Chapter I of the psychology of family history has divided the psychology of the development of science about family and history of family and history. Navchalnyi guide for universities on the basics of psychology of family and family counseling

Abstract from the basics of suspension sciences

I. Temperament dictates behavior

For a successful family life, both physiological harmony is of great importance, as well as psychological consistency. Living in a dormitory is to pose a lot of problems for people, as they are tied not only with vikhovannya, but with an assessment of great action, but with temperament - a warehouse of food nervousness, Yakiy obumovaniya decline. It can be seen that the temperament of the people is superbly important.

The singing type of the nervous system can be attributed to its type and temperament and constitutional constitution. Ale so buvaє do not expect. The type of the nervous system may not be taken into account by the constitutional constitution. Hippocrates wrote more about the insight of people in terms of their psychological disposition. Vin wrote the characterization of a cheerful sanguine, non-vorush phlegmatic, passionate choleric, passive melancholy. The growth of temperaments Hippocrates explained by the knowledge of the young juices in the body. Tse bulo naivne explained. We know that the temperament lays down to the type of the vital nervous system - the main powers of the nervous system: strength, temporality and decay of the processes of awakening and galmuvannya.

It’s unrealistic to respect that one temperament is more "high" grade, and one is more "low" grade. Among some of the most young temperaments, one can know not only talented people, but also genial people. Vvazhaєya, for the most pracedatnist volodya sanguinik and phlegmatic. In the midst of domestic commanders, political figures, there are no melancholy people, at that hour, among the people of science, people of creative work and chimalo. Oh, mind, just look at the emotional experience give here good fruit.

Even in the 18th century. Professor of the Moscow University S.G. Zabelin giving the Velma an accurate description of the young types of temperament. So, writing about phlegmatic winners, how the stench "did not smell like water, addictions are not just overwhelming, ale and a little, sometimes if there is a sluggishness in them," the stench was stolen to "weepy, let us get sick." Choleric people "rozum cant gostriy, penetrating, ale often not necessary. They were cured to the sickness with a gostry reboot, with a hot camp." About the melancholy S.G. Zabulin wrote, one hundred "stinks everywhere in advance to whisper difficult, which are dumb, and not often reveal, summaries of all and fears".

The skin temperament is influenced by the singular warehouse of being exposed. For example, such a hang is "omega melancholy". At the center of the pundit, enter viraz, feeling sorrow - raise and put down their eyebrows to fake the walnut letter omega. Vvazhayut, that the exchange of a little light near the eyes to talk about a cheerful character. The lower part of the circular thread of the eye is called "the thread of privacy". Prying eyebrows, sniffles on the forehead indicate the voluptuous napruzi and zusilli.

M'yazy zzvychay even more accurately represent the experience of people, their thoughts. Most of the time, it is not easy to loosen up the joints of the floor, but it is not easy to catch them. However, deyakі are even more sensitive and trained people grasp їх, hostile to the "reading of thoughts" and not only in a contact way (trimming by the hand), but rather on seeing. Yak bi is not mamagavia cholovik stream their emotsii, myazov groups react at the same time. The reaction is straightforward due to the type of nervous system, temperament.

The temperament is applied to the singing video beats and behaviors of partners in the family life. If you want the price of behavior is not fatally viral, however, you can transfer it completely, as it will behave in the quiet minds of an individual with a cheerful temperament.

I will try to model the behavior of people with their temperament in family life. Evidently, even schematically, it is not often seen in a pure viglyad and type of high nervous activity.

I.I. melancholy

Melancholic and very sensitive. Youmu to be forgiven, why I want to shape, belittle; the new one has a quiet voice; life of neglect and inappropriateness is caused by a tragedy. Win to love zgaduvati passed, yak to be built more beautifully today, about the maybutnє think with the tricky. Often skarzhitsya on life, yak did not give in, failures in robots, ailments. Be-like a sharp rozmova among her friends, who are worried, tormented.

I.II. phlegmatic person

A phlegmatic person is indifferent to navigating in the most common situations, however, he experiences everything in his midst. One cannot read anything on the face of a new one. Vin is conservative, the nicknames are small, I have few known friends, it is important to converge with people, but you can only obey him. Vіn pratsovitiy, napleglivy in the reach of meti, primer, often monogamous. The hour of the family welds has become a bit unvarnished, and a little memory about them doesn’t matter.

I.III. choleric

Choleric is active, napleglivy, trocha, protein of quality in a new nonpotent. Often unwitting, impatient. Self-control swings weakly. Delivered to home in one, do not zupinyayuchis ni before chim. I will change the mood so part, it is important to transfer it, as to inflict it through chilin - іnshu. You can be rude, imaginative, or rather easy to enter. Glyboko worried about his unrestrainedness, to ask for vibration. This is the instability of behavior before frequent welds in the system.

I.IV. sanguinik

Sanguine life in the homeland is spoky and fun. Winning energy, patriarchy, pratsyovitiy, taking an active part in the life of the domestic government is not a problem for the new tse. It’s easy to get along with people, it’s easy to get along with people, it’s not to be seen in the community, life is estimated “for the great rakhunk”, to love humor. Sangvinik is not digging into the past, nor is he even less concerned about the maybut - he is alive on the fair day. During the hour of family conflicts, it is possible to be calm, safe, and do not get tired of the image of a partner. It is easy to get attached to a nasty soak.

With the development of a family of prominence in temperament, it is impossible to underestimate. Apparently, the choleric and the melancholy have begun to live. Nayimovirnishe, a choleric with his unstable and unstrimming character, is already in the very first hour of style to form a partner, and the partner will so much experience the image that nothing good will come. For it is obvious that the man and the squad of melancholy are tedious and boring, all in turbots about their health, with the entrance to the ailments. Well, what about the offense of choleric patients? You may not be aware that it will not only be welding, ale and b_yki.

For a family life there will be temperaments like sanguine and melancholic, phlegmatic and choleric, sanguine and choleric. With a sanguine partner with whatever temperament you can live successfully, more sanguine know the opportunity to attach yourself to a partner, adjust your life in a necessary way.

The temperament is clear in the dressing of the dressings and the behavior of the people. The temperament itself dictates behavior. It is not often intelligent women who are held in public in a superbly modest and valuable manner; Obviously, it’s worth seeing a loss in quiet vipadas, if the woman is trained, and the person of the intelligence and the correct assessment of the behavior. In the midst of a fall, a woman, seeing the condemnation of a cholovik, will shut herself up, become a scooter - and go to disharmony of disharmony.

Visually, the type of nervous activity of the maybutny cholovik is not a simple problem, but it is especially important because of the strong temperament. Lyudin's character is often very acceptable and good. The axis of what persh nіzh zvazhitsya on such a serious croc, as a restoration of a whore, cinnamon as a bisexual from the side, glance at himself and his maybutny partner, and life at once will be brought to life. By the way, start the squad and the cholovik, demand not to shukati of their own, but that very "half", without which it is impossible to complete one whole.

In such a rank, it is not a matter of fact that it’s the spirit of life of people with diametrically opposed temperaments to pose serious psychological problems to them.

II. The role of father and mother in family

Lyudin is always thinking about those who are overwhelmed by the suspension of skinny people to get ready to become a person, father, or new, if it’s in the middle of life. No wonder it is noted that a man is like a tree, can his roots. To that, who enters into a child, a man takes on himself the majestic appearance of being a father, a support in the family.

Fatherhood-also sleep on the social and moral maturity of the cholovik. The head of the young people, who join the school, are not afraid of the fatherhood, for they are not ready to go. Ditina is great viprobuvannya to the taste of the family. Practitioners make bets, before the people, the first women lived normally, and as a result of the people they lost their own power. The cholovik all the more often does not appear in the house, the unique child and the squad. There may be some indications about the visibility of the poorly reputed Batkiv's culture, even if it’s unacceptable, but not being at all pathological.

When he was overwhelmed by the children, the father came to see his finest qualities, such as kindness, virility, chuynist. There is a whole sense of the father's child, and the first child is father.

Father needs family not only for punishment and vikhovannya, but for helping children on all his right, he is obedient to his friend.

The wicked children have an even more important live butt of the dad. Blue is rich in copying the image of life and thought of fathers: to take on the move, the manner of shaping, tin and tin. From the father's stench, they take such rice, as a spirit, strength, hopefulness, acceptance, put to the opposite status. Sin, father who is respectful to his mother, having become friends, we can only be introduced to our own address. As soon as the daddy turns out to be robots, then he will take over the little animals and children.

Ale the role of the dad is not to be made, as has already been said, only until the children are vikhovannya. At the same time, the mother will take care of all the necessary things. Vіn vіdpovіdalny in front of the family for vlashtuvannya pobutu. Renovation of an apartment, work with the government, supply with food, etc. - tse, persh for everything, obovyazok dad.

