Modification of the drawing methodology "My family" - "I want to see you" Otzhe, We have made a deprivation of the first crocs for diagnostics of family problems for the setting of prosthetics and the setting of the universal one-hour test “My family”. However, just look more into the soul of the child, Vi

V the rest of the rockіstotno gain interest to the family other regions scientific knowledge, both theoreticians and practitioners. On the day, the day is in the Danish hour є in the sphere of polydisciplinary education. Interest before the dressing with this roll, as you see it in the process of forming and developing the specialness, and also, the current and possible suspension as a whole. Volodiyuchi stikistyu and nivit deyako rigidity, the family even more sensitively reacts to the social, economic and political processes, which are brought into suspensions through changes in the system of mines. Increase in the number of problematic families per hour of transition, crisis periods suspension developmentіlustru tsyu fallowness.

Pidtrimka sіm'ї and hardening її її to the potential of wіmagа from fakhіvtsіv, wіth work out wіth thіm іmіу, gross systemic knowledge, minus the beginning of the points of application of professional knowledge, know and the adequate means of wіll іnobіdіmіnіm. The newcomer for maybut pedagogues-psychologists and social pedagogues systematized developmental and foreign-minded approaches to understanding the laws of functionality and development of a child's robot, as well as methods of psychology. Pratsuyuchi over the posibnik, author of the date of the whole announcement about this as the subject of psychological analysis and psychological and pedagogical practice. The central idea, laid down in its basis, is seen in the view of this particular system, which is characterized by a singing cycle of processes of formation and development, as well as a special space, within the framework of which people live healthy and creatively meaningful life.

The proponent is made up of seven different types of skin that open up to the aspect of the psychological analysis of the family and describes the sphere of psychological and pedagogical flow into the world.

In connection with that, that Russia is a nation-wide power, one of the paragraphs of the assignments to the peculiarities and functions of the family, we will summarize them with ethnic and confessional factors.

The chapter of Okrem is assigned to a new field of activity for the survivors of the family - psychological counseling of the family. Here you can also look at the main psychological schools to robotics from the family, including the information provided by Russian psychologists.

The remaining chapter is dedicated to the psychological and pedagogical diagnostics of the problem field, to the methods of robotics. They have proponents of methods and technologies, fixing robots at different stages of operation, which can be used for making practical tools for the development of practical problems.

In the list of skin razdilu proponyuyutsya nutrition for discussion and a list of recommended literature for a large amount of vivchennya given by those.

CHAPTER 1
SIM'YA YAK OB'OKT psychological DOSLIDZHENNYA I VPLIVU

1. PSYCHOLOGICHNY ZM_ST PONYATTYA "SIM'YA"

The significance of the family in the scientific literature is to reach a lot, moreover, the rich definitions have long gone into a suspension of evidence, but it is important to establish the authorship of these values.

The family is established as a social institute, as a center of support, as a small group living in spirits and leading the spirit of the government of relatives. However, the psychological approach to the development of the family (in the opinion, for example, from the sociological and economic development) has its own specifics. Within the framework of the whole approach Seeming to look like a space of social living, in the middle of which you are satisfied with the specific needs of people tied by blood and native ties. The whole space is to complete a foldable structure, to build up from a variety of elements (roles, positions, coalitions, etc.) and systems and interrelationships between members. So the structure is based on the laws of the living organism, so there is a natural dynamism, passing through a number of phases and stages in its development.

From the point of view of a family psychologist G. Naviteis, The purpose of the psychological day-to-day life of the family can be attributed to the goals of the psychologist's relationship with the family. G. Navaytis is negotiated with the witness of the family, as it is thoroughly done with the advice of the family psychologist. Win proponuє to introduce an understanding of the family as a small group, as I will reject the professional psychological help from the side of the fahivts. Zmist understand "sim'ya" open through a row of positions.

family— group, yak to satisfy consumers of their members. Consume most successfully to be satisfied with the unique interaction of specific people.

The main feature of the family relationship is to meet the satisfaction of the growing needs.

For the satisfaction of the knitted with the seven requirements, the structure of the family roles is set up.

The family structure and functions of the family develop naturally.

Psychological counseling for the family of additional assistance to the consumption and satisfaction of consumption, tying with the family, optimizing the family structure and development of the family.

The need for advice from a family of growth at the moment of transition from one stage of development to the first.

Periodization of the development of the family can be started for the supremacy of the number of names that are tied to the family, of their significance.

On the skin stage of development, there is a specific development, without the revision of which it is unwise to go to a new stage.

Vidomy vіtchiznyany psychologist V. Druzhinin I propose a simple system of free coordinates, which are used to see the psychologist's self-designation at the vibration of the family as an object of psychological awareness. It’s worth talking about those who, before the last days, can go up to seven on two different scales:

"Normal— abnormal sіm'ya ";

"Ideal— the family is real. "

I look at the scale, Druzhinin viznachaє the witness "normal sіm'ya" yak homeland, which will not provide for the necessary minimum for the good-natured person, for the social welfare and for the socialization of the members and for the socialization of children to reach their psychological and physical development. Such is the homeland, de-vidpovidal'st for this whole thing is not a dad. All the types of families, even if the rule is not to be seen, Druzhinin vvazhaє abnormal.

Within the framework of another scale of the understand "ideal family" It starts as a normative model of the family, as it is accepted by the suspension and seen in collective manifestations of that culture, the leading rank of the religious.

Small. 1. Scheme of psychological thoughts of real families

Tse, zokrema, means that the psychological structure of the normative Orthodox family (the structure includes the particularities of power, the view of the social proximity of the father, mother and child) is significant in Tipi ideal families are brought up to the rank of chief, culturologists. pid real family Rose is concrete, as a real group and object of communication. Druzhinin pidkreslyuє, when a certain type of a subject is to be seen, it is necessary to clearly understand what type of this is to be seen. In such a rank, psychologists understand the realities of the family from the point of view of seeing the norms.

The price can be illustrated with small number 1, de colo is a graphical image of the vastness of psychological thoughts.

2.SIM'YA YAK PROSTIR ZHITTЄDIYALNOSTI

Nautsi has a word "Life" victorious different values... All organic (alive) nature is known to me, in view of inorganic (inanimate) nature. Life, being opposed to death, is the essence of all processes of life of people.

Investigation of the fact that life can be assigned to a person, and specifically to a specialty, came in the end of the XIX - the ear of the XX century. The process of learning is tied to the philosophy of individualism.

Itself todi is to appear and legally to be locked up "Private life". Ilystruyuchi tse phenomenon, the author relies on artist literature that hour, zaduyuchi, zokrema, romance D. Galsworth"Saga about Foresight".

Tsey roman є a kind chronicle of the same English family with a stretch of decilkokh pokolin. Population, shlyub, separation, funeral, please with the private right of the family clan, the zealous vision of the life of the "people". A typical representative of the family є Some Forsyth. Yogo family of tragedy - the tragedy of a people is unjustified, but not wicked love in his squad and mind. The squadron guards through the death of the kohan - and the whole behavior of Soames Forsythe in the whole situation is to begin without the bazhans from shutting the doors of their booth tightly, to regulate the dramatic situation.

... I raptom win, shoo the doors of the booth to see and on the poros, chornyuchi on the lighted holu, with his back to the new, stand like a cholovik. His heart zaschulos, win quietly go to go.

I wien energized quickly:

— Would you like it, sir?

Dunno turning around. Tse buv young Jolyon. - The doors of the bullet are open, - having said win. - Can I beat your squad? I have a prerogative.

Some marveled at the new bevel.

My squad doesn’t accept anyone, ”Winn muttered gloomily.

Young Jolyon myako reported:

I will not override it.

Some squeezed past the new one, blocking the entrance.

I won’t accept anyone,— Once again, having said vin, and a sound similar to the garchanya, waving from your throat ...

Tse my budynoks, - having said win.— I will not allow myself to get involved in my righteousness. I have already told you, and I will repeat again: it is not accepted.

I conceived doors before Jolyon.

The vision of a private life in the capacity of a basic understanding will inevitably be mezakh sim'ї as a special spaciousness of living.

