psychologists see the singing stages of sorrow, as all people experience who have lost their loved ones. The stench does not go one after the one in strict adherence, the skin man has his own psychological period. The reason for being grief-stricken, as well as being able to cope with grief.

About the first reaction, shots and shocks, already the axis of the onset of the stage of grief:

1. The list of things to see.“This could not have happened” - the main reason for this reaction is fear. Lyudin is afraid of the fact that he has become, that will be far away. Rozum will shut down the reality, the people will overtake themselves in that which has not become anything. The name of the viglyada is zatzipenilim, or to get around, actively organizing the funeral. Ale tse zovsim does not mean that win is easily experienced at the expense, it is just that it is not until the end that it has learned, that it has become. Lyudin, as he is in zacipenіnnі, does not need to seize from the turbots and the troubles associated with the funeral. Execution of documents, organizing funerals and commemorations, replacing ritual services, flirting with people and helping to get out from the shock. Buvagh, in the camp of the zaprechennya lyudin ceases to think adequately the reality and light. Such a reaction is short-lived, it is necessary to change it from such a state. For a long time to talk to him, the whole hour nazivat yogo on im'ya, do not leave it on its own, go out of thought. If you don’t want to try and calm down, it won’t help. This step is not trivial. Vin nibi preparatory, the lyudin is morally ready for a fact that is no longer close. I as only win will understand that you have trapilia, go over to the onset stage.
2. Fierce, image, gn_v. Quite a lot of people will start to grumble. There are no connections for the whole world, for a lot of good people, everything is wrong. There is an internal overturning, about everything that is perceived as unfair. The power of the cich emots is to lay down all of the people. As soon as it felt like a breakdown to pass, the stage of grief immediately began.
3. Feel guilty. Win often guessed the dead, the moments of combining with him and starting to learn, how little respect came, abruptly or roughly, without asking for vibration, without saying how to love, and so far. A thought comes to my mind: "Why am I all shattered, why should I not allow death?" Buvaє, I feel like getting lost with people for all of my life.
4. Depression. It is even more easy to go through the whole stage in people, as everyone felt the sound of trimati when they didn’t show them and we felt good. The stench hangs out from the middle, the people draw in hope for those who will become normal. I think they were having fun, they had a frown, they didn't get in touch with other people, they were trying to strangle their feelings for the whole hour. Depression of the loss of native people and overload of video cards on all spheres of life.
5. Praise for the one that has become. At one o'clock, Lyudin put up with it, when it began. Win an initiative come to you, the life of the bolsh-mensh will improve. On a skin day, you will become weak, and the image and depression will be weak.
6. Step of recovery. The whole period of lyudin is not trademark, it’s a lot of things to move, and it’s often in oneself. Period to reach trivial and maybe trivial to decilkokh rock.
7. Organization of life without native people. Passing through all the stages in the life of the people, she survived the grief, there is a lot to change, and viciously, became the guilt itself. Bagato hto pragne to change the colish way of life, to know new friends, to change the robot, in one moment of living. Lyudina yak bi vibudovuє new model of life.

Symptoms of "normal" grief

Lindemann Erich saw the symptoms of "normal" grief, which seemed to develop in the skin of a man when he was too close. Otzhe, symptoms:

• physiological, to periodically repeat the attacks of the physical citizen: the feeling of pressure in the chest, attack of the empty stomach, weakness, dryness in the mouth, cramping in the throat.
• behavior- the price of efficiency, for the speed of the movement, the lack of consistency, being caught, the visibility of interest to the right, the gratitude, the sleeplessness, everything is to fall by hand.
• cognitive symptoms- the entanglement of thoughts, lack of confidence, difficult with respect and concentration.
• emotsіynі- Feeling the feverishness, self-reliance, troubles and guilt.

hour of sorrow

• Shock and zaprechennya to spend almost 48 years.
• With a stretch of the first time, you can help to promote the feast of your life (funeral, funeral, commemoration, commemoration).
• From 2 to 5 years old people will turn to the common right: robots, navchannі, wicked life. Alle the most important to fix the most important thing to see at the expense. They have a big gostro vinikak tuga, grief, gniv. The period of a hospitable bidkannya, which can drag on for a long hour.
• From three months to fate, it is a trifling mourning, a period of timelessness. Someone is ordered to be depressed, there is a need for additional turbot.
• Richnytsya is a very important step, if there is a ritual completion of the complaint. Tobto divine service, trip to the storerooms, commemoration. Relatives are coming up, and in spilne grief will lay down the sorrow of loved ones. Tse vidbuvaєtsya, as there is no getting stuck. So, if a person cannot be reconciled to a waste, if a person does not turn to a haunted life, he or she hovers at his own mountain, lost in his sorrow.