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CHAPTER 1 SIM'YA YAK OBJECT psychological DOSLIDZHENNYA I VPLIVU ................ 4

1. PSYCHOLOGICHNY ZM_ST OF PONYATTYA "SIM'YA" ........................................ .. ................... 5

2.SIM'YA YAK PROSTIR ZHITTЄDIYALNOSTI .......................................... .. ...................... 6

3.SIM'YA YAK SOCIALNY INSTITUTE І SMALL GROUP ....................................... .. ................... ten

Spіvvіdnoshennya to understand "shlyub" and "sіm'ya" ....................................... .. ............................................. ten

Sem'ya yak social institute ............................................ .. ................................................ ... 12

Sem'ya yak small group ............................................ .. ................................................ .. ................ fourteen

4. SIM functions ............................................ .. ................................................ .. ......................... 16

5. TYPE SІMEY .............................................. .................................................. ................................ 19

6. SUCCESSFUL TRENDS AT ROSVITKU SIM'Ї ......................................... .. .......................... 19

7. Ethnic and confessional SPECIFICITIES OF LAST SEASONS ..................... 19

CHAPTER 2 The life cycle of SIM'Ї ........................................... .. ................................................ .. .. 19

1. LEGAL UNDERSTANDING .............................................. .................................................. ......................... 19

Viznachennya priestlya "life cycle of sіm'ї". The stages of the life cycle .................................. 19

Zavdannya development of the family. The stages of the fatherhood ................................................ ........................... 19

2. ETAP pre-beloved zalitsian ............................................. ................................................. 19

Zavdannya development on the stage of pre-lovable zalitsyannya ............................................ ........................... 19

Psychology of law and love .............................................. ................................................. 19

Motivate the choice of your favorite partner .............................................. ............................................... 19

3. YOUNG SIM'YA ............................................ .. ................................................ .. ........................ 19

Formation of internal community ............................................... ............................... 19

Shlyubna Pleasure - Psychological Zmist ............................................. ...................... 19

Main types of scenarios .............................................. ................................................ 19

Types of psychological wins in shlyubi ............................................. ....................................... 19

Tipi of sexy stosun_v at whore ............................................. ............................................. 19

4.SIM'YA WITH A LITTLE DITIN .......................................... .. ................................................ .. 19

Preparation of the family before the nation of the child ........................................... .. ............................................ 19

The crisis of the first vaginosti ............................................... .................................................. ....... 19

Winks in the family in conjunction with the people of the child ...................................... .... ................................ 19

5. mature SIM'YA ............................................ .. ................................................ .. ............................ 19

Psychological problems of a mature whore .............................................. ....................................... 19

Zmіna vіdnosyn with children .............................................. .................................................. .. 19

Zmіna vіdnosin mіzh friends. Psychology of health, jealousy ..................................... 19

Zmіna vіdnosin s grandmothers .............................................. ........................................ 19

6.FAMILY WITH GREAT CHILDREN (LOOKING CHILDREN ІZ SIM'Ї) .................................... .. .................. 19

Reconstruction of Friendship Vidnosin ............................................... ....................................... 19

Features of the internal community for growing children ............................................ 19

Mastering new family roles - babus and didus .......................................... ..................... 19

7. SLUB At the elder ............................................. .................................................. ......... 19

Zmіni in the life of the homeland in connection with the exit to retirement ...................................... .. ........................ 19

Reaction to the death of a person and living in a home ........................................... .......................... 19

Control food ................................................ .................................................. ................ 19

Literature ................................................. .................................................. .............................. 19

CHAPTER 3 THE PROBLEM OF SIM'YA ............................................ .. ................................................ .. .......... 19

1. VALUE UNDERSTANDING "PROBLEM SIM'YA" ........................................ .. .......................... 19

2.SIM'YA Z WELL DITINA .......................................... .. ................................................ .. ... 19

3.SIM'YA WITH DESTROYING INSIDE COMMUNICATIONS ......................................... .. ....... 19

4. СІМ'Я - disharmonious UNION .......................................... .. ................................................ 19

5.SIM'YA IN ROSLUCHENYA ........................................... .. ................................................ .. ....................... 19

6. INCOMPLETE SIM'YA ............................................ .. ................................................ .. ....................... 19

7.SIM'YA ALCOHOLIKIV ............................................ .. ................................................ .. ................ 19

8. Re-MARRIAGE .............................................. .................................................. ....................... 19

Control food ................................................ .................................................. ................ 19

Literature ................................................. .................................................. .............................. 19

CHAPTER 4 DITINA IN SIM'Ї. INLUSION OF CRAWLERS VIDNOSIN ON PSYKHICHNE ROSVITOK DITINI .......................................... .................................................. ................................................. 19

1. TYPES OF THE FAMILY WITCH ............................................. .................................................. ... 19

2. Fatherland directives .............................................. .................................................. ...... 19

3. ROLE OF DITINI IN SIM'Ї .......................................... .. ................................................ .. .............. 19

4.mother's deprivation .............................................. .................................................. ..... 19

5. PSYCHOLOGICAL MECHANIZMI FORMED DITINI-neurotic ........................... 19

6. METHODS OF VIVCHENNYA OF BATKIVSKYH POSITIONS І MOTIVS OF THE SEAMY VIKHOVANNYA ........ 19

Control food ................................................ .................................................. ................ 19

Literature ................................................. .................................................. .............................. 19

CHAPTER 5 PSYCHOLOGICAL AND PEDAGOGICAL ROBOT IN THE HOMELAND .......................................... ............... 19

1. PSYCHOLOGICAL-PEDAGOGICAL ROBOT WITH CHILDREN .......................................... ........................ 19

2. PSYCHOLOGICAL-PEDAGOGICHNA ROBOT WITH BATKAMI .......................................... ............... 19

3. ROBOT OF A SOCIAL TEACHER IN THE HOMELAND ........................................... ............................... 19

Control food ................................................ .................................................. ................ 19

Literature ................................................. .................................................. .............................. 19

CHAPTER 6 FOUNDATIONS OF A FAMILY COUNSELOR ............................................. ....................... 19

1. The main principle of CONSULTING SIM'Ї .......................................... .. .................. 19

2.psychodynamic MODEL .............................................. .................................................. 19

3. POVEDINKOVA MODEL .............................................. .................................................. ......... 19

4. SYSTEM PIDHID .............................................. .................................................. .................. 19

Structural school ................................................ .................................................. ................... 19

Gestalt-pidhid ............................................... .................................................. ........................ 19

Model, photographed on the board ............................................. .................................................. ....... 19

Control food ................................................ .................................................. ................ 19

Literature ................................................. .................................................. .............................. 19

CHAPTER 7 DIAGNOSTIC TECHNIQUES FOR THE DETERMINATION OF THE PROBLEM FIELD SIM'Ї ................. 19

1. SCHEME of psychological analysis of SIM'Ї YAK SYSTEMS ........................................ .. ...... 19

2. METHODS OF DIAGNOSTICS OF SMEINYH VIDNOSIN ............................................ ......................... 19

Genogram ................................................. .................................................. ................................ 19

Projective test "Malunok sіm'ї" .......................................... .. ............................................... 19

3. CARD SIM'Ї ............................................ .. ................................................ .. .............................. 19

control zavdannya................................................................................................................... 19

Literature ................................................. .................................................. .............................. 19

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In the rest of the rock, there is a lot of interest in the seven factions of the other areas of scientific knowledge, both theoreticians and practitioners. On the day, the day is in the Danish hour є in the sphere of polydisciplinary education. Interest before the dressing with this roll, as you see it in the process of forming and developing the specialness, and also, the current and possible suspension as a whole. Volodiyuchi stikistyu and nivit deyako rigidity, the family even more sensitively reacts to the social, economic and political processes, which are brought into suspension through changes in the system in the middle family members... Increase in the number of problematic families per hour of transition, crisis periods suspension development Illuminated debris.

Pidtrimka sіm'ї and hardening її її to the potential of wіmagа from fakhіvtsіv, wіth work out wіth thіm іmіу, gross systemic knowledge, minus the beginning of the points of application of professional knowledge, know and the adequate means of wіll іnobіdіmіnіm. The newcomer for maybut pedagogues-psychologists and social pedagogues systematized developmental and foreign-minded approaches to understanding the laws of functionality and development of a child's robot, as well as methods of psychology. Pratsuyuchi over the posibnik, the author is magalized to give a complete announcement about this as the subject of psychological analysis and psychological and pedagogical practice. The central idea, laid down in its basis, is seen in the view of this particular system, which is characterized by a singing cycle of processes of formation and development, as well as a special space, within the framework of which people live healthy and creatively meaningful life.

The proponent is made up of seven different kinds of skin that open up to the aspect of the psychological analysis of the family and describe the sphere of psychological and pedagogical flow into the world.

In connection with that, that Russia is a nation-wide power, one of the paragraphs of the assignments to the peculiarities and functions of the family, we will summarize them with ethnic and confessional factors.

The chapter of Okrem is assigned to a new field of activity for the survivors of the family - psychological counseling of the family. Here you can also look at the main psychological schools to robotics from the family, including the information provided by Russian psychologists.

The remaining chapter is dedicated to the psychological and pedagogical diagnostics of the problem field, to the methods of robotics. They have proponents of methods and technologies, fixing robots at different stages of work, which can be used for making practical tools for the development of practical problems.

In the list of skin razdilu proponyuyutsya nutrition for discussion and a list of recommended literature for a large amount of vivchennya given by those.

CHAPTER 1
SIM'YA YAK OB'OKT of psychological support І VPLIVU

1. PSYCHOLOGICHNY ZM_ST PONYATTYA "SIM'YA"

The significance of these in scientific literature is to reach suspicious testimony, It is important to establish the authorship of the qih value.