I will be even more precise with the illustration of the internal cordons, so that the space of the family is divided into the cholovych and the woman's sphere injected (more precisely, on the spheres, so that the father and mother will expand), you can know the writer F. Iskander in the announcement "The Great Day of the Great Budinku". Wine with humor and love describes the life of the great Abkhaz family, who lives in the girsky village and has preserved all the victories and traditions of the patriarchal way of life. Describe to fix in a moment, if the father motivates corn with the blue.

... Mother walked into the kitchen, moving to the mud, shouted towards the field:

My lads, ob_dati.

Ydemo!— The brothers began to cheerfully, not prikhovyuchi joy of the transition from the dreadful possession of the old man to the softness of the mother’s power.

Khvilin ten times later the bad'oro brothers went to the house. Daddy, like a bit of time, the mercy of the power, do not keep up with the success of them. The brothers threw their motes on the kitchen veranda. Father, according to the skin of them, trying to touch with his hand, the blades on the handles are trimmed. As soon as I was building, I would like to get ready until the hour of the arrival of my power ...

I’m going to hurt, like, on my dad’s dummy, dragging on too long, win, razdratovaniyu to drive the lost hour of my power, buy blue: “Why did they grow up there? Vi scho, don't bach, de sonce? We missed the dream, the sun! ... "

Brothers, smіyuchis, reluctantly got up і, taking their motik, viralis followed the daddy.

— Himself hung up, yak the devil, and the children are not allowed to pass, - dissatisfied, do not let their heads go, mother, if the blue passed by. Ale on the voice її can be seen boo, її is nadovgo hour, until the evening itself, it’s gone and there’s nothing to do with it.

life Rose in two aspects: as the living of the life of the most significant life, and as the life-creative activity in the development of life. Prominent philosopher and psychologist E. Fromm, Seemingly about love, yak about active forces, meaning, for creative specialties“Give - radisnish, nizh brothers” not to the one who is amused, but to the one who, in the process of “give”, is the main manifestation of individual life.

Sneuvanya in the vastness of the seven allows people to satisfy the need for a symbolic continuation of life after death. The existential psychology is aware of those who are the testimony of death ("death") is an important determinant of human awareness and behavior.

Є a group of nobles, like a man to reach the symbolic immortality.

first shlyakh— biological. Win transfer vlasny life through the offspring, through the endless lance of biological links. The family, as a space for the living of a man and a woman, reduces the frustration of death, allowing for the painful fear of not bothering through the people of children and onukov.

another way— "Creative". Wine is a symbolic continuation of life through its path, through a special way of infusing onto other people. Fathers, scooping up a special education from the family, transmitting their information to their children, giving an ear to the endless lance of translations of interests and values.

third way— transcendental way of internal information. Tsey shlyakh transferred to the symbolic immortality for the rakhunok of the deeply buried yak at the power of the emotsia, as well as in the emotsia, distributed to the "inshim". Lyudina is like a biathlonist who has experienced an intense experience, as soon as the hour and death are known, and I have lost life in the "uninterrupted" life. The family, establishing the boundaries of private life, will not allow for the possibility of rejecting the affluent and emotional happiness with the other people (so, for example, the mother "draws" herself into the symbiosis with the child, and the person lives the hour)

By the day, the seven permits the satisfaction of the consumer, which is the basis for the development of specialness. Naybіlsh vіdomoyu clasifіkіyu cich clasіfіkіy, proponated by one of the founders in the humanistic theory of specialness A. Maslow. Zgіdno Maslow (1999), іsnu n'yat groups of people who need to be united in an іnrarchіchnu structure:

physiological consumer(Consume in їzhі, odyazі, zhitlo, snі, addiction, sex, etc.). For the mutual satisfaction of the cich, the needs in the family must be understood: the territory of the sleeping quarters, the state of the art, the sexual relations between the girlfriends and the other;

Consume in a safe way. Prior to them, there is a need for organization, stability, transfer of ideas, unique contacts with fears, ailments and chaos. For the satisfaction of the cich, the child needs, for example, it is necessary to live in the homeland, a deceptive, stable order of life.

With a permissive, tolerable day for the daddy, even for an hour of sleep, for a long time, as well as for the daytime, the child's fence is clearly formed, the child starts to see the stability, starts to live, to live the middle. Naybіlsh ruinіvnymi officials, scho blocking the satisfaction of consumers in safety, such podії, such as welding, separation, separation, death;

the need for belonging and love. The very first time in life is that people see belonging to a group of people, united with him by blood ties and emotional ties, so that they can preserve love and psychological comfort. People with deprivation of need in love, as they grew up in a problematic, dysfunctional family (for the pose is in the minds of a childish ward), appear undead in the mayybut until the emergence of glaring loved ones, who are alone. One of the minds is formulated with a sense of belonging to the last vidnosyn intimacy, as they are in the middle of the family space. These days of identity are set on the first stages of family life for a special type of family life, for members of the family The managers of the whole skin are real because of their uniqueness;

need for povazi (samopovagu). Sim'ya can directly and bit by bit satisfy the need of people in self-preparation and povazi from the side of them. The very fact of being obvious from people is to rob him of being socially successful. People who don’t mind the family, children, and also didn’t save the family (breeding), traditionally sleep as socially ineffective. An illustration of a social and psychological phenomenon є, for example, be it a vibrant company: a lyudin, who rozrahovuє to help the vibors with the help of a socially significant post, you cannot allow yourself not to the mother of the family.

Consumers can be directly satisfied with the fact that the skin of the members of the family can perceive their own identity and significance in this group. In the harmonious, functional systems, the skin of the people knows their own place, the role and the ability to pour into the system as a whole;

demand for self-actualization. Maslow, describing self-actualization as a bazhanya of people, statistic, who may be, will increase the realizuvatie creative potential. For Maslow, children, wiggle around in a friendly, lovly, safe atmosphere, push to a special growth. Fathers otmuyut the power of realizovuvati to themselves from vikhovanny children. Seven can become the middle race itself, in which the health of the members opens up. For the whole, Volodya is guilty of a number of characteristics: in the homeland, it is love, mutual love, not guilty of the mother, the symbiose and the coalition, all of which are one of the members of the family of the exploiter.

It is possible, for all intents and purposes, that the sub'active value of the family is due to the fact that, in any case, it is possible to allow the creation of socially meaningful situations for the people. This situation allows you to experience your own family and children for the new camp. Moreover, for some people, in their central role, they will be positive, constructively become and emotions (for example, such as lack, joy, angry, closeness), and for others - negative, design, become images, eggs, fear). The very fact is that there can be some kind of unions, all the way through which friendships are created for the mutual satisfaction of the so-called “neurotic needs”. For example, the squad allows the cholovikov to see themselves for an hour from the hour of the turbulent, uncontrollable "child", to be punished for sexual intercourse with the other women. Such is the behavior of the cholovik, in his own devil, allowing the squad to realize the demand in the dominance and moral overthrow over the cholovik.

To deliver, in general and psychologically, exactly this kind of mutually described and analyzed by an American psychotherapist and psychoanalytic theorist directly, a master of transactional analysis E. Bern.

The basic principles of Berne's theory can be determined as one step before the basic types of needs of the people, which can be satisfied with the middle of the family's living space. From the point of view of Bern, the basic needs are such.

Requirement for the knowledge ("Hunger for the knowledge") to be pleased in the family for the rakhunok "pogladzhuvan". The author calls it a pogladzhuvannyam be-yak dia, so allowance is made to recognize the presence of the people. It can be realized in any forms: from an intimate physical contact and a dotik to a gentle verbal beast and the like. In a dysfunctional family, when interacting, it is NOT stroking, but By "blows". Yak blows to act out, as to transfer the ignorance, concern of the partner (beatings, images, criticism, visceralism, communication from physical contact, etc.). The atmosphere is similar to the family, which is a block of satisfaction with the consumer, є the citizens and the psychological problems of the family members.

The need for a structured hour ("structural hunger", satisfaction with whatever is allowed to unicati nudga) can be satisfied in different forms: rituals, an hour, dyalnost, igrah, proximity. The space of the family allows realizing everything that Bern sees, forming the interaction between people. The skin is real, it will be characterized by the fact that it is structured in the form of pererakhovannyh vische. For example, "structural hunger" can be satisfied with the attention of family rituals in the eyes of the immaterial, formalized traditions. For example, there can be a traditional non-routine discussion, about the connection between relatives, standard verbal calls and promises, which are the squad who guides the man to the robot and so on. establishment "order diy.

hour not so formalized and transferred to interaction, like a ritual, a little more repetition. For example, in the family it is customary to spend the weekend at the dachas.