Vazhke life viprobuvannya

How can you survive the death of a loved one? How about all the blame and not angry? The loss of native people is one of the most important and serious viprobuvan in life. The skin has grown ludin in the second world. It is unreasonable to take people in your hands in this situation. It’s even more difficult to accept the waste, but it’s possible not to waste your statistics and try to cope with the stress.

It is a pity, there is no shy and universal way, as to survive the death of a close native people, but it is necessary to live all the visits in order that grief did not become important in the form of depression.

If you need additional help fahivtsya

Є people who “hang out” in their important emotional camp cannot self-mediate with grief and don’t know how to survive the death of a loved one. Psychology sees signs that they are guilty of alertness to otochuyushchikh, zmusiti inadvertently turns up to fahivtsya. It’s necessary to play, like a mournful man:

• persistently obtrusive thoughts about the lack and lack of purpose in life;
• the goal of unifying people;
• post-thoughts about suicide or death;
• spostering nezdatnist turn to the usual way of living for a trivial hour;
• hopeful reactions, persistent inadequate actions, uncontrolled smiles or crying;
• ruin to sleep, strong vrata abo wagi.

I want to know if I’ve made a announcement about a person who has recently survived the death of a dear one, and will turn to a psychologist more beautifully. In addition to helping the mournful grow up in your own and in your emotsiyah.

• Do not be seen as a friend of yours.
• Pikluvatsya about myself and my physical camp.
• Give free rein to your feelings and emotions.
• Try to see your feeling and emotions for additional creativity.
• Don't get up the clock for grief.
• Chi do not bring emotion, viplakati grief.
• Take on quiet, hto expensive and beloved, tobto live.

How can I survive the death of a loved one? Psychologists are happy to write a list of letters from life. In a new way, tell those who did not rise up to death, or seemingly for life, to know what it is. Zagalom, viplesnuti everything on papir. You can write about those who are not vistachaє people, about shkoduєte.

Those, who believe in magic, can turn for help and joy, as to survive the death of a close fellow, to the extreme. Smell, as vidomo, maybe good psychologists.

There are a lot of people in the vogue of khvilini to be killed to the Lord for help. How can I survive the death of a loved one? Priests to please the old and distant kind of sorrowful religion come and often to the temple, pray for the deceased, commemorate him in singing days.

How can you help people to transfer bіl from vrati

Even worse, bachiti is born to a lyudin, a friend, a well-known one, like only having trapped a relative. How can you help people to survive the death of a loved one?

If you want to endure it, a lot of people will get mad at the sight of the fact that it has become and is uniquely about death. Ale tse is not correct.

What is necessary to say, how about robiti, what about helping to survive the death of a loved one? Effective ways:

• Do not ignore him and talk about the deceased. Even at the moment of death, less than 6 months have passed, then all the thoughts of a friend or a relative are spinning around the deceased. Youmu even more importantly vigovoritsya and viplakatsya. It is not possible to impress you in your own emotions and feeling. However, if more fate has passed in the hour of tragedy, and all of them are brought up to the end, then the topic is changed.
• Accept the grieving of grief. Immediately after the tragedy, people do not need to do anything, they need only a moral response. Ale through a small number of tizhnіv varto, fix the pressure to the dummies of the people directly. Varto ask you to join me as a mission, sign up for a classroom course and so far.
• Switch to respect people. Just ask yogo nadati, I can help you. Show you what you need in your help and demand. I will kindly welcome the process of entry from the turboboot depression about the creature.

Yak to accept the death of a loved one

How can you sound before you lose and how can you survive the death of a loved one? Orthodox and churches give such pleasure:

• it is necessary to believe in the Mercy of the Lord;
• read prayers for the deceased;
• put candles in churches for the rest of the soul;
• give mercy and give help to the afflicted;
• if you need a spiritual help, you need to go to the church and turn up to the priest.

We cook until the death of a loved one

Death is a terrible podіya, it sounds so uncomfortable. For example, policemen, pathologists, patients, doctors, who bring a lot of deaths, why I’m going to die without an emotional sprymati, but all the stinks are afraid of my mighty look, I hope I do not know how to endure all people, people ...

Until death it is impossible to sound, but it is possible to educate itself psychologically before a glimpse of a person:

Vrata Batkiv is a great tragedy. Psychological connection, how to get up among the children, to rob them at the expense of even more important viprobuvannya. How can you survive the death of a loved one, mami? How robiti, if you are still dumb? Yak to fit in with grief? And how can I go through the death of a loved one, tata? And how can I go through grief, how can I smell the stench at once?