The family is established as a social institute, as a center of support, as a small group living in spirits and leading the spirit of the government of relatives. However, the psychological approach to the development of the family (in the opinion, for example, from the sociological and economic decisions) has its own specifics. Within the framework of the whole approach Seeming to look like a space of social living, in the middle of which you are satisfied with the specific needs of people tied by blood and native ties. The whole space is to complete a foldable structure, to be built up from a variety of elements (roles, positions, coalitions, etc.) and systems and interrelationships between members. So the structure is based on the laws of the living organism, so there is a natural dynamism, passing through a number of phases and stages in its development.

From the point of view of a family psychologist G. Naviteis, value psychological day the family is able to contribute to the goals of the psychologist's interaction with the family. G. Navaytis is negotiated with the witness of the family, as it is thoroughly done with the advice of the family psychologist. Win proponu to introduce an understanding of the family as a small group, as I will reject the professional psychological help from the side of the fahivts. Zmist understand "sim'ya" open through a row of positions.

family- group, yak to satisfy consumers of their members. Consume most successfully to be satisfied with the unique interaction of specific people.

The main specialty family vzaєmodії - ob'єdnuvati satisfying the growing needs.

· For the satisfaction of the knitted with the seven requirements, the structure of the family roles is set up.

· The family structure and functions of the family develop naturally.

· psychological counseling family of additional help to uzgodzhuvati and satisfaction of consumption, tying with family, optimizing family structure and development of family.

· The need for advice from a family of growth at the moment of transition from one stage of development to the other.

· Periodization of the development of the family can be started for the supremacy of the number of names that are tied to the family, of their significance.

· On the skin stage of development, there is a specific development, without the revision of which it is unwise to go to a new stage.

Vidomy vіtchiznyany psychologist V. Druzhinin I propose a simple system of free coordinates, which are used to see the psychologist's self-designation at the vibration of the family as an object of psychological awareness. It’s worth talking about those who, before the last days, can go to seven levels on two different scales:

· "Normal- abnormal sіm'ya ";

· "Ideal- the family is real. "

I look at the scale, Druzhinin viznachaє the witness "normal sіm'ya" yak the homeland, which will take care of the necessary minimum for the good-natured person, for the social welfare of the members and for the socialization of children to reach their psychological and physical maturity. Such is the homeland, de vidpovidalnist for this, but not for the whole dad. All the types of families, even though it is a rule not to be seen, Druzhinin are abnormal.

Within the framework of another scale of the understand "ideal family" It starts as a normative model of the family, as it is accepted by the suspension and seen in collective manifestations of that culture, the leading rank of the religious.

Small. 1. Scheme psychologic doslidzhen real families

Tse, zokrema, means that the psychological structure of the normative Orthodox family (the structure includes the particularities of the power, the view of the social closeness of the father, mother and child) is meaningful in the days of the Muslim Tipi ideal families are brought up to the rank of chief, culturologists. pid real family Rose is concrete, as a real group and object of communication. Druzhinin pidkreslyuє, when a certain type of a subject is to be seen, it is necessary to clearly understand what type of this is to be seen. In such a rank, psychologists understand the realities of the family from the point of view of seeing the norms.

The price can be illustrated with small number 1, de colo is a graphical image of the vastness of psychological experiences.

2.SIM'YA YAK PROSTIR ZHITTЄDIYALNOSTI

Nautsi has a word "Life" vikoristovuєtsya in different meanings. All organic (alive) nature is known to me, in view of inorganic (inanimate) nature. Life, being opposed to death, is the essence of all processes of life of people.

Investigation of the fact that life can be assigned to a person, and specifically to a specialty, came in the end of the XIX - the ear of the XX century. The process of learning is tied to the philosophy of individualism.

Itself todi is to appear and to be legally secured "Private life". Ilystruyuchi tse phenomenon, the author relies on artist literature that hour, zaduyuchi, zokrema, romance D. Galsworth"Saga about Foresight".

The whole novel is a classic chronicle of the same English family, stretching through many generations. Population, shlyub, separation, funeral, please with the private right of the family clan, horrible visions from the life of the "people". A typical representative of the family є Some Forsyth. Yogo family of tragedy - the tragedy of a people is unjustified, but it is not a wicked love in one's own squad and a mindset. The squadron guards through the death of a kohan - and the whole behavior of Soames Forsythe in the whole situation is to start without the bazhany from shutting the doors of their booth tightly, to regulate the dramatic situation.

... I raptom win, bumping the doors of the booth to see and on the poros, chornyuchi on the lighted hall, with his back to the new, stand like a cholovik. His heart zaschulos, win quietly go to go.

І wіn energized quickly:

- Would you like it, sir?

Dunno turning around. Tse buv young Jolyon. - The doors of the bullet are open, - having said win. - Can I beat your squad? I have a prerogative.

Some marveled at the new bevel.

-My squad doesn’t accept anyone, ”Winn muttered gloomily.

Young Jolyon myako reported:

-I will not override it.

Some squeezed past the new one, blocking the entrance.

-I won’t accept anyone,- Once again, having said vin, і a sound similar to the garchanya, waving from your throat ...

-Tse my budynoks, - having said win.- I will not allow myself to get involved in my righteousness. I have already told you, and I will repeat again: it is not accepted.

I conceived doors before Jolyon.

The vision of a private life in the capacity of a basic understanding will inevitably be mezakh sim'ї as a special spaciousness of living.

I will be even more precise with the illustration of the internal cordons, so that the space of the family is divided into the cholovych and the woman's sphere injected (more precisely, on the spheres, to expand the wisdom of the father and mother), you can know the writer F. Iskander in the announcement "The Great Day of the Great Budinku". Wine with humor and love describes the life of the great Abkhaz family, who lives in the girsky village and has preserved all the victories and traditions of the patriarchal way of life. Describe to fix in a moment, if the father motivates corn with the blue.

... Mother walked into the kitchen, walking to the mud, shouted towards the field:

-My lads, ob_dati.

-Ydemo!- The brothers began to cheerfully, not prikhovyuchi joy of the transition from the dreadful possession of the old man to the softness of the mother’s power.

Khvilin ten years later the bad'oro brothers went to the house. Daddy, like a bit of time, the mercy of the power, do not keep up with the success of them. The brothers threw their motik into the kitchen veranda. Father, according to the skin of them, having tried it with his hand, the blades on the handles are trimmed. As soon as I was building, I would like to get ready until the hour of the arrival of my power ...

I’m going to hurt, like, on my dad’s dummy, dragging on too long, win, razdratovanie s drive the lost hour of my power, buy blues: “Why did they grow up there? Vi scho, don’t bach, de sonce? We missed the dream, the sun! ... "

Brothers, smіyuchis, reluctantly got up і, taking their motics, virally followed the daddy.

- Himself hung up, yak the devil, and the children are not allowed to pass, - dissatisfied, not letting their heads go, mothers worried, if the blue passed through. Ale on the voice її can be seen boo, її is nadovgo hour, until the evening itself, it’s gone and there’s nothing to do with it.

life Rose in two aspects: as the living of the life of the most significant life, and as the life-creative activity in the development of life. Prominent philosopher and psychologist E. Fromm, Seemingly about love, yak about active forces, meaning, for creative specialties"Give - radisnish, nizh brothers" not to the one who is amused, but to the one who, in the process of "give", is the main manifestation of individual life.

Being in the open space of the seven allows people to be satisfied the need for a symbolic continuation of life after death. V existential psychology I am aware of those who witness death ("death") is an important determinant of human awareness and behavior.

Є a group of nobles, like a man to reach the symbolic immortality.

first shlyakh- biological. Win transfer vlasny life through the offspring, through the endless lance of biological links. The family, as the space of the living space of a man and a woman, reduces the frustration of death, allowing him to do so, the painful fear of not being through the people of children and onuk.

another way- "Creative". Wine is a symbolic continuation of life through its own way, through a special way of infusing onto other people. Fathers, scooping up a special education from the family, transmitting their information to their children, giving an ear to the endless lance of translations of interests and values.

third way- transcendental way of internal information. Tsei shlyakh transferring symbolic immortality for the rakhunok of a dearly buried yak at the power of the emotsia, so in emotsia, distributed with the "inshim". Lyudina is like a biathlonist who has been experiencing an intense experience, as soon as the hour and death are known, and I have lost life in the "uninterrupted" life. The family, establishing the boundaries of private life, will not allow for the possibility of rejecting the affluent and emotional happiness with the other people (so, for example, the mother "draws" herself into the symbiosis with the child, and the person lives the hour)

By the day, the seven permits the satisfaction of the consumer, which is the basis for the development of specialness. Naybіlsh vіdomoyu clasifіkіyu cich clasіfіkіy, proponated by one of the founders in the humanistic theory of specialness A. Maslow. Zgіdno Maslow (1999), іsnu five groups of people who need to be united in an іnrarchіchnu structure:

· physiological consumer(Consume in їzhі, odyazі, zhitlo, snі, addiction, sex, etc.). For the mutual satisfaction of the cich, the needs in the family must be understood: the territory of the living, the state of the spirit, the sexual relations between the friends and the іn.;

· Consume in a safe way. Prior to them, there is a need for organization, stability, transfer of ideas, unique contacts with fears, ailments and chaos. For the satisfaction of the chicks, the child's needs, for example, need to live in their homeland, a deceptive, stable order of life.