A skinny member of the family is kindly aware that I’m going to be working and talking about and going to be working and talking about it (mother will know again about Father’s appetite, I’m going to fall asleep at the newspaper, go to sleep through a bicycle, but make peace, go for an hour to swim will be healthy, etc.). Hour yak is the form of vtamuvannya "structural hunger" vimagha to see the deyakogo rule - you can speak only on the permissible ones and in the permissible style. The spilkuvannya of the members of the family is superficial, "light" character, but not allowing for the exchange of real and deep experiences. Protest, just allow the family to see their stability.

The basis of family life can also be based on different options of Igor. pid groyu Bern Rose is a substitute for true proximity. All іgry є deyako manіpulіatsіvіy campі and behave іnshoi people. Smell to take revenge on one's "bait", which vicorists one of the human weaknesses (insanity, greed, fervor, sexual incontinence, foolishness, etc.). Call for more information about the weaknesses of your family partner. Bern described a great number of girlfriends igor, most of them are like “Yakby not ty”, “Frigidna woman”, “Hunted housewife”, “Bachish, as I’m wooed”, “Well, I’m caught, alcoholic! ".

activity- tse those, shho Bern called by robot. Sisnuyutsya sіm'ї, vibrating spіlkuvannya near singing form of activity. For example, all the members of the family are the same private organizations. During the whole hour of the seven I will devote to the social solutions of the virobnichny houses. It is possible to see and todi, if a person and a woman are colleagues, work on one right, work, for example, on one science project.

proximity Bern's name is higher than the one put by people with a vilny exchange, which is more effective. Just closeness, as I am in harmony with the world, as I do not feel the fear of the spirits, will allow me to increase the satisfaction as “structural hunger” and “hunger for the knowledge” of all members of the family.

3. SIM'YA YAK SOCIAL INSTITUTE І SMALL GROUP

Spіvvіdnoshennya to understand "shlyub" and "sіm'ya"

The family survived all the viprobuvannya hour and spaciousness. The year's family is in every part of the world, and the history is rich in thousands. The significance of the family in the life of the individual and the suspension is unwise to reappraise. Ale kozhne pokolinnya feeling the truth anew.

The science about family is developing in the minds of the versatility of family structures and the versatility of people being aware of the family and the love. The skinny inhabitant of our planet loves to be competent in the field of love and family life. People are even more eager to talk about love, love, children, relatives on the side of a man and a squad, to share one with one "recipes" for resolving problems of the day. A teacher, or a psychologist, can conceive of a powerful concept of the family, as hour by hour one can disagree with his professional position. The accumulation of life knowledge and the joke of reliable scientific facts are combined with a mental method: intelligence, which is the rank of preserving the stability of the institute of the ship and the family, as it is the development of the family who is living in the future.

In the ever-growing witness of the witness, "shlyub" and "family" can be ottozhnyuvatisya, but in nautsi it is accepted їkh razmezhovuvati. In the first term, the social and legal aspects of family and native peoples are visible. schlyub є a suspicious institute, which regulates the number of articles. A man and a woman will act in a new and as a specialty, as a huge power. The social character of the slut appears, the first for everything, in the public form of its arrangement, in the control of the suspension of the choice of favorite partners, v recession of family lane.

philosophical encyclopedic vocabulary The treatment is historically summarized, sanctioned and regulated by the suspension of the form of one to one child and one to one child. Sanctioning children, taking care of the crop for their protection and imposing on partners the responsibility for the material safety and health of children, and for ourselves - for the future of the family. The success can give material assistance to the motherland, well є warehouse part social and demographic policy of any state.

The great fakhіvets in the halluz of sociology of the family A.G. Kharchev rozumiv I like to historically minify the social form of one between a man and a woman, for the rest of which I have an orderly and sanctioned status of life and will establish my friends, my father’s rights.

S.I. hunger beastly respect for those who are in love with the whole historically developmental mechanisms of social regulation (taboo, call, tradition, religion, law, morality) of sexual ideas between people and women Social recognition of the ship - vidvorennya. Sounds like a vaping visnovok, but one-way slut is nonsense, and homosexual intercourse is a reality. At the same time, in specific minds the social meta gateway may or may not be realized.

The value of a whore in haunted life people can be covered by the sacrament of the church. Friendship stosunki are sanctified by the church, which means the lack of vigor, steel, good fortune.

In a given hour, in large numbers of people, there is a voluntary union of a man and a woman, a foundation for mutual scholarship and special housekeeping, registration in the manner prescribed by law, straightening to the root and preserving the family. Heads of law protect the boat and blood-spirited individuals will take care of the social security of their specialties. Protest, not all bets go to legal registration of the boat.

The order with the freedom of laying the boat, can be the freedom of your development, you can turn around in separation. To that, it is up to the area of ​​favorite behavior to be introduced and to a series of partners, to bring about separation (i.e., the step-by-step acquaintance of friends is one from one) and separation.

V happy holiday The variability of the models of any kind of monogamy is promoted, the type of whore is formed, є alternatives to the classic monogamy.

witness "sіm'ya" the designation for the characteristics of the folding system and the mutual relations of friends, children, relatives. This kind of twists and turns in the laconic formula of S.I. Hunger like looking homeland yak sukupnіst іndivіdіv, schokladayutsya, shonaimensh, in one of three types of wіdnosin: blood dispute, bred, power.

Hopefully the tradition of the given understanding, to be seen in the bagatokh previdkovyh visions. family — the most important form of organizing a special life, a kind of social spirituality, a small group, is based on a friendship alliance, native calls or reinforcement, that is, on different sides, between brothers and sisters, brothers and sisters, brothers and sisters to live at the same time and in the spirit of the state. However, the life is to make deyaki korektivi in ​​the same reason. In the morning, the "guest" (regularly-distributed) is developing, which is the transfer of accommodation to friends with a stretch to reach a trivial interval for an hour.

Bagato fahivtsiv vikoristovuyt viznachennya sіm'ї, proponated A.G. Kharchovі: "sіm'ya— tse іstorichno-specific system vzaєmin mіzh podruzhzhyam, mіzh dad i dіtmi, tse small sotsіalna grup, member of yakoї pov'yazanі shlyubnimi abo batkіvskimi vіdnosinami, spіlnіstyu pobutu i vzaєmnoyu moral vіdpovіdalnіstyu, sotsіalna neobhіdnіst in yakіy obumovlena require suspіlstva fіzichnomu i have spiritual vіdtvorennі population ".

ROSVITOK OF SCIENCE ABOUT THE SIM'U I HISTORICAL ZMINI SIM'Ї TA SHLUBU

Sіm'ї that sluice has been assigned without a loneliness for a long time to our days. Even the ancient misters Plato and Aristotle primed their glances at everybody and the family, criticized the type of the present day and hung over the projects of their re-creation.

Science has great and reliable information about the nature of family changes in the history of development of the suspension. The change of the family evolved from promiscuity (heartless sounds), group whore, matriarchy and patriarchy to monogamy. The family passed from the lower form to the higher in the world, as the suspension was growing along the lines of development.

Along with ethnographic preliminaries, three epochs can be seen in the history of people: savagery, barbarism and civilization. The skin of them has little of its own suspicious institute, dominates the form of one between the head and the woman, its own family.

The Swiss historian I. J. Ba-hofen, who wrote the book "Mother's Right" (1861), and the Scottish lawyer J.F. McLennan, author of the "Pervisna Shlyub" (1865).