Skіlki it wouldn’t be a rock for us, it’s not easy to fit in with the second dad. We will be built when the stinks have come early early, but it will not come sooner or later. It is necessary to take an important vratu, the demand is imminent from the life of the city. It’s still a trivial hour to reach the father’s chi mother’s pishov in the dummies of the beast, I ask them for the sake of it, but you need to read life without it.

Cardinally changing life. Krym girkoti, sorrow and vtrati, vinykє vіdchuttya, how life was called into the prіrva. How to survive the death of a loved one and turn to life:

1. The fact is necessary to accept. The first thing you see is, it’s more beautiful. It is necessary to have a sense of intelligence, that people will not be with you anymore, that they will not turn around, nor will they be tormented by their souls. Demand to read life without mother or father.
2. Memory is the price of the greatest value of the people, in which we continue the lives of our father. Remember about them, do not forget about yourself, about your plans, right, pragmatic.
3. Proceedingly, I’ll get rid of the important spogadіv about death. The stench is to introduce people into depression. Psychologists gladden viplakatisya, you can go down to a psychologist or a priest. You can try to lead a schodennik, smut - do not trim everything in your own.
4. As long as self-reliance is required, it is necessary to know the one who needs the turbo and respect. You can have a home vikhovanets. Їх love is endless and life energy helps to help the grief.

There are a lot of ready-made recipes, how to survive the death of a loved one, absolutely for all people. Situations and emoticons in all cases. I worry about everything in a good way.

How can it be easier to survive the death of a loved one? It is necessary to know those who are to lull the soul, not to be ruined to show emotion and respect. Psychologists vvazhayut, woe to the need for "overturning", and only todi nastane.

In memory of a kind word i dilom

People often ask for food, as to lay down their grief for the death of a loved one. Yak z tsim life? Pole the problem is sometimes unfortunate and not necessary. The hour has come, if you can manage your grief. You can get rid of it, you can get rid of the riddle about the deceased. Perhaps, it’s possible to bring the right to the end. You can, in memory of new, take care of the grace, dedicate in honor of the new creation.

How to survive the death of a loved one? There is no universal and simple for the sake of it, a complex and complex and individual process. Ale naivazhlivishe:

• It is necessary to give an hour, so the wound has begun to heal.
• Do not be afraid to turn around for help, as it is necessary.
• It is necessary to quit for food і dotrimuvatisya regime of the day.
• Do not sleep and soothe yourself with alcohol or alcohol.
• Do not take care of yourself. It’s impossible to get around without zaspok_ilivikh lіkіv;
• It is necessary to talk about the deceased close to a man from usim, who is ready to hear.

I smut, accept the waste and impending life from the tsim - does not mean zabuti or zraditi. Tse zsіlennya, so that the correct і natural process.

visnovok

Before the people, the skin of us will take away its own place in the structure of its own kind. Alle yaku energy to surrender a man for his relatives, it becomes clear only if his life ends. Do not be afraid to talk about the dead man, tell more about new children, onuk and great-grandchildren. Douzhe good, as if to understand the legend of the family. As soon as a lyudin has lived his life, he will be lost in the hearts of the living, and the process of reassuring him will be able to rectify for good the memory of him.

An even greater number of people go to the site before us to help them survive the death of a loved one. Melodiously, one of the most frightening podoys of yakim is brought to people. At the end of the round table, it is worth discussing the topic. Yak fit in? Survive the yak?

Є The same understanding in Christian ideas and church vocabulary is humility. What kind of vishy sense will see people before you? What sense is it that you have been deprived of one of the only ones with grief? It’s sometimes like that, because it’s not reasonable, something hasn’t been known yet, it’s completely guilty of death. Our soul is a necessary admission for further development. Varto, in any vipadku, try to pamper in life those for the sake of which you have been given such an important step. There is nothing to be seen without a blind eye, and in such a situation they would rather blame the fact that they weren’t expensive, they weren’t sensible, they didn’t rise up and blame the visibility in the whole community.

As soon as the people really loved the people, then you should be mindful - as it was not too painful, you cannot think about yourself in the whole situation. If you have taken the decision to take it back to your home, and for those reasons. Melodiously vagomi. Often to power me up: why don't I believe in God? Todi I see it, I want the essence of everything not to change. God, nature, our guesses are one and the same. Christ having said, "The Kingdom of God is in your midst." And the whole soul of the people, the gleaming ball of yogo pіdsvіdomostі, seemingly my psychology. I see people from tsyu svit - not worth the third-party solution. The price of decision, the first for everything, the people themselves are most often unaware. Ale take it in harmony with the soul, nature, God - like it is good, so that it is from the point of view of metaphysics of solution.