With a permissive, tolerable day for the daddy, even for an hour of sleep, for a long time, and also for the daytime, the child's fence is clearly formed by the vision of stability, the start of anxiety, the life of the middle. Naybіlsh ruinіvnymi officials, scho blocking the satisfaction of consumers in safety, such podії, such as welding, separation, separation, death;

· the need for belonging and love. The very first time in life is that people see belonging to a group of people who share blood ties and emotional ties with them, so that they can preserve love and psychological comfort. People with deprivation of need in love, as they grew up in a problematic, dysfunctional family (for the pose is in the minds of a childish ward), appear undead in the mayybut until the emergence of glib, loved ones, who are alone. One mind formulation of almost accessories until the last vidnosyn intimacy, as they are in the middle of the family space. These days of identity are set on the first stages of family life for a special type of family life, for members of the family The managers of the whole skin are real because of their uniqueness;

· demand in povazi (samopovagu). Sim'ya can directly and bit by bit satisfy the need of people in self-preparation and povazi from the side of them. The very fact of being obvious from people is to rob him of being socially successful. People who don’t mind the family, children, and also didn’t save the family (breeding), traditionally sleep as socially ineffective. An illustration of a social and psychological phenomenon є, for example, be it a vibrant company: a lyudin, who rozrahovuє to help the vibors with the help of a socially significant post, you cannot allow yourself not to the mother of the family.

Consumers can be directly satisfied with the fact that the skin of the members of the family can perceive their own identity and importance in this group. In the harmonious, functional systems, the skin of the people knows their own place, the role and the ability to pour into the system as a whole;

· demand for self-actualization. Maslow, having characterized self-actualization as a bazhanya of people, statistic, who may be, will increase the realizuvatie creative potential. For Maslow, children, wiggle around in a friendly, lovly, safe atmosphere, push to a special growth. Fathers otmuyut the power of realizovuvati to themselves from vikhovanny children. Seven can become the middle race itself, in which the health of the members opens up. For the whole, Volodya is guilty of a number of characteristics: in the homeland, it is love, mutual love, not guilty of the mother, the symbiosis and the coalition, all of which are one of the members of the family of the exploiter.

It is possible, for all intents and purposes, that the sub'active value of the family is due to the fact that, in any case, it is possible to allow the creation of socially meaningful situations for the people. This situation allows you to experience your own family and children for the new camp. Moreover, for some people, in their central role, they will become positive, constructively become and emotions (for example, such as poverty, joy, angry, closeness), and for others - negative, design, become images, eggs, fear). The very fact is that there can be some kind of unions, all the way through which friendships are created for the mutual satisfaction of the so-called “neurotic needs”. For example, the squad allows the cholovikov to see themselves for an hour without turbulence, uncontrollable as a “child”, to be punished for sexual intercourse with the other women. Such is the behavior of the cholovik, in his own devil, allowing the squad to realize the demand for the dominance and moral overthrow over the cholovik.

To deliver more and more psychologically exactly this kind of interaction and analysis by an American psychotherapist and a psychoanalytic theorist directly, a master of transactional analysis E. Bern.

The basic principles of Berne's theory can be determined as one step before the basic types of needs of the people are cleared up, which can be satisfied with the whole of the family's living space. From the point of view of Bern, the basic needs are such.

· The need for the knowledge ("Hunger for the knowledge") to be pleased in the family for the rakhunok "pogladzhuvan". The author calls it a pogladzhuvannyam be-yak dia, so allowance is made to recognize the presence of the people. It can be realized in any forms: from an intimate physical contact and a dotik to a gentle verbal beast and the like. In a dysfunctional family, the members, when interacting, do not exchange strokes, but By "blows". Yak blows to act as a result of transferring ignorance, impatience of a partner (beatings, images, criticism, visibility, communication from physical contact, etc.). The atmosphere is similar to the family's kind, and it’s a block of satisfaction with consumers, є citizens and psychological problems of family members.

· The need for a structured hour ("structural hunger", satisfaction with whatever is allowed to unicati nudga) can be satisfied in different forms: rituals, an hour, dyalnost, igrah, proximity. The space of the family allows realizing everything that Bern sees, forming the interaction between people. The skin is real, it will be characterized by the fact that it is structured in the form of pererakhovannyh vische. For example, "structural hunger" can be satisfied with the attention of family rituals in the eyes of the immutable, formalized traditions. For example, it can be traditional nidilnі obіdi, Obligation to see relatives, standard verbal bells and whistles and guides, such as the day-to-day guard of the person on the robot, etc.

hour not so formalized and transformed into interaction, like a ritual, a little more repetition. For example, in the family it is customary to spend the weekend at the same time at the dachas.

A skinny member of the family is kindly aware that I’m going to be working and talking about and going to be working and talking about it (mother will know again about Father’s appetite, I’m going to fall asleep at the newspaper, go to sleep through a bicycle, but make peace, go for an hour to swim will be healthy, etc.). Hour yak is the form of vtamuvannya "structural hunger" vimagat the deyakogo rule - you can speak only on the permissible ones and in the permissible style. The spilkuvannya of the members of the family is superficial, "light" character, but not allowing for the exchange of real and deep experiences. Protest, just allow the family to see their stability.

The basis of family life can also be based on different options of Igor. pid groyu Bern Rose is a substitute for true proximity. All іgry є deyako manіpulatіvіy campі and behave іnshoi people. The stench is to take revenge on the "bait", which vikoristovu one of the human weaknesses (insanity, greed, fervor, sexual inconsistency, foolishness, etc.). Call for more information about the weaknesses of your family partner. Bern described a great number of girlfriends igor, most of them are like “Yakby not ty”, “Frigidna woman”, “Hunted housewife”, “Bachish, as I’m wooed”, “Well, I’m caught, alcoholic! ".

activity- tse those, shho Bern called by robot. Sisnuyutsya sіm'ї, vibrating spіlkuvannya near singing form of activity. For example, all the members of the family and the sportsmen are of the same private organization. During the whole hour of the seven I will assign to the social solutions of the virobniks' houses. It is possible to see and todi, if a person and a woman are colleagues, work on one right, work, for example, on one science project.

proximity Bern's name is higher than the one put by people with a vilny exchange, which is more effective. Just closeness, as I feel in harmony in the world, as I do not feel the fear of the spirits, will allow me to increase satisfaction as “structural hunger” and “hunger for insights” of all members of the family.

3. SIM'YA YAK SOCIAL INSTITUTE І SMALL GROUP

Spіvvіdnoshennya to understand "shlyub" and "sіm'ya"

The family survived the whole experience in an hour and in spaciousness. The year's family is in every part of the world, and the history is rich in thousands. The meaning of the family in the life of the individual and the suspension is unwise to reappraise. Ale kozhne pokolinnya feeling the truth anew.

The science of family evolves in the minds of the versatility of family structures and the versatility of people about the family and love. The skinny inhabitant of our planet loves to be competent in the field of love and family life. People are even more eager to talk about love, love, children, relatives on the side of the cholovik and the squad, to share one with one "recipes" for the resolution of family problems. A teacher, or a psychologist, can conceive of a powerful concept of the family, as hour by hour one can disagree with his professional position. The accumulation of life knowledge and the joke of reliable scientific facts are combined with a mental method: intelligence, which is the rank of preserving the stability of the institute of the hobbyist and the family, as it is the ability of the family to live in the future.

In the widespread testimony of the witness, "shlyub" and "family" can be identified, albeit in science it is accepted that they are different. In the first term, the social and legal aspects of family and native peoples are visible. schlyub є a suspicious institute, which regulates the number of articles. A man and a woman will act in a new and as a specialty, as a huge power. The social character of the slut appears, the first for everything, in the public form of its arrangement, in the control of the suspension of the choice of favorite partners, v recession of family lane.

Philosophical encyclopedic vocabulary is interpreted historically and historically, sanctioned and regulated by the suspension, the form of a form between women and men, which will establish their rights and regulations for one to one day. Sanctioning children, taking care of the crop for their protection and imposing on partners the responsibility for the material safety and health of children, and for ourselves - for the future of the family. The success can give material assistance to the motherland, well є warehouse part social and demographic policy of any state.

The great fakhіvets in the halluz of sociology of the family A.G. Kharchev rozumiv I like to historically minify the social form of one between a man and a woman, for the rest of which I have an orderly and sanctioned status of life and will establish my friends, my father’s rights.

S.I. hunger beastly respect for those who are in love with the whole historically developmental mechanisms of social regulation (taboo, call, tradition, religion, law, morality) of sexual ideas between people and women Social recognition of the ship - vidvorennya. Sounds like a vaping visnovok, but one-way slut is nonsense, and homosexual intercourse is a reality. At the same time, in concrete minds the social meta gateway may or may not be realized.

The meaning of a whore in the haunted life of people can be covered by the sacrament of the church. Friendship stosunki are sanctified by the church, which means the lack of vigor, steel, good fortune.

In a given hour, in large numbers of people, there is a voluntary union of a man and a woman, a foundation for mutual scholarship and special housekeeping, registration in the manner prescribed by law, straightening to the root and preserving the family. Heads of law protect the boat and blood-spirited individuals will take care of the social security of their specialties. Protest, not all bets go to legal registration of the boat.