The early stages of the suspension development of the bull are characterized by the lack of control of the head. With the emergence of canopies of a group of shlyub vinik, which regulates the price of vidnosini. Groups of choloviks and women lived on orders and were housed in a “communal shlyubi” - a leather cholovik having enthralled himself with all the women. The group family was gradually formed, in which the woman took a special position. Through heterism (gynecocracy) - these nines, based on the high position of women in the suspension, - went all the people straight to the individual whore and family. Children were transferred to the group of women and only the older ones moved to the group to the number of people. A collection of dominant endogamies - vilny ties all the way through the middle of the genus, perhaps, as a result of the recognition of social "taboos", exogamy (from the Greek. nyogo with members of their spilot. Riddling together in halves, in the course of the passage of two linen exogamous tribes, or phratry (dual-clan organization), in the skin of young people and women could not enter the middle of a dog with one dog, but a couple of women іншої half of the family. Taboo іntsestu (fence on іntsest) until E. Westermark. Win doviv, that the social norm is tough to change. There was a consanguineous family: the lovers of the group, the bullets were distributed for the ichni, the articles of the ring between the fathers and the children were turned on.

The Punalual family, a group shlyub, who hunted the brothers with the druzhinami or a group of sisters with the dwellers, fell into place. Such family had a statute of calls between sisters and brothers. The dispute was based on the mother's line, but the fatherhood was unavoidable. Such families were promoted by L. Morgan in the Indian tribes of Pivnichnoy America.

Then a polygamous schlub was formed: richness, polyandry. Dikuni drove the new-born females, through the skin tribe there was an excess of choloviks, and the females were mali kilka cholovikiv. In this situation, if the dispute over the father’s line of reason was unfortunate, the mother’s right was given (the right to the child was lost for the mother).

The baggage service was awarded through the second hour There were not many choloviks, and the stench of a few squads was small.

A certain role in the family passed from women (matriarchy) to cholovik (patriarchy). For his sutta, the patriarchy of dressing with concessionary law, so that it is the rule of the dad, not the cholovika. The zavdannya of the woman was made up to the people of the children, the decline of the dad. Because of her, she saw her friend's wickedness, some motherhood was obvious, but fatherhood was not.

In the code of Babylonian king Hammurabi, for a thousand years before our era, monogamy was voided, but at the same time, the inconsistency of the people and women was fixed. Pan in a monogamous family, becoming a cholovik-batko, in order to wipe out power in the hands of blood recessions. The warehouse is meaningfully interconnected, from the women of the bully, the best friend is needed, and the love of zhorstoko karalos Choloviks, however, allowed the brothers to be a concubine. Similar laws were seen in the ancient and middle centuries in these lands.

Bagato in the history of ethnography meant that it was the antithesis of monogamy and prostitution. In the deyakie suspensions, the bula has been extended so called the religion of prostitution: the leader of the tribe, the priest who is the representative of the government, has the right to spend with the named Pershu shlyubnu nich. Panuvalo perekonannya, shho priest, korystuyuchitsya right first night, sanctifying shlyub. It is a great honor for the young to be in love, as the king himself was right on the first night.

For those who are preoccupied with the problems of this, the basic stages of the Evolution are quilted: the more common among all the peoples of the rakhunok of disputes for their mothers having passed the rakhunka of disputes for Batkov; on the first generic articles of every kind, with the time-honored (short and vipadkovy) monogamous sounds of the panuval, the freedom of love is wide; step by step, the freedom of the life of the article was intermingled, a number of individuals changed, and the right to that chi іnshu woman (aka cholovіka) was changed; The dynamism of all types of singles in the history of the development of the suspension was in the transition from a group slut to an individual one.

In the course of history, our fathers and children were also transformed. Razr_znyayut a wide range of styles from children to children.

Infantіtsіdniy - child abuse, violence (long ago until the IV century. N. e.).

Kidag - the child is seen in the year of the Valnitsa, in a strange family, in a monastery and in. (IV-XVII centuries).

Ambivalent - children do not get involved in the rightful members of the family, they see themselves as self-reliant, indivisible, “stick” in “image and likeness”, at times they punish the support harshly (XIV-XVII centuries).

Obsessive - the child is a little closer to the fathers, his behavior is suvoro regulated, internal light controlled (XVIII century).

Socializing - Zusilla daddy is recruited for the preparation of children to an independent life, shaped by character; a child for them is an object of vikhovannya і navchannya (XIX - ear of the XX century).

Dopomagaє - dad to stop taking care of the individual development of the child from the urahuvannya of her strengths and health, to establish emotional contact (mid-XX century - the present hour).

At the XIX century. appear empirical dosage Emotional sphere of the family, sipping and consuming members (the first for all robots is Frederic LePle). Seems to live like a small group with a snare cycle of life, history, function and fall. The subject of advancement is feeling, prejudice, rosum and moral life. In the historical dynamism of the development of the family's children, Leple stated the direction from the patriarchal type of the family to the unstable, developing and growing old fathers and children, from the weakened authority of the fathers,

Duration of communication in the family in the family is to concentrate on the development of life, society, social development, closeness of family members in the development of social and family and the last).

The development of the suspension determined the change in the system of values ​​and social norms of the hobby and the family, so that the expansion of the family, the socio-cultural norms of the high-end population, the vitality of the peoples of the low-stature.

National features of family members

Until the middle of the XIX century. The family was seen as a micro-model of the suspension, the social model of the suspension was seen from the family, the suspension itself was interpreted by the presenters as it grew wider, which is why it was the patriarchal attributes of the subordinates:

In the ethnography of accumulations there is a great material that shows national specialties vidnosin at home. So, Monogamy dominates in Ancient Greece. Sem'ї bully numerically. Diyalo taboo incestu. Daddy will become the master of his squad, children, spivmeshkanok. The choloviks were protected by great rights. Women for the joy were given to the suvor square, however, the Spartan could send his squad to be a guest, who asked for it. The children of those choloviks left their homeland, as the boys were healthy.

Ancient Rome had a monogamy, ale for the love of the boules widened. As a matter of fact, up to the laws of Roman law, it’s easy to use it for children. Great significance was given to the fun ceremony, superbly expensive, written down to dribnits. The authority of the daddy was vinyatkov, the children grew up only to you. The woman got involved in part of the lane cholovika.

Science is giving great information about the inflow of Christianity to the Institute of Sims in Bagatokh Lands of the World. Church doctrine sanctified monogamy, sexual purity, value, zrajuvala anathematization and polytheism. However, in practice, the clergy are far from obsessed with following the church canons. The Church esteemed the value, the streamer with the knowledge, the good-natured friendship. Who love Christians with the innovators were respected by the sinners. Liberalism before them was deprived of it in the period of early Christianity, which was very important, but a Christian who could help a whore could re-create another one who was lost.

In the early stages of Christianity, friendships were privately held. Nadal zgrypilasya norm I will enter into the love of the priest. The widow couldn’t find a way out again without his blessing.

The Church dictated the rules of sexual admonitions. At 398 r, the Karfanesky cathedral has taken a decision, for which the devil is guilty of being responsible for three days and three nights during the wedding. And only by then it was allowed to enter into the statues of the day in the morning, if only for the reason, pay the church fence.

Formally, Christianity recognized the spiritual equality of women and men. To defend the encampment of women, we will belittle them. Lyshe deyakі category women - widows, divi, services in monasteries and lіkarnyas - mali authority in the suspension, stayed at a privileged camp.

Family in Russia

In Russia, the family of vidnosini became the object of vivchennya deprivation in the middle of the XIX century.

Dzherelami served as old Russian literature and literature. Historians D.N.Dubakina, M.M. A special respect for the family code "Domostroy" - a literary memorial of the 16th century, Vidanogo in 1849 r

U 20-50-i pp. The XX century in the past saw tendencies for the development of modern family stores. So, P.A. Homeland almost became a minority ring, not party partnership. In the same period, robots appeared, assigning "female food". In the articles of A.M. Kollontai, for example, the freedom of women from the cholovik, father, motherhood was voiced. Psychology and sociology of the family were denuded by the bourgeois pseudosciences, insane with Marxism.

W mid-50s, pp. the psychology of the family has come to see the theory, I will explain the function of this system, the motives I will enter into everybody, I will reveal the particularities of the friends and the father-child confessions of the occasion; family psychotherapy began to actively develop (Yu.A. Aleshina, A.S. Spivakovska, E.G. Eidemiller and in.).

The analysis of dzherel allows you to sew the dynamism of the development of the family “from Russia to Russia”. On the skin stage, the development of the suspension has passed the singular normative model of the family, which includes members of the family with their singular status, rights and obligations, and normative behavior.