A lot of preliminaries of human psyche and general psychophysiology and philosophy - thanatology - seem unambiguously about those, that the death of Nikolai is not vipadkov. Chi is not "bad", not "bezgluzda", but justified and prepared for all the lives of people. The first person is going to be, since from the point of view of the food, the senseu can and is ready.

Tsі thoughts can guide you to the end of grief, and even death is a price that can’t be changed. Ale "accept" - tse does not mean "survive by the way". Guilt speeches go hand in hand.

Experiencing - tse gave his emotions a stink like є. I don’t want to strangle you in your own sleep, screams, as if you didn’t want to, and we’ll feel "out of touch". If someone is terribly entrusted with you to perebuvat in such a camp - tse eh vibir, do not try to see more of them, there may be no stench of date. Ale YOURSELF, you can definitely let it be that you do not clutter up your safety. And if you are bazhanna, you can know that / quietly, that the intelligence of your experience and you can move to a small camp, accommodating you. Zokrem, for a whole and a professional additional help.

There is another aspect: there aren’t enough people to be passed over for guilt, it’s built, but the stench is like a rank, the stench could be "passed in advance," As a matter of fact, we are almost directly tied to people with a lack of confidence in their control and control over everything. If you are stronger than the price, you are more likely to be guilty. Lyudin, scrolling through the endless options in her head. Not in a moment or even if you cannot get it, but you need to try to accept it. Todi almost guilty stan vidstupati. Part of the wine in the world is a normal manifestation of grief, as it won’t go over to the chronic form.

A little more independent and more open bullets of people before the death of one of them, we are less risky, but the wine is becoming chronic. It is important to rethink that, go to the smallest grief, yours will die. Chi buli stinks stinking fallow? Are they awesome? Chi buli shirimi? As soon as you have broken what was known as pardon for the worn out to the dead - try to comprehend it again and try to try it for yourself. Even in this situation, we were not able to get in touch with an inaksha. First pardons could not be the main cause of their death - not so interpretative.

Unfortunately, such a great topic cannot be hunted down within the framework of one round table. Mabut, skin needs shukati svіy shlyakh accept, experiencing and dovіri svіtu. We are important є those who, for the death of those close to us, will not be too large, and the axis will become we - the virishuvati is dear to himself. And, I think, people will not be better off, if you have gone through the experience of grief, it will become more beautiful, you know, as you are looking for food in your life, consider that you are fed up to some new resources in your life.

I want to turn to my relatives, close friends of the people, who are especially badly and grievously worried about the loss ..

Pidtrimuite, or do not vismikuyte close to the difficult life of grief. The entire period of living is trivial with everyone in a reasonable way - from two months to two years. The laws of living are the same. Spochatku is a phase of shock: protest, zaprechennya, strong oppression ("You can't get it!")

at the onset of the stage of response: see and bend without strength to be angry, lute and drunken ("Why should I see it!?")

Woe to live step by step (at all the tempies!) And this is the third phase - to go out, to go out, see grief, go out, dissociate ...

I nareshty, turning to a new life !!

Just be entrusted, move, crouch, self-respect, if you see, mind you, you yourself cannot fit, but people are close to you; fakhivtsyam, as they practice in a straight line of psychological counseling.

I will pass without preseeding to practical additional help.

Those who I will proponent at the same time your respect, read it right up to the end, see yourself on the food supply, do not accept it. Know the calmness, the quiet moment, get ahead of those who are sick (don't turbulent and didn't worry about you), turn on the community.

One VAZHLIVE UMOVA - read the consultation not earlier, not in 2 months from the day of death of a loved one! In two months, you can just say goodbye to the past with your loved ones.

As soon as the end of the indicated term, prodovzhuet see the provinces, the severity of the waste, do not stop asking your food "Why has it become?!", think about the axis over what ...

"Memory is wonderful, ale of memory of the need, so good for you and good luck!"

Most often, we cannot accept the very fact of being close to people. All podії quiet days endlessly turn around, smash us, and make peace with him, but it has become unhappy.

Take in the whole day of the funeral process, helping the fate of those who are close to you, financial problems and all the other employees ... Let’s now be clear, as if you wanted to spend and grab your close people, as all the

- Think, yake a misce for a lover V would be drawn. There may be a great treasure trove, vіdkritiy pagorb, skela over the ocean, birch grove, or a grave on an open puddle ... Describe yourself with a report navkolishnіy landscape: trees, quits, hour of rock, kolіr hmare, sounds ... spokiynishhe?