The order with the freedom to lay the boat, you can get the freedom of your development, you can turn around in separation. To that, it is up to the area of ​​favorite behavior to be introduced and to a series of partners, and to lead to separation (that is, to the point of becoming a friend of a friend one from one) and separation.

V happy holiday The variability of the models of any kind of monogamy is promoted, the type of whore is formed, є alternatives to the classic monogamy.

witness "sіm'ya" the designation for the characteristics of the folding system and the mutual relations of friends, children, relatives. This kind of twists and turns in the laconic formula of S.I. Hunger like looking homeland yak sukupnіst іndivіdіv, schokladayutsya, shonaimanshe, in one of three types of wіdnosin: blood dispute, bred, power.

Hopefully the tradition of this understanding, to be seen in the bagatokh previdkovyh visions. family - the most important form of organizing a special life, a type of social spirituality, a small group, is based on a friendship alliance, native calls or reinforcement, that is, on different sides of the family between brothers and friends, sisters to live at the same time and in the spirit of the state. However, the life is to make deyaki korektivi in ​​the same reason. In the morning, the "guest" (regularly-distributed) is developing, which is the transfer of accommodation to friends with a stretch to reach a trivial interval for an hour.

Bagato fahivtsiv vikoristovuyt viznachennya sіm'ї, proponated A.G. Kharchovі: "sіm'ya- the whole historically-specific system of intercourse between girlfriends, between fathers and children, and it is small social group The members of those who are bound by those who are loving or father-in-law, will be spirited and morally convinced, the social need for them is summed up by the need for support from the spiritual and spiritual.

Backroom understand about consulting

The word "consultation" is used in decilkoh meanings: a lot of people, exchange of thoughts of fahivts from what-nebud right; glad fakhivtsya; installation, if yes, please, for example, legal advice. Such a rank, consultations, means to be happy with the Fakhivtsy for some kind of food.

Psychological consultations are very specific, as they are the subject, goals and employees of the process, as well as, as a consultant, I will understand my professional role in the individual logic of the life of the family. On the specialty of the consultation, it is insanely, injecting theoretical changes, science education or school, to which there is a consultant. So, the style of consultation in the mainstream of a special-oriented approach is based on a general focus on the client, with a special respect for his experience and admiration. Cognitive-behavioral pidhid, or NLP (neuro-linguistic programming), transferring a short-line consultation, similar to the process social networking For a changeover.

Behind the cordon, consultative psychology was seen as a special idea to provide psychological assistance to people and families in folding life situations in the 50s. XX Art. From the classic psychotherapy of the second development from the concept of ailment, greater respect for the life situation of the client and his special resources; from navchannya - the meaning is not the style of knowledge, but the ways of interaction between the consultant and the client, as it gives rise to the possibility of self-reliance on difficult times.

In vіtchiznyanіy psikhіchnіchnіy nautsі term "advisory psychology" is on the ear of the 90s pp. last century. Counseling psychology to go with the announcement about those who, for the help of a specially organized process of socialization in the people, came up for the help of the people, and there may be actualized additional psychological forces and health, in order to help the new situation in the new situation.

Counseling psychology is focused on five basic nutrition. What is the essence of the process, which is the result of being a human being (or a motherland), who have found themselves at an important situation and have turned for help (client), і people, and її nadaut (consultant)! What functions is the visitor guilty of? What are the specialties of rice, installation, knowledge and knowledge necessary for the successful presentation of their functions? What reserves, internal forces of the client can be updated in the course of the consultation? What are the specialties of the process of consulting the situation, what happened in the life of the client? How can you take advantage of this technology and help you in the process of getting help?

With all the indications that are being promoted today in the minds of the psychological counseling of that employer, theorists and practitioners agree on how to consult and professional contacts between the consultant and the client who is looking for a problem. Qia vzaєmodіya zvіysnyutsya face to face, if only one can include and more than two people. In the іnshomu position diverge. One thing is that the counseling to learn from psychotherapy is centered on the greater surface of the robot (for example, on the basis of misconceptions), and the main thing of this establishment is to help the motherland and around the people in their own problems. , being dzherels of difficult, it is absolutely impossible to understand and not to be controlled (Yu. E. Aleshina, 1994). We are interested in consulting one of the forms of psychotherapy health and to start their central task in helping the client to know his own information and to know in himself the manhood of the self-statistics (R. May, 1994).

In the last ten years, a tendency has emerged, the term “psychological consultation” has been expanded (V. A. Binas, B. M. Maystrov and I.) Itself such a reason for consultation and we will do it. Regardless of the life situation of people, or family (like a collective client), for the purposes of consultation, there may be reasons for self-confidence (the formation of a productive confidence in life, to take citizens in their lives, in all that Difficult, renewing the connection between the members of the family, forming the members of the family one by one, behavioral changes (forming the ways of productive communication of the members of the same family)

Psychological consultation of the family is guiltyly aimed at updating and reconfiguring the links between the members of the family, one with one and the other, at the development of the minds of one and the same, and the formulation of the same social groups.

The main stages of the consultation process

Psychological consultation is a whole system. It is possible to understand how to develop in the hours of the process, as well as the competence of the consultant and the client, in which there are three main components.

Diagnostic - systematically providing dynamism to the development of people, or family, as they turned for help; collection and accumulation of information and minimum and sufficient diagnostic procedures. On the basis of a professional educational experience, a psychologist and a client visually start to monitor the social robot (the whole process and the staff), to raise awareness, to identify between the necessary responses.

In case of a robot with a skin homeland, the establishment of a unique, such as a life situation, even if you talk about the home of the consultant of the family, then it’s not a matter of “lack of civilian psychological comfort” and “soundness” dull in a crisis situation - help to take life from all life experiences (not living in life), to go through difficult life, rethinking your life with yourself, who are, to be able to live in your own life, to take in your life ...

The consultant will need to attend to the client, she will change the shape and the world from the perspective of the best development. The family itself and only the very possibility of experiencing the events, furnishing and changing of one's life, gave rise to a family of unfavorable conditions. At the same time, one cannot kill for the members of the family, as the best teacher of intelligence cannot explain the material for his study. A consultant may not be able to create a mind for changing and stimulating the process: organizing, directing, making it unattractive for a new mind, pragmatic before being aware of these processes, at least not because of alcoholic pathology. neurotization, psychopathization, suicide, malignancy, etc.). With such a rank, the meta is the most important in the particularity of the client and his life situation.

The main stage of consultation is the revision and preparation of the mind, which allows you to start thinking, which stimulates positive changes in the family's minds and uses new ways of productive interaction. At all stages, the consultant evaluates the results of diagnostics (mental health and wellness) and on the basis of thinking, as well as thinking about the necessary for the friendly development of the family and the specialties, who have become aware of the members of the family of positive Successfully make contact with yourself and with the society, adapting to the new. Instead of developing and realizing naughty individual and group programs for social and psychological development of the family, development, organized for a specific family and specific children and adults. The transfer of special social and psychological minds is also transferred to provide additional assistance to grown-up children, who may have especially folding problems.

Analysis of the industrial and final results of the social robotics and the introduction on the basis of changes in the program of the consultant-supervisor.

Psychological consultation - prolongation, failure to process. Yogo processual analysis of the transfer of visual dynamics, how to store in stages, steps and crocs, moreover, the development of the dynamics of the environment (consulting or training) and the dynamics of the whole process.

To comprehend the dynamism, one can speed up the metaphor of a spiritual rise from an obvious situation to a rich maybut. Todi consulting will help the client in solving the three main tasks:

the meaning is "the moment, at the moment of the brutalization, there is a family" (What is the problem?

viyaviti "misce, where would you like to come on the road", to be a stan, who would like to reach this anyway, the client turns up (formulate an image of a bastard maybut, but to value his reality) і vibrate tightly snake (how much work?)

help the client (sim'ї) to get over (Yak tse zrobiti?).

The process of verifying the first acquisition of the diagnostic component of the suprovide; the third can be seen as a re-implementation or reabilitation. For another, a ready-made term is not yet available; won’t be seen in the course to please me as a client and a psychologist. Cleverly, the stage can be called "vidpovidalnye decisions" or "vibor way".

This is a tripartite model of being present in a series of in-tegratic approaches to consulting in psychology and social robotics (V.A. Goryanina, 1996; J. Gen. 1994).

Apparently, on the cob stage of mastering the professional, the consultant needs to be able to organize simple and mobile circuits. Behind the wizard, you can see three stages in the process of the supra-guide:

Investigating not only the reasons, but the internal causes of the crisis (life difficulties);

Reconstruction of a family or a special myth, development of a price tag;

Ovolodinnya necessary life strategies and behavioral tactics.

Methods і priyomi, vikoristovuvanі in the family consultation

Traditionally, the main method of psychological counseling is to take an interest in the interview, so it is a therapeutic conversation, it is based on the social and psychological approach of the system and additional help. However, today in the practice of counseling (including the family one), all the wealth of methods and practices that have been broken up in children’s psychotherapeutic schools are widely used: also methods of group therapy. To secure the ringing sound, you can use video recordings and such psychotechnics, such as "sociogram in diy", "family sculpture", "family choreography" spaciousness, imagining your relationship in the statics, or dynamism).

There is a lot to choose between methods and contact techniques to start with the same time, in any case, the consultation process will take place. Accepted vidіlyati znіshnіy and internal іvnі consultations.