The normative pre-Christian model of the family included fathers and children. Let them be confused by the mother and father or they would be confrontational, for they were following the principle of "dominance-order". The children were kept in the order of the fathers. There was a characteristic conflict of generations, prototypes of fathers and children. The distribution of roles in the family has transferred the visibility of the person for the call, natural, social development, the woman is more included in the inner space of the family, in the booths. The status of befriended people, but not the status of selfless. The woman is small in freedom, yak to a whore, so in shlyubi, vlada cholovikiv is a cholovik, dad is a bully surrounded. The little woman has the right to be separated and could turn into seven fathers. There is no control in the homeland of the "painful" - the squad of the old man, as a rule, the most patriotic and admitted woman. All crops are crooked, all women and young people in the family.

The winnings of the Christian model of the family (XII-XIV centuries) were changed by both households. The cholovik, having become unprotectedly panuvati over them, all the bullets of the goiters are tied up to grow up, they are not clear about them. Our friendships in Christianity were allowed to be read by the skin member of these people. Cholovik, who is the head of the family of gobies, to carry the burden of good news, the squad humbly borrowed another place. You have become engaged in handicrafts, homework, as well as wicked and new children. Mother and the child of the bully kilka came from the Kremlin, they were given it by themselves, but at the same time they saw the invisible and dream of Vlad Batka. "Whip the child in the fences", "love the sina, zbіlshuy yomu wounds" - it is written in "Domostroja". The main requirements for children are hearing, love for fathers, a turbot about them in the elder.

In the spheres of inter-social life, the friends dominated the father's roles over the erotic roles, the rest were not invisible, and they were known to be insignificant. The squad is to blame for the cholovikov "unorovit", so that the children are responsible for that.

According to Domostroy, to the family's satisfaction: calmness in the house, savory їzha, shana and povaga from the side of susіdіv; condemn fornication, dashing, gniv. The awarding of significant people, the shanovani, was entrusted with terrible punishment for these people. The fallowness of people’s thoughts is the main rice of the national character of family people in Russia. Social rationing was needed to demonstrate a family of prosperity and suvoro fenced off against a family of people, so that two things were shown - for oneself and for people.

Among the Russians, as well as among all the common words, a great family has passed through the most hour, uniting relatives along straight and everyday lines. Such families included dyda, syniv, onuk and great-grandchildren. A number of loving couples were spiritually volodya or maynom and led the dignity. Keruvav with the most promises, spirits, patriarchy cholovik, who can rule over usim members of the family. At the new one, as a rule, Bula Radnitsya - the eldest woman, yak led the government, but not a little such power in the family, yak in the XII-XIV century. The position of these women was unenviable - the stench was practically wicked, suppressed any lane at the time of the death of one of her friends.

Until the XVIII century. In Russia, the normative family has become an individual family of two or three generations of relatives along a straight line.

At the turn of the XIX-XX cent. the precursors of the buvs of fixing the crisis of the system, supervulsions with glib internal rubbing. The authoritarian vlada cholovika bula is involved. The family has absorbed the functions of the home brew. The nuclear system has become the normative model, which is made up of friends and children.

In the ancient and modern national outskirts of pre-Revolutionary Russia, the family's life was predominantly patriarchal traditions, there was a wealth of marriage, the father's dominion over children was not intertwined. Among the people of the nation, having snapped, call the brothers Kalim - Wikup for the name. Frequently, the daddy put their pleasure in the dynasty of the name and the name, or to navit to their people. The order of three was practiced by nominations. Vikravshi, for example, having bought a squad, the cholovik became a rightful master. The fate of the bulwark's squad was especially difficult, as it wondered in the future, as the cholovik already had a splinter of squads. Among the Muslim families in the midst of the squads, there is a singular іnrarchіya, which leads to supernaturalism and jealousy. Among the common peoples, the separation of the bouvs is attributed to the choloviks, and it is even easier to get there: the cholovik just waggle the squad.

Among the ethnic groups of Siberia, Pivnochi and Distant Descent, the remnants of the ancestral harmony and polygamy took over for a tricky hour. People were drinking with a strong inflow of shamans.

Everyday life of family and love

In the Danish hour of problems, friends - fatherhood - disputes come more respect not only in theory, but in practice. Robots by Y. I. Aleshina, V. N. Druzhinin, S. V. Kovalov, A. S. Spivakovskiy, E. G. Eidemiller and some of the most recent ones are seen, as they see directly or bit by bit all the changes, appear as Suspicion, I want it to be self-reliant, stylish. Uninvolved in all the changes, shook, the family as a social institute stood up. In the rest of the rock, the connection with the suspension weakened, but it negatively interfered with the whole system, as well as the need for the practical training young to family life.

Psychology of family problems is developed in conjunction with the prophylaxis of nervous and mental illnesses, as well as the problems of family problems. Nutrition, how to look at family psychology, developmental relationships: the problems of friends, fatherly children, friends with older generations in their homeland, directly in development, diagnostics, communication

The family is about the advancement of the range of sciences - sociology, economics, law, ethnography, psychology, demography, pedagogy, etc. The skin from them is considered to be the subject of specific aspects of the function and development of the family. Economics is the living aspect of the family and the fate of all material benefits and services. Ethnography is a special way of life and family with different ethnic characteristics. Demography - the role of the family in the process of population development. Education

The integration of the cich directly into the family allows them to reject the whole statement about the social phenomenon, which will come to the attention of the social institute and a small group.

The psychology of family men is concentrating on the pre-existing regularities of the multi-functional stosons in the family, the inner stosons (the sta-bility, the stability) from the positions injected into the development. Knowledge of the laws allows you to conduct practical robot with family, diagnostics and additional assistance to raise family members. The main parameters of the misconceptions are the status-role of the visibility, the psychological distance, the valence of the visibility, the dynamics, the stiffness.

The family as a social institute is developing its own tendencies. In our days, from the traditional vimoga to the family in its unambiguous endurance: marriage, sexuality, pro-creation (folk, singing in the light) - also not to get involved in the broken social and cultural norms (populism of children, childishness (see).

Bagato, modern women do not lose motherhood as a whichever attribute. One-third of the family vvazhaє the people of the child are transgressed to a friend, moreover, women are a larger world, not more people (apparently - 36 and 29%). There was a social and cultural normative system - a pro-creative ethics: it is not important to enter into anything, but not necessarily; mothers of children are bazhano, but the visibility is not anomaly; sexier life pose is not a mortal grіkh.

New directly at the development of the psychology of family members є development її methodological foundations Reliance on such permits to uncover fragmentariness, type, and intuitiveness. One of the main methodological principles of consistency, the same is a structured consistency, elements of interconnection, mutual exchange. Tse friends, fatherly-children, child-fathers, child-children, old-timers-fathers, old-time children.

An important methodological principle - synergetic - allows one to discern the dynamics of family problems from the positions of non-linearity, unevenness, from the deterioration of crisis periods.

In this hour, the family of psychotherapy is actively developing, as it spirals into a systemic, scientific pidhid, Integrating the accumulations of information, how the general laws of the therapy of families with the wrecked are found.

2. Theoretical foundations of the FAMILY COUNSELOR. PIDHODI IN ROBOTS IN THE HOMELAND.

Today we can talk about the pluralistic theoretical basis of family psychotherapy and, apparently, family counseling, which spirals on to the establishment within the framework of the practice of psychotherapy laws and rules of family function. Pluralism of theory has both the strength of family consultation and its weakness. The power lies in the fact that the problems of family life are evoked by the development of the theories of the rational rivn, in the vastness of which one may appear to know the explanatory model is practical for being a kind of "one-of-a-kind, special and specific" Theory to upgrade and develop one one, expanding the arsenal of diagnostic methods of robots with seven methods of psychological injection. The weakness of the pluralistic basis of counseling is in the fact that the size and multiplicity of theoretical postulates are made to the weakness and ambiguity of the psychologist-consultant's visibility and ambiguity, and the low efficiency of his robotics from the whole. Out of the camps, the majority of family consultants are to start at the stage of the integrated approach to the family consultation.