Kudi Wee came to return the memory to the tribute, to bring the quits, to sit, or to stand, grabbing the head and making the deceased live ...

- Guess, yak vіn taking care of the wicked right, splitting with you, moving, sitting on the wicked mіsci ...

- Right at the same time (thoughts or voices) You can say everything you see on the way to the new and to the next entrance ...

- Yak vin marvel at you? ..

- What about you? ..

All alive have a singularity before they die.

- Think, you can work here on the earth, how did you get it? Let us know about the report ...

- Tell you that you are taking an opinion for that right, that you are on the ground, on yourself ...

- I axis at a time, if V took the view on itself, what if you wanted to correct it? May be your love, vision, awareness, memory ...

Take your eyes, marvel at the distance and send you back to the room.

- Illuminate your road with light, good, good light. Pray and devote to you in the next.

If you look at you in the slid, you can see, see, well, what the distance is, the closer you are. Like God, there is no distance, but for the sake of truth, there is no one near all.

Take youmu in the slid! You can give your love to you, if you want to. Axis yak at a time.

You can send you this light. I like only see in the breasts warmth, whiteness, shitlo dyyshov until new.

And now you can guide your love і light, і, you can see warmth in your breasts, intelligence, and the light of your life.

Do not go, see the warmth, if you want, the hour is not important ...

So, the death of a loved one is the most terrible thing. Well, maybe I don't have to wait, or the dermal one has its own thought ...

To transfer the price of Lyudin in his own way, in the world of strength, mental and physical, in fallowness from the steps of love to the dead people, since the person herself is put to understand "death" bagatokh factors ... About the step-by-step bidkannya - I will not repeat the words of my colleagues.

With the death of people close to us, we are old Skoda ... myself... There is a lot of confusion about those who like my life without mami chi tata (yak butt), who will give joy, or the recipe for pies, talk to whom and talk about the political situation in the country, who will call you "child", who do not care about your 40 ", But it’s just better for you on the back, you’ll be able to do it in your repairs, and you don’t call up early on the day of your nation ... as if it’s classmates, one woman has grown up, and started asking for those who rockiv, I didn't bachilis, she said: "I'm an orphan!" I didn’t sound smart, if I had lost my mother, but through ryk and tata, I was smart, which means in the first place my feelings, visions. It's not easy. Ale life is going on! So saying my tato.

It is important to take the death of a man. Tse - yogo share. Vaughn introduced people to the style, to lay it down. It’s not for us to judge, scold, get angry - the skin has its own life and its own death. We are not omnipotent, but change life. Nichto still not zatrimavshis in the whole world for now. Life and death are not healthy.

Zvinuvachuvati yourself in that, having told the close people inject rudely, for not having phoned again once, not having won the order at the moment of death, having picked up a "couple" from mathematics and my mother was confused - not varsity. Tse will not help, do not lodge the share of the deceased! Most often, it is unconfirmed (practical collective conscience) that people are not afraid to die instead of kohan people, if they are in a sickness, they can be more pragmatic to drink for a lot of people. Tse is not fit for the people, the yaka has died. Our love for them, fathers, relatives and close ones, friends and children may not be manifested in such a sacrificial form - it is important just to remember them, remember, robots, well, it’s good for them (they didn’t get to go to Karelia, but for example, so go there!), tell me about the dead, give їх image a place in your heart! Visotskiy spіvav about "... Garnu religion was invented by Indusi, who, having given us kіntsі, who cannot be called". So, virimo or not virimo, ala, mozhlvo, so tse and so. For example, if I'm talking with a client about the death of relatives, I think that people become a guardian angel! And that's all - weather it!

Yakshcho died of new-born babies, abortions, abortions, or when a wicked day - there is death, and it is important to burn off, accept. Having zrobivshi viglyad, but nothing has become special, curled up his heart, died - mi can not be borne by the tim, who will be born more. It is important to date the first person in the family system.

There is no need to judge a person, like, for example, at a funeral, for in the first moments, days, days of tragedy, no drops of tears are shed - tse reagent, not skinny posters. Well, it’s like, well it’s good to go to the mournful days, to someone, navpaki, it’s necessary to get on with it ... But you can’t touch the cold, or kiss at goodbye - take the price without evaluating it. Kozhen grieve, worried - in his own way, with his own speed, intensity, as if he allowed himself.

And mi, lively life, lively styles, because we are assigned and in the memory of the dead, very richly good!

See a psychologist - it’s hard to tell, people themselves often cannot cope with their grief.