Robot at the most significant level of sufficient for the resolution of minor special and family problems. Vona often stays on the first occasion (especially when consulting family bets). Here, the technology of the trend is widely used to assist in breaking down into humanistic psychology (K. Rogers, F. Vasilyuk and I.). Dovіrchі vіdnosіvі, svoryuvіvіnі wіth thіm, generates visibility, as a supplement to the skin member of the semblance of visibility everything that is in the new on the Duma, and the visibility of its righteousness. Tse the first crock to the clarification of the problem, crock to himself and to the very people.

Vikoristovuyutsya on the whole level and development of technology, breakdown in behavioral psychology. Zokrema, behavioristic modification of "contract therapy", if friends are home to one wine city for that behavior, like the stench of clearing out the partner.

On a larger scale (in case of robotic problems with Sosa-fallowness, overgrowth of moisture, etc.), if it is necessary to integrate the processes into a lesser extent, methods of breaking up in psychoanalysis, gestalt therapy and psychodynamics

Such eclecticism is entirely pre-riverine, ale less for singing minds. First of all, vibrate, you need to remember the methodology at home, like J. Paul formulating his nutrition: "Yaka help, who is there to help and in what minds is it most effective for any customer with specific problems?" And in a different way - do not forget, but the main part of psychological counseling is not the same psychotechnics, but a special form of communication in the "psychologist-client" system, is based on a kind of victorious basic double mechanism of identity - BC ... The very task is to create a mind for the experience, activation, reflexion and reconstruction of the image of the client's image and of the third fragments during the period of consultations and groups to occupy.

Go to family consultation

The basic senseless concept of family counseling: from the modification of the Freudian psychoanalytic model to the positive family therapy N. Pezeshkian. However, it will remain an hour of practice to provide the interface with integrative approaches, such as systemic and structural.

The founders of the systemic approach (M. Bowen, S. Minukhin, V. Satir, K. Vitaker, etc.) one at a time: family conflicts and crises cause a destructive injection for everyone. Oskіlki sіm'ya - the whole system, it is not so important, as from її elements change. In practice, changes in the behavior of any one of the members of the family are injected onto it and they enter the system (some members of the family) and immediately see the injection from its side.

Nayuyu help the homeland in the important period of life, not for sense to be concerned with the manifestations of psychoanalytic reasons for the conflict: more importantly, more importantly, more importantly, more importantly, with the path of specific goals, by the members of the other members. With a further revised strategy and tactics of the robot family, the situation will appear in the world in order to follow the recommendations of the fahivts. The changes lead to destruction in the mechanism of the function of the family and the decrease in the manifestation of symptoms of psychological distress in one or the other members.

What are the functions of a psychologist when working with children? What will your respect be focused on in the consultation process? Will you be able to become the main ones? At the time of feeding to present some of the numerical systemic approaches to the psychological assistance of the family in the fallowness of their theoretical organization.

So, the author of the theory of family systems M. Bowen sturdzhu, but the members of the family cannot be one and the same, so as such behavior can lead to internal dysfunction. Tsenzhuyogo with systemic therapists. Allegedly: Bowen looks at all human emotions and behavior as a product of the Evolution. Moreover, it is not individual, unique, but tied with the forms of life. Winning a variety of tightly knitted concepts, middle concepts of differentiation of the Vlast Self, emotional triplets, family projections and inn. On the other hand, the mechanism of internal functions is analogous to the mechanism of function of all living systems. Not a vague concept of differentiation of a powerful I am so bad in the science of differentiation of a clientele. Therapists of the central school take into account the differentiation of the vlast self in the course of the family psychotherapy sessions until the comfort of the family of the client, the process of assuming the function of dysfunction and the weakening of the symptoms. The role of a consultant in the whole system of family counseling comes close to the position of a trainer: win new members of the family of differentiation, comprehend the ways in which they can interact with the way of working together. With a psychologist, you don’t go to these ready-made recommendations, but lead a spilny joke. It’s important not to wait too long: the spiley joke allows the family members to master productive ways of dealing with problem situations, developing in them a sense of subtlety and skill in their power, so that in order to weaken the negative symptoms, they can bring them to the point of reducing their negative symptoms.

Bowen is widely used in his theory and practice of family therapy to understand the life cycle of the family, as well as for the need for the necessary national specialties of clients.

The first version of robotics from the family, which has won wide popularity in society, is the structural family therapy of S. Minukhin.

There are three axioms at the heart of the approach.

I will help you psychologically, you need to take the whole family to respect. Kozhen from the members of the family can see how the system is.

Therapy of a family of changes in structure and to create a change in the behavior of the skin from the members of the family system.

Pratsuyuchi sіm'єyu, the psychologist will come to her, as a result of a therapeutic system, as if to rob the young family of snakes.

Seven of the set as a differentiation of the whole, the subsystem of which - around the members of the same or some of the members. Skin pidsystem (batkivska, girlfriend, child) has specific functions and presents singers to their members. At the same time, for the skin pid system, a step of freedom and autonomy is necessary. For example, for the adaptation of friendships one to one, freedom is required for children and extrafamily otochennya. The problem of cordons and family subsystems is of great importance for this.

S. Minukhin sees two types of damaged cordons: first - interlocking, impurity, size; the other one is zyva zakritist, yak vede to the roses of the members of the family. One s

There are many types of broken cordons can be found in any unfavorable situation. So, the size of the cordons is rotated between the mother and the child to make the old daddy. As a result, in the homeland, they repair the functions of two autonomous subsystems: "mother-child (children)" and "batko". In children, the development of competence in spіlkuvannі with odnolіtki, and in daddies there is a threat of separation. And the axis of the family with roses, navpaki, is destroyed until the family Mi is formed. The members of the family of roses cannot be satisfied with the needs of people in the family - in good times, warmth and food.

Wrapped up, the family reacts to any kind of snakes quickly and intensively, and the members of the family infect one of their moods. And the axis in the baiduzha family is overwhelmed, as the child sees it as cold, without any, and you can describe your family like this: "We have no one to whom there is no sense."

Described the classification and support to psychological assistance, straightened, in the first place, in order to assimilate and inadequate closeness of the members of the family, as to reach the symbiote, which is very useful in the home, in addition to the additional

The role of a psychologist in the system of S. Minukhin is understood as follows: one of them must come to seven, for an hour as one of three members. “A therapeutic infusion for the family,” we write, “is a necessary part of family diagnostics. The therapist cannot help to diagnose and diagnose from the side ”(S. Minukhin, 1978). "Entry" of a psychologist into the family system of vicliks "minikrіzіs", which is of less importance: rigorous, rigorous calls, and every little bit weaken, and so give the homeland a chance to change the state of its "cordonity", its structure

S. Minukhin sees this category of psychologist on restructuring the family: the actualization of family models of interaction; establishment of cordon cables; escalation to stress; completing the administration; vikoristannya symptoms; stimulation of the singing mood; pіdtrimka, navchannya abo kerіvnitstvo.

There are no less extensions than one of the options for the systemic approach - the strategic family therapy (J.Haley, K. Madanes, P. Vaclavik, L. Hoffman, etc.). ...

In some cases, within the framework of the strategic one, it directly includes the option of systemic family therapy, breakdowns in the Milanese schools of science. However, here at the center of the robot - the emergence and re-incarnation of the quietly unrecognizable "rules of the gris", as it is perceived as unfavorable. "Family gris" (the first stench is described in the transactional analysis of Erik Bern) is based on the pardon of the declared members of the family about those who can provide unilateral control over miscellaneous vidnosin in the family, managed by the other members of the family. The work of a psychologist is directly focused on the emergence of quiet reactions of the members of the family, which can lead to "enrollment", as it is healthy for a number of unhealthy (diagnostics), and then - for additional help in the process of understanding the ability to incorporate

Another construct, which vikoristovuyutsya for the analysis of friendships' relationships, - the statement about those, which in the basis of the current conflicts lie inadvertently the struggle of a friend for power and pouring in, competition and supernatural one for one (in Russia) Who is in the house, gentlemen? "). The robot of the consultant in the whole model of psychotherapy is focused on the established balance between friends, if the game is played or the programs of one will be compensated by the winners and the programs of the one.

Psychoanalytic (N. Akkerman, K. Seger і іn.), Cognitive-behavioral (R. Dreykurs, A. Ellis and іn.)

An analysis of the numerical theoretical motives and practice of robotics of family consultants, giving rise to the “simple” typology for the general population, every number of systems and robots from the same , "React" and "system cleaners".

"Providnі" authoritarian therapies. Pragnochi set the health of everybody in the homeland, pour in the stench from the position of "super-dad", which more beautiful members family know, well for її members is good or nasty and active. I will increase the number of clientele from independent zusiles, knowing the difference from them. For the sake of justice it is significant that for the people or for the seven who turned up for help in the period of a great crisis, also put on the cob stage of the consultative process in the camp of vikovo regression, if the form of the reaction turns, the power of the overwhelmed, feverless child. For robots with such clients (with seven or some specialties), the consultant takes the "father's position" and picks up the strategy of pre-parenting by yourself, and then by yourself. The same idea in this earlier description of structural family therapy (S. Minukhin).

“React” the family of psychotherapists in order to covet positive changes in the family, to get mobilized and powerful internal potential for development. The stench is "included" in the atmosphere and atmosphere of the family, in which the robot is carried out. This kind of therapy is visually vivid: one of the psychologists allows one to be drawn into the situation, the same situation (for all of them, the role of the child is most often taken on), the other is in the role of helping the biologist, and I try to be systematic.