Criteria for differentiation of psychotherapeutic approaches to robotics from the family:

· "One" analysis of family functions and problems of family. Within the framework of the atomistic additive approach, such a "one" can be a member of the motherland, which is unique and unrepeatable. At the same vipadku see yak sukupnist of interconnected specialties, singing rite one by one. The life of the family is the result of the simple summation of all the members. Within the framework of a systemic approach to one analysis, it is a common system, which has a functional-role structure and is characterized by singular powers. The skin of the people in their homeland, they keep to themselves as a specialty and do not differ in them, they build up apparently new authorities, so that they can open up the possibilities of special growth and self-development. Sem'ya look like a povnotsinny sub''ct of life and development;

· An overview of the history of the development of the family, the team's retrospective and perspectives. Apparently, it is possible to see two main approaches: genetic-historical and fixation on the current state of the family without the development of history;

· Straightforwardness on the establishment of the reasons for the diagnosis of problems and difficulties in the life of the family, and of dysfunction. Here it is also possible to talk about two approaches, in order to form a dichotomy in this case. perspiring, The causal influence of the conjugation on the vibration of the causal-inherited connections and the establishment of the roles of minds and factors, which inject into the characteristics of the function of the system. other, the phenomenological idea is to shift the emphasis on the analysis of the plot-related life of the family for reasons that have been lost in the past. “It is not respectful, as the very reasons have led to difficult situations, we will try this. Reasons - bully vchora. Difficult - experiencing the current year. " It is important to know the way and how to do it, and how difficult it is - the axis is the basic principle of robotics from the seven tricks in the phenomenological approach.

If you are careful with different criteria, you can see how you walk in the robot with the family.

Psychoanalytic pidhid. At the center of respect for the child-father's life, we start developing the individual and the success of the family life in the future. The unit of analysis is the specialty in the single complex with a partner, the main patterns of the cycle of communication are the single complex and the Electric complex. To transfer, it is unconvinced to repetition of basic models of great dads in the lovable-friend-to-person shoes of the patient. The very thing is the reason for the translation of family awareness and encouragement of family experiences from one generation in the offensive. Reaching the specialness of autonomy and perebudov vidnosin from the homeland for walking is the main meta-therapeutic process. Psychological robot is directed for reconstruction and revision of the past, assimilation of vitality and imputation. Symptoms of difficult friendships are seen as a "marker" of past non-virulent conflicts and attracting pulls from friends with dads. In psychoanalysis, the symptoms appear as a basis for revealing the reasons, it is of great importance to rely on the mechanism of symptom formation and understanding of the causes of difficult times, building bridges in the past with the problems of the present day.

Biochevioralny Pidhid. The importance of the balance of mutual exchange is appreciated. The only analysis here is the specialness of individuals and relationships with family members. The emphasis is shifted to the idea of ​​\ u200b \ u200bvirishuvati problem situations and the formulation of special vikonavskaya competence (a quick guide to communication and transmission of problem situations). The genetic-historical aspect of the identification of the problem, and within the framework of behavioral counseling, appears insignificant. At the center of respect, there are no reasons for this, but a pardon for behavior and for other members of the family, as they move over and over to the path of resolving problematic situations. The main mechanisms for the formation of incorrect behavior, which lead to family problems, inadequate social models of behavior in the family, ineffective control and education. Just take to respect the explanation of the problems and difficulties in the family of the age of intelligence, the sense of the robotic behavior of family behavioral psychotherapists on the child-father's life. Robot with friends will be in the framework of the theory of social exchange, from which skinny individual is pragmatic until the maximum wine is removed with minimal vitrates. Equivalence of exchange is allowance, so the satisfaction of the friend's growers, if the number of wine-cities is compensated for by the vitrati. The system of diagnostics of the peculiarities of the mutual behavior of friends and fathers from children is well broken and the operation is performed, the system of home management has been carefully thought out, and the system of home management has the right to forget to achieve a high number of successful behavioral problems. A special feature of behavioral robots is a combination of dyadic interaction as a unit of psychological analysis and injection. Vibir diadi (for the occasion - in the systemic family psychotherapy of the robot, work with the triad, including the friend-father and child) of priming by the rule of the principle of social exchange in the analysis of the regularities of the situation.

Phenomenological pidhid. In the quality of one analysis, the specialness in the family system is discerned. The basic principle of "here-and-now" in viskogo rivnyaїх feelings and experiences. The reality of communication and interaction between systems and verbal and non-verbal emotional communication acts becomes the subject of psychological analysis and psychotherapeutic infusion (V. Satir, T. Gordon). Revealing to the wickedness, inspiring the rules, injecting communion on the life of the family as a whole and on the skin of the members to become the wizard of the robot with the family. Formation of communal competence, a hint of more effective efficiency, improvement of sensitivity to one's feelings and standards and feelings of a partner, experiencing the right mindset in the framework of this psychotherapy.

Family psychotherapy, based on the evidence (K. Vitaker, V. Satir), to reduce the emphasis on special development, increased autonomy, freedom of choice and response as a cycle of psychotherapy. The dysfunction of the family is lost due to the failure of the special growth of the members and by itself is not guilty of being injected into the target. Mizoobistisnі vіdnosini and vzaєmodії store mind for a special development, if the commune appears to be crushed and emotionally hardened. The reasons for the difficulties in the community appear to be insignificant, the robot concentrates on re-glancing and ochikuvanny, stimulating the changes.

System pidhid. Structural family psychotherapy (S. Minukhin), as one of the most authoritative strains in family psychotherapy, is based on the principles of systemic approach. The family is seen as an integral system, in terms of the main characteristics, the structure of the family, the distribution of roles, the supremacy of power, the cordon of the family, the rules of the commune and the repetition of all the reasons for all the difficulties dysfunctionality of the family і grows in the reorganization of the family system.

Sem'ya vistupaє yak system, yak pragne to save and develop vidnosin. At its own history, the family last and naturally go through a series of crises (entered into a child, a child's family, a child entered a school, a school ended, and a self-determined separation from fathers and dogs). Skin crisis in the reorganization of the family system. It looks like a basic system, which includes three subsystems: girlfriend, batkivska and sibling. Inter systems and skin s of the subsystem are the rules for starting, that and how to take care of the fate of the relationship. Between them they can be above the rigid ones, but also gibk5imi, scho. Apparently, injected into the penetration of systems. It’s hard to create dullness to the diffusion of cordons, to the point of unclear paterns of interaction, and robustly to the same system, or to the system, which is infusing for inviting calls. Participate through the distribution of family cordons to lead up to the loss of members of the family autonomy and building independently of their problems. Navpaki, superbly rigidly to the cordon, to expedite contacts with all of them, ample opportunities contacts and mutual requests.

Disorder of behavior and emotional damage of one of the members of the family, the well-known structural family psychotherapy, is an indicator of dysfunction of the family as a single vital organ. The therapist's uvaga is centered on being able to see these processes in the given hour, without distant excursions in the past.

Strategic family psychotherapy (D. Hale) is the integration of problem-oriented therapy with the theory of communion and theory of systems. The only analysis here is a seven-and-a-half system. The emphasis is shifted to the present day, the practical principle of "here-and-now". Evidence of the reasons not for the development of the therapy, some of the problems arising from the current processes of interaction, which are guilty of but also changes. The role of the therapist is active, in the process of robotics it is conveyed to the members of the seven directives and the establishment of two kinds - positive, as the description of these changes is not great, and it is paradoxical, but it’s symptomatic, so that I’m inadequate in terms of behavior. vikonannya negative zavdan, shvidshe for everything, will be blocked. A wide variety of metaphors in robotics with the same idea of ​​analogy between podiatry and action, like, for the first time, do not conceal anything special. The metaphorical comprehension of the family situation allows the vision and presentation of the everyday characteristics of the family process.

Transgeneration pidhid. Conjugation on the integration of ideas of psychoanalysis and theory of systems. One of the analysis of how the family is going to be, in every way, between friends, it will be based on the same traditions father's family and learn in the child models of interaction. Vibir of a partner and prompting a friend to her friends and fathers from children to learn there on the mechanisms of projection in the future ... The principle of history within the framework of transgenerational approach is key. So, in the capacity of the family system, the intergenerational family (M. Bowen) is discerned, and the difficult family functions are connected with the low level of differentiation and automation of the peculiarities of the family. Past vzaєmini pour on the current dynamo. Differentiation processes of specialness, triangulation, such as the formation of a tricycle into a family and a family design process, according to Bowen's theory, begin to identify problems of the family and open the door for The keys to the technology of the transgeneration approach are to focus on the reasons for the difficulties of family life, which is an important principle.