As soon as you think that psychotherapists react theoretically to focus on psychoanalysis, it doesn't matter the intelligence and the turns of such a robot, and the day. Psychoanalytic transmission, which, in his own capacity, is a therapist of offense to a function (and identification with a client, and a message from a client). In the process of interaction with a client of wine, alternately, one identifies with him, penetrating deeply into his problems, then one finds himself as a client and his situation with the help of an efficient judgment. Immediately, there are two functions of two psychologists.

"Cleaners of systems" persh for everything to put things in order in the rules, for which the family lives. The consultant will be able to counteract improper hairstyles, susceptibility to illnesses and pathological forms of behavior. The whole method is characteristic for the strategic family therapy and the systemic family therapy in the young school of thought

Consulting friends on missocial problems

As a rule, seven are engaged in psychological counseling at the important period of life, if they see a struggle, break up with each other, or get confused.

Analyzing problems, some friends often go to consultations, pre-alumni (Yu.E. Aleshina, V.Yu. Menovshchikov) use the most typical:

Risky kind of confrontation and dissatisfaction with me, tied with the roster of friends' roles and relations;

Conflicts, problems, dissatisfaction with friendships through the views in the glances at the family life and misconceptions;

Sexual problems, dissatisfaction of one person with those in the spheres and in their minds not thinking about the grace of normal sexual behavior;

Foldable and confl icts between the partners of the friends' bets with the fathers of one or both friends;

Ailment (psychotic or physical) of one of her friends, problems and difficulties, wickedness of the need to adapt the family to become ill, negative prejudices to themselves and the desperate of the most ailing or members of the family;

Problems of power and flow in friendships;

Visibility of warmth in friends' bags, shortage of closeness and doviri, problems of spilkuvannya.

With all the outlook on the problems, the problems are similar: it is difficult to find out in the sphere of common sense with the other people. However, problems - depriving a marker of dysfunction in the internal society of a people (it is possible to create an image about a person and a woman, their obligations and behavior, the development of a party to themselves, more , fear, anger and іn.).

The main strategy of consulting in case of damaged friends

We need to consult on the problems of identification through the advancement of the specifics of the sub-active image of the people and the reconstruction of quiet fragments.

It also makes sense to the image of the specialness close to the understanding of the myth in that cultural sense, which has added the term of the year (E. Kassirer, S. Kripper, A. Lobok, A. Losuv і іn.). There is an image of light as an individual myth of people about themselves, their people, light and their share in the hour of life and in the historical hour. The goal of establishing self-awareness, a picture that is based on cognitive and figuratively emotional life and regulation of life in life, behavior, but people in light. In the quality of the central component of the image of light, the “image of I” is a system of manifestation and visibility of people to themselves (and everything that is important to their own) in the hour of life and in the historical hour. In the capacity of these structural lanes, the image of the people (close and distant; people and women) appears in the image of the light, the image of light as a whole, as if it appears on the mountain ryve in a sense of ontological and inevitability. The whole myth changes with the spiritual and mental development of specialness and serve as an internal basis for the regulation of behavior and health of life vibrations.

The very reconstruction of the sub'active image of the light of particularity has become the main strategy of consulting. The transfer of additional help at all stages of the formation of a new system of family and skin members to themselves, those who, in the hour of their life, at the moment of brutality for psychological assistance to themselves before the formation of positive members in the present whole. A consultant to a supervisor of the family in a difficult path from a disadvantage to a prosperous one. Win dopomagaє one, for about the friend to learn not only the call, but the internal causes of the destruction of the error; learn your image of light or that fragment, which is tied to the destruction of the relationship; provide psychological support; self-knowledge and knowledge of the people; development of Empa-tiiu (smartly stand at the place of people and see them as oneself) and reflexive health (good thoughts to go beyond the middle of the middle situation in the field of fashion) As a result of such robots, the client will deny the opportunity to go through the offense of the sides of the street in connection with fashion, to shake and intelligence not only to his experience, but to the experience of other people, to start more beautifully motives, people feel, their confessions. All the while giving the opportunity to reconstruct your own image and master new, more productive models of interaction and behavior.

How to organize the family consultation process

Semeyne konsultuvannya - tse zovsim not binding the robot with the members of the family overnight. At different stages of the process, in different proportions, one can develop new ways of organizing the process of family consultation: combining with the common homeland, individually consulting one of the members of the robot, working together with a friend (father-mother-children), a robot with an extended homeland (it also includes parents and quiet loved ones, like pouring onto families of children: titties, uncles, etc.); a robot with an ecosystem or a social grid.

An individual robot with one of its friends. In general, the classic messages "consultant-client" are developing, however, there is an invisibly present context of the same messages (in the memory and images of the client, in the little ones and the situations are being played, etc.). Sem'ya prodovzhu іsnuvati "in the plan of a declaration, a secondary image and it is possible to correct the illumination and assessment of the patient" (N. Pezeshkian, 1994).

If, with an individual consultation, there are certain problems, and for the scargs on the unreasonable household

bezgluzdo put sob for the meta "change the squad for children and іkh put to me." However, you can change yourself, think over your behavior and your role in the family, and even better for everything, people close to you will be put in the right way. For the whole it is possible to vikoristovuvati a reception of therapeutic parables (N. Pezeshki-an i in.). For example, as a bi-mіzh іnshim supply power about those whom the psychologist sees as a young person, and then with a laugh, explain, as if it’s not good for a psychologist to go on suspicion, then it’s like a child ...

Ale є y іnshі vipadki, if successful individual consultation of one of the members of the friend of the wiklic opіr іnshogo. If only one person is consulted, but he does not want any changes in the family's problems (it seems like: “Nicholas did not live well, so it’s not good to fix it”), then the fault is not safe for balancing the dynamic system of the synchronicity. Home fixes to see the triviality and can try to turn people to the most role-based stereotypes, to self-adjusting behavior.

Yak butt guided by vipadok from practice.

The squad of one of the clientele (called him Oleksandr) steadily drove to him for piyatstvo. Before the psychologist, there was only one vein, the splinters of the squad were obstructing the separation. She refused from a spilnoy consultation1 “P'єsh ti, not me. Everything is normal for me, and for the psychologist I have nothing to do. "

However, if in the course of consulting the behavior of Oleksandr, he wandered and got along without alcohol, the squad knew the gostru trivia. Vona herself began to bring dodoma alcohol and provokuvati yogo "three drinks". Їy tse into the distance - a new family triumphant "victim-ryativnik-crosswalker" was renewed; uvagi.

If it is through rіk, after a second consultation, the cholovіk vserioz having pinched piti - shlyub raspavsya.

A greater optimistic forecast with other problems is a situation, if a friend of a couple is willing to come before a psychologist. Already such a thing came to tell about those who have є an attitude to preserve a living life, and that means є a hope for a snake to be beautiful. The zavdannya polyagє is in knowing the positive potential of a friend's bet, such a need for a crisis situation and reconstructing the family of a day.

A robot with a girlfriend. At the same time, people and squads come to the consultations at once, and they should try to destroy the models in each case one by one. The consultant can safely lead them to the understanding of conflict, unproductive forms of interaction. In the course of the robot, with a couple, you can see the folding life situation from different points of view, help your friend know a new look at life, which is difficult and its role in the world, and then know new, more productive ways to eat. However, everything is not so simple: at the first stage of the robot, a couple of friends can deliver the consultant at least some peace of mind and put a threat to the very possibility of the consultation.

Difficult robots with a friendly pair

To lead a priyom, in which to take on the fate of two clientele (the same conflicting between themselves), more important, less consultations than one. If I want a robot with two people and is more effective, the results should not be of such a weak character, which is so powerful with individual consultation: here it is easier to get over these great problems, as to lie in the basis of friendships. To do this, make friends on a sleeping robot, organize and send a constructive dialogue, from a consultant, you need special tips and a minute.

Constructive dialogue rightfully engages in the most effective method of robotics with a friendly couple or homeland as a whole at the cob stages of consultation. The organization of constructive dialogue includes three stages: preparation, negotiation and acceptance of compromise decisions.

A particularly important person is a preparatory stage, whose task is to know the points of the dot and reformulate the friends. As a rule, the conflicting parties (especially in front of a situation) do not get away from it: they also smell like “wondering at their sides”. The reformulation of the goals of the field was successfully carried out in the transferred emphasis from the formal ones, making friends one to one, a stream of skargs and an image on purely human contacts. At the end of the stage, the psychologist will direct the decision to those who reconfigure the couple, as they have come unrealistically, in the active, promising participants in the process: I will set up those who are in principle, P.

You can only move on to another stage - negotiations. Conflicting parties will fix the role of partners in equal rights, and the psychologist, who are the educators, will play the role of a mediator, facilitator, and model of partnerships. As a result of a step-by-step exchange of thoughts, feelings and enthusiasm, participation in role-playing games and specially modeled situations, together with the fashion of friends, go to the third stage - accepting a compromise decision.