Uninvolved in the hundreds of insights into re-insured travelers in glances at the causes and ways of the future problems. You can see the home page of family psychotherapy:

· Adjustment of the plasticity of the role structure of the family - the flexibility of the roles, interdependence; the establishment of a reasonable balance in the power of power and supremacy;

· Establishment of a clear community;

· Increasing the number of problems and decreasing the frequency of negative symptoms;

· The development of minds for the development of the self-concept and special development of all without a blame for the members of the family.

Counseling of girlfriends with a handful of connections from legal and legal, medical and reproductive, social aspects of family life and problems of family life and new children. Period from the end of the 1940s to the ear of the 1960s. in accordance with the established and flexible practice of providing psychological assistance to these friends. U 1930-1940-i pp. The practice of advising girlfriends is especially special, in which the focus of the robot is to take the mental problems of specialness on the problems of marriage and the life of friends in the family. U 1950-tі pp. the practice and term "family therapy" is becoming firmly established. In 1949, in the USA, professional standards for conducting a friend and family consultation were adopted, and in 1963 in California, the rules and norms of licensing for family consultants were introduced. An important role in the development of family psychotherapy has become the interdisciplinary interaction of psychology, psychiatry, and the practice of social robotics (V. Satir).

The family of psychotherapy is clearly new in relation to family psychotherapy, directly providing psychological assistance to the family. A collection of all the main indications and guidelines for the area of ​​goiter is associated with family psychotherapy. Some of the most significant factors for the development of family counseling were: reorientation of psychoanalysis to a robot with a child in the form of childish-fathers, as well as in the form of special friend therapy in the 1940s. a cob of a systemic approach to N. Ackerman; the stem of J. Bowlby of the theory of subtlety; Expansion of the biological methods of diagnostics and therapy for the robot with the family and the stem of the family psychotherapy V. Satir. Burhlivy development of practice from 1978-1986. demanded and demanded scientific doslіdzhen in the field of family, which called for the vision of an independent special psychological discipline - the psychology of the family. Simultaneously with the development of family psychotherapy and family psychology, the intensive development of sexology, in which the robots A. Kinsi, V. Masters and V. Johnson became the headache, and the ear of counseling in the whole sphere of family life.

In recent science intensive development of family psychotherapy began in the late 1960s - the ear of the 1970s. The founder of family therapy in Russia is І.V. Malyarevsky, who, in his own way, mentally ill children and children who need special robots in the framework of the "family vikhovannya" with the relatives of sick children. An important role in the formation of the vital family psychotherapy was played in the neuropsychiatric Institute. V.M. Bekhterev - V.K. Mager, A.E. Lichko, O. G. Eidemiller, A.I. Zakharov, T.M. Mishina.

The history of family psychotherapy is clearly intertwined and mutually reinterpreted, as well as given to a number of previous and practitioners in respect of the same kind of family psychotherapy, as well as international

The principle aspect of counseling and psychotherapy is tied to the causal model of explaining the reasons for the difficulties and problems in the development of specialness, which has become an object of psychological influx. Apparently, psychotherapy focuses on the medical model, in which family it is an important ethological factor, which encompasses the diagnosis and pathogenesis of a specialty, from one side, and the resource of life and stability. So, in the medical model, the importance of the recessionary official and the constructive features of the people, the unfriendly factors of the middle class in the diagnosis of dysfunction of the family is emphasized more. The psychotherapist is a “middle man” between a client and a problem, and I play a role in the first time. The model of consulting focuses on the development of the family, especially the role structure and laws and functions. The consultant is responsible for organizing the client's organization in problem situations, problem solving, analyzing the situation, planning to “see” young decisions. The reason for accepting the decision that this realization is to become the prerogative of the client himself, taking his special growth, the life of his family.

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A basic book of meanings for students of other basic mortgages, for specializing in psychology and social pedagogy. At the newest, the basic psychological laws of the ship and family are being developed as a special space for living. The main principles are systematized and go to the consultation of these people as alive, to develop. Basic phenomena problems of the family are seen in the logic of the development of the life phases of the development of the seven of the beloved ones to the age of maturity.

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Zhedunova Lyudmila Grigorivna, Mozharovskaya Iryna Oleksandrivna, Posisoev Mykola Mykolaivich, Yurasova Olena Mykolaivna

FOUNDATIONS OF PSYCHOLOGISTS

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INTERCEPT 3

Chapter 1 the family yak object of psychological awareness and injection 4

1. PSYCHOLOGICHNY ZM_ST PONYATTYA "SIM'YA" 5

2.SIM'YA YAK PROSTIR ZHITTЄDIYALNOSTI 6

3.SIM'YA YAK SOCIAL INSTITUTE І SMALL GROUP 11

Spіvvіdnoshennya to understand "shlyub" and "sіm'ya" 11

Sіm'ya yak social institute 13

Sіm'ya yak mala group 14

4. SIM functions 16

5. TYPE SІMEY 23

6. SUCCESSFUL TRENDS AT ROSVITKU SIM'Ї 41

7.Eternal and confessional SPECIFICITIES OF LASTING SEASONS 47

Control food 54

Literature 55

Chapter 2 the life cycle of the family 57

1. ZAGALNI UNDERSTANDING 57

Viznachennya priestlya "life cycle of sіm'ї". Stages of life cycle 57

Zavdannya development of the family. Stages of Fatherland 59

2. ETAP pre-favorite zalitsian 60

Development of the development stage at the stage of pre-loving zalitsyannya 60

Psychology of law and love 64

Motivi to choose a slave partner 73

3. YOUTH SIM'YA 74

Formation of internal community 74

Shlyubna Pleasure - Psychological Zmist 80

Main types of scenarios 81

Typical Psychological Vidnosin in Shlyubi 83

Tipi sexy stosun_v at shlyubi 86

4.SIM'YA WITH A LITTLE DITIN 87

Preparing the family for the children of the nation 87

The crisis of the first vaginosti 88

Snakes in the family in conjunction with the people of the child 94

5.mature SIM'Ya 97

Psychological problems of a mature whore 97

Zmіna vіdnosyn with children 98

Zmіna vіdnosin mіzh friends. Psychology of Zradi, Jealousy 102

Zmіna vіdnosyn s grandmothers 107

6.FAMILY WITH GREAT CHILDREN (LOOKING CHILDREN ІZ SIM'Ї) 109

Reconstruction of friends' meetings 109

Features of the internal community for older children 113

Mastering new family roles - babus and didus 114

7. SLUB At the headman 114

Zmyni in the life of the motherland in conjunction with the exit to retirement 114

Reactions to the death of a person and living in a household 115

Control food 116

literature 117

Chapter 3 Problem 119

1. VALUE UNDERSTANDING "PROBLEM SIM'YA" 119

2.SIM'YA Z LOVE DITINA 120

3.SIM'YA WITH DISTURBANCES OF INTERNAL COMMUNICATIONS 121

4. СІМ'Я - disharmonious UNION. 122

5.SIM'YA IN DISTRIBUTION 124

6. INCOMPLETE SIM'YA 127

7.SIM'YA ALCOHOLIKIV 128

8. Re-MARRIAGE 129

Control food 131

literature 132

CHAPTER 4 DITINA IN SIM'Ї. INLUSION OF CRAWLERS VIDNOSIN ON PSYKHICHNE ROSVITOK DITINI 132

1. TYPES OF SEAMY WITCHER 132

2. Fatherland directives 135

3. ROLE OF DITINI IN SIM'Ї 138

4.mother's deprivation 139

5. PSYCHOLOGICAL MECHANIZMI FORMED DITINI-neurotic 140

6. METHODS OF VIVCHENNYA BATKIVSKYH POSITIONS І MOTIVS IN THE SEAMY VIKHOVANNA 143

Control food 146

literature 146

CHAPTER 5 PSYCHOLOGICAL AND PEDAGOGICAL ROBOTS WITH HOMELAND 147

1. PSYCHOLOGICAL-PEDAGOGICAL ROBOT WITH CHILDREN 148

2. PSYCHOLOGICAL-PEDAGOGICHNA ROBOT WITH BATKAMI 151

3. ROBOT OF A SOCIAL TEACHER IN THE HOMELAND 155

Control food 156

literature 157

CHAPTER 6 FOUNDATIONS OF A FAMILY COUNSELOR 157

1. The main principle of CONSULTING SIM'Ї 158

2.psychodynamic MODEL 161

3. POVEDINKOVA MODEL 163

4. SYSTEM PIDHID 165

Structural school 165

Gestalt-pіdhіd 168

Model, photographed on dosvіdі 171

Control food 176

literature 176

CHAPTER 7 DIAGNOSTIC TECHNIQUES FOR THE DETERMINATION OF THE PROBLEM FIELD SIM'Ї 177

1. SCHEME of psychological analysis of SIM'Ї YAK SYSTEMS 177

2. METHODS OF DIAGNOSTICS SMEINIKH VIDNOSIN 179

Genogram 180

Projective test "Malunok sіm'ї" 186

3. SIM CARD 188

Checklist 189

literature 189

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In the rest of the rock, there is a lot of interest in the seven factions of the other areas of scientific knowledge, both theoreticians and practitioners. On the day, the day is in the Danish hour є in the sphere of polydisciplinary education. Interest before the dressing with this roll, as you see it in the process of forming and developing the specialness, and also, the current and possible suspension as a whole. Volodiyuchi stikistyu and nivit deyako rigidity, the family even more sensitively reacts to the social, economic and political processes, which are brought into suspensions through changes in the system of mines. An increase in the number of problematic families for an hour of transition, crisis periods of suspension development and staleness.

Pidtrimka sіm'ї and hardening її її to the potential of wіmagа from fakhіvtsіv, wіth work out wіth thіm іmіу, gross systemic knowledge, minus the beginning of the points of application of professional knowledge, know and the adequate means of wіll іnobіdіmіnіm. The newcomer for maybut pedagogues-psychologists and social pedagogues systematized developmental and foreign-minded approaches to understanding the laws of functionality and development of a child's robot, as well as methods of psychology. Pratsuyuchi over the posibnik, author of the date of the whole announcement about this as the subject of psychological analysis and psychological and pedagogical practice. The central idea, laid down in its basis, is seen in the view of this particular system, which is characterized by a singing cycle of processes of formation and development, as well as a special space, within the framework of which people live healthy and creatively meaningful life.

The proponent is made up of seven different types of skin that open up to the aspect of the psychological analysis of the family and describes the sphere of psychological and pedagogical flow into the world.

In connection with that, that Russia is a nation-wide power, one of the paragraphs of the assignments to the peculiarities and functions of the family, we will summarize them with ethnic and confessional factors.

The chapter of Okrem is assigned to a new field of activity for the survivors of the family - psychological counseling of the family. Here it is also possible to look at the approach of the main psychological schools to robots in the family, including the information provided by Russian psychologists.

The remaining chapter is dedicated to the psychological and pedagogical diagnostics of the problem field, to the methods of robotics. They have proponents of methods and technologies, fixing robots at different stages of operation, which can be used for making practical tools for the development of practical problems.

In the list of skin razdilu proponyuyutsya nutrition for discussion and a list of recommended literature for a large amount of vivchennya given by those.

The family for the bagatokh is for the first time on earth. Warm home in a fire - a place in which friends are eager to know peace and tranquility. Ale inodі substitute for the positive and calm life to bring deprivation of discouragement and evil. Why do more couples see the style of problems in their living? What is the reason for such a great number of separations and unhappy wholesomeness in a funky suspension? What needs to be done, what is the best way to open up a happy child?

Come to the cich feeds for more help family psychology... Tsei razdіl psychology vivchaє will induce harmony and great allegiance among members of the middle of the suspension. For the cob, let’s spare it, but also this one.

What is it like?

Sem'ya is a whole group of people, tied by their homeland or by love bonds, to live one by one, to lead a spiritual statehood and a budget. Become the basis of the family to serve your friends and children. However, not so young people live at once with the fathers of one partner. Kozhen from the members of the family has his own obligations, since the guilt is guilty of the viconuvati for the sake of the welfare.

Those who are going to be here are designed to be delivered with a wide range of factors. At the same time, it is infused with the knowledge of friends, as well as cultural rivn. It is also a great value to know partners in mind one of one, they know the solution in confrontational situations, show turbo and patience.

Deyaki cause the unhappy whore

It’s a bagato to skarzhitsya on those who partner, who smelled the stench with it, didn’t really do it. Vyavlyatsya, what a little girl, yaka suffered all her dignity through those who became an angry, hisistic alcoholic, who went in for such a negidnik. Why did it become so? The psychology of the family life is stverdzhu, so the basis of such common things is laid down in childish rock.

It’s very obvious that the little dads show the child the image of the one who is guilty of butti shlyub.

The axis and go, as soon as Lyudin shukk a partner, similar to one of his fathers, continues the endless cycle of one and the same pardons. Even the children of such people build up their own family, spiraling into the lives of their fathers, promoting the negative traditions of their ancestors.

Another problem of the field is that it’s not easy for people to start looking at them without knowing one thing like a slid. They ruin the addiction for lack of vaginism. A little more of these families fall into the first place of life. Simeina psychology to learn, well, first, not translate it into such a serious rivn, it is necessary as a follower of a partner's knowledge, to accept him in such a way.

Love in the family

When choosing a partner, people take care of the sexual attraction of people, of their calling. Solodki movi romantics about the divine nature of their sentiments in a great number of vipadkiv - you should try to embellish the action. If only for that, as among people, there is a miraculous emotional call and the smell of an inner light is one of one, love. All say that I will be on love, but why are there so many people suffering from unstable warmth and outburst?

On the right, it is rare for people to love just for those who are guilty, who take all their dignity and shortcomings.

Make love to see you as zahochennya for good vchinki, with threats of amusement, as the partner will not be seen as an ideal eye. The fundamentals of family psychology are to love your partner by virtue of yo yum, filthy and good. To replace that grisly cholovik for its shortcomings, more beautifully on the passages, as it is possible more often to loosen up your sympathy and turboboat.

Psychology of family life. Last Conflicts

Another problem of family life is the incorrect transmission of conflict situations. Most often, serious conflicts, or wiping in the family, are susceptible to the harshness of one of the friends or not to get overwhelmed. Such a camp is right to lead to the accumulation of mutual dissatisfaction and dissatisfaction one by one. Semeina psychology recommends at once virishuvati spirni abo Conflict Situations, Listen to the cholovik, shake yo or її dumka. This is the rank you will have on a social robot, see if you can get together and shift your news to a new one.

Psychology. Semeyne Consulting

If there is a problem in the family not to go viral with your own forces, if there is a reason for saving a whore, then you can go to a family psychologist. An outsider can more efficiently assess the real camp of speeches, lower squad members.

If you zvazhilis nevertheless zvernututsya to fakhivtsya, then be honest with him, depriving this of his help, there will be a chance for success.

It is more beautiful to be brutal for the help of a psychologist, beware of secondary doctors, as they practice anti-science, adolescent methods. As long as you є know your friends, as if you have already helped a friend of yours, listen to all the messages and, as the stench is positive, be brutal before the people.

Self-determination of problems

If you don’t want to blame for the smittya from the hut, if you do not want to blame your vidnosini, then you don’t want to independently rake up the psychological smitty, the accumulation of the rocks of the social life. For the whole and ісnu family of psychology. The family is to look at the whole science from the sideways, through the hundreds of versatile methods for changing the bonds of love. The deyakі from them perakhovanі vische.

There are a few important periods to cleanse the skin of a young child, if you have done it all at once, if you will become closer one to one. The folk of children, old, singing onuks and rich stages of family life, go through yak through butter, as if they were friends with friends, they had a good time. Check out the problems, how to find out from the girls, to replace them simply by adding them. Once you will become a member of the harmonious and happy motherland. If you have a lot of great spiritual life, the family psychology will come to help you.