The situation on the cob stages of the consultation is especially neat: the presence of another member of the bet so quicker the establishment of therapeutic contact, negatively infuses on the go. Making friends can interrupt one one, enter into a conversation and fight, pragmatic argue, maybe explain or bring one to one. At times, the situation is paradoxical: at any moment of a conflict, friends can quickly come together and ... mentally act against a consultant. It is possible and a zootny reaction: the presence of a partner is made before the person or the squad becomes a mover, the skin of them is a check, which is more likely to be more important.

First, go on to describe the strategy and tactics of consulting a family bet, obviously, you can take two options for coming to the consultation: making friends at once with one of them with scargs on yourself or a partner. The most popular option is the last one.

With the formulation of skarg sub'ectniylocus (to whom the client should pay), you can add the following options:

first skarzhitsya on another;

the first and the other are ranked by the third;

the first and other spіlnually want to go to work;

If you try to skarzhit yourself, others want to help you1.

Basically, the consultant's job at the first stage is to establish contact with the client (s) and go to the one that led him or her to the reception. However, already on the cob rage with friends can be seriously difficult. For an hour, the cholovik and the squad should punch the wrong way, the essence of the problem, but demonstrate the provinces and shortcomings of the other, guessing all the new and new partner's grievances, annoying and interrupting one one.

How could a consultant be guilty of a fault? In such a situation, it is necessary to introduce the rules of behavior in the consultation, the proposition to a friend, speak the words of the partner only through and comment, if an hour is given.

The cob stage of a robot with a pair can be smart, if the consultant and the client are ready to lead the conversation, or even separate. The spilny version of the whole affair is pre-Rich in the other, the third and, perhaps, in the fourth type. For the first time, if one client is to skarzhi on the other, docilely little skargi by the way. One of the friends is going to get lost with a consultant, and the other checks his house outside the door to the office.

On the other stage, the consultant is a psychologist. I should follow the dialogue and, if necessary, get involved, guiding it.

Psychotechnical priyomy, victorious by a psychologist in the consultation of a friend's bet, as well as to quietly, as a vicarist in an individual consultation, i.e. However, the rephrasing is often not directed to those who show the client, but the consultant of the client's mind and mind, but to those who are the client's intelligent partner.

Consultant for the direction of repeating the phrase of the first individual of another. For example, when you accept your friends, you can sound like this: “Sveta, did you see those who said Sergiy at once? Vin talking about those ... "(dal yde paraphrasing).

Basic vimogues to robots with a pair of friends

Consultation of a friend's bet is able to advise the principle of humane placing before the skin member of the family and the family in whole and in good; not overcrowding, but qualified for additional help and adaptation of natural development. Light of the family є insane value. The consultant is responsible for accepting the homeland and position and giving the clients a chance to see.

The consultant went on to improve the autonomy of the family, who turned up for help, її the right to a good vibe of his own way to develop (as, well, way of life does not encumber the life and the health of the child). Remember: the consultation is effective only toddler, if it is possible, to save and to positively develop the family as a whole.

The consultant is healthy and individualized to the family and to the skin of the members, spiraling with the development of resources on the resource, as it is really in the family. The consultation is guilty of being involved in the logics of positive opportunities for the development of the family, and not by the piece to nominate friends and family.

Zdijsnyuchi consulting family wager, the psychologist is guilty of adopting the principle of realism: do not get overwhelmed by these or someone else from the members of the family, “do not preserve the life of the prosperous, or pravolashtuvannya”. It is possible that during the period of the period of life "development of life", it is possible to help the type for the crisis periods in the world, think for the development of the internal health of the life, as well as allow for the creation of the author family, so and in the stosunki of the family with the "great light".

Clearing the hearing and a little skin from the sides will help you to make contact, and that means you have a chance for a successful consultation.

In consultation with the system, it is necessary to have a clear structure in the process of acceptance.

Robot with a nuclear family, that is, with the homeland of a vuzky sensible word (father, mother, children). The process is overwhelmed by the fact that I am coming for a consultation in a general warehouse and here it’s an hour of non-trivial therapeutic entertainment, in the forms that are necessary for myself, to promote that very life, as I live at home, and also, for a special kind of everyday life ...

A robot in the nuclear world is especially pre-English, if in the homeland there is a symptom of a psychological unhappy child. Before the end of the systemic family psychotherapy, the destruction in the child's behavior is lost as a key to the "common family pain", as a kind of information about crisis processes, like the whole motherland is suffering. “For a child who is not well-off, it is obvious that the family-wide dysfunction is camouflaged because of him, and is rooted in the big battles of family life. І naturally, tsei zavzhid a childish ailment, so we will grow up the styles of non-handles, not having a bias, as if in a sense we would not be needed, "brown" for the family as a matter of integrity, not just bi-tally, not very young "intellectual desirability", saturating seven out of the way and at the same hour permissibly preserving the status quo of defective people "(TV Snegireva, 1991).

Robot with an extended family, not only mothers, fathers and children, but also those close to you (grandmothers, children, uncles, grandmas and other members of the family, who pour into the system of life and children) are included in the yak.

A robot with an ecosystem. In the process of consulting, getting involved, being included in the quality of industrial winter contacts and social institutions.

The smart consultant is guilty, but we will protect him on the border. The first thing for everything you need to know is that family-wide dysfunction, as a rule, is camouflaged and primed in the big battles of family life: often friends talk, think, think, live, live through one life, and live through

used infrastructure of life. Kozhen krok psychologist on ts_y terra incognita can be found on the opir of the members of the family. For a person who consults the homeland, always want to see the food: how far you can go, interacting with the family reality, combining in a short series of ideas of that psychological experience of life, to come to life.

For example, in the crisis period of life, it is not easy to promote alcoholism of the head of the family. However, in general, it is not possible for the senses to do anything about the very head of the family: alcoholization is often deprived of a symptom, an indicator of family dysfunction, the manifestation of dysfunctional family problems. On the right is that alcohol is a drug, it is wicked to see warmth, safety and comfort. The family, de druzhina, either overwhelmingly authoritarian, or cold-streaming, alcohol “replaces” rich functions, traditionally attributed to family (abduction, dovira, warmth, closeness). Besides, alcohol is often old for a person "at home" as he wants to relax and drink from life problems. Already, it is necessary to look at alcoholism as an indicator of instability of emotional behavior and not only in the feeding person himself, but with the same family behavior, rules and behaviors that are different from the same family.

Yaky bi variant of vzamodії I vibrav a psychologist for a consultation turned up for the help of the family, importantly, I wondered about the positive resources of її members, having pushed me to adapt and develop a little bit of good health and good fortune. Only such a build-up of a serious conflict and destruction.

Consultation on the folding drive for children

Not before, now, about the advice about the help of the updated family of children, friends go to consultations with the scargs on the folding of the children with the children of the newest student groups - from the older preschool groups. Moreover, there are children, in those who are on the road, whether they see them, but the biggest problem is that they are not smart enough to come to see them.

Most types of skargi for a post-conflict with a child, for a child's ears and for the fit of children (especially in a crisis period); disrespect; disorganized behavior; nonsense (for a yak they take yak "pseudo-lie", so that a child is fantasizing, so is nonsense for a little thing, because of fear, we will be punished, pertinence, non-commercialism, will not go to fathers, defiance, rudeness ...

How can a psychologist-consultant be able to work on the stage of robots with money and drink?

The first for everything - remind the skarga-fed with a specific snake (as the very behavior of the situation became the basis of the beast).

Preserve the "stereoscopic" look at the situation (і look at her fathers, і look children, і materials of psychodiagnostics).

In any case, a psychologist is guilty of being on the boat. Yogo robot is not in the affirmation of the "negative" rice in the child (which is in the number of types and checks), but in the visuvanna spirally with daddy hypotheses about the history of this confusion, how much

The reasons for the destruction of the child-daddy's wickedness are the price for all the inability to think about the child, even if the pardon was allowed (not because of evil, but due to the interconnection and tradition of the manifestation of the wickedness) the rest of the rock pobutova and specialness of the fathers themselves.

In general, in the psychological consultation on the drive of the foldability, there are three organically tied straight lines for the children.

1. Advancing the social and psychological competence of the fathers, bringing them up to the best of the way and dealing with confrontational situations.

2. Psychological assistance will grow to members of the family, which includes both diagnostics of the internal situation and the robot as well.

3. Psychotherapeutic robot without a child.

The main object of the inflow has become the sphere of Batkiv svidomosty, the system of stereotypes, which formed the relationship in the homeland (A.S. Spivakovska). It is very important for the bagatokh daddy to bring the first and the other straight into the robot. Persh for everything - a robot from the pedagogical, wicked stereotypes.

One of them is the stereotype of a rapist I pour into a child, a yak, a yak bi in a mock, a dad called a vikhovannyam.

For those who are Russian tats and mothers, you can go blindly thinking about those who grab a child through force, pushing a spoonful of porridge through their clenched teeth, - a horrible violence against the child. The whole gesture of the turbot is hidden in the depths of the child's symbolic boundaries, destroying the child's integrity and ... the form of the sacrifice, I am ready to reconcile myself to the penetrating people in the special space.

At the same time, it is effective for a child to rest on three whales: insanely accepted; the knowledge of the fact that the child sees; give you a vibor. tse - Find out more humanistic and psychoanalytic psychology (K. Rogers, H. Jainott, A. Faber and I.). The education of the robot for fathers and is guilty but is straightened, from one side, for a long time of unproductive stereotypes and acceptance of ideas of people who are considered to be of great pleasure, and from the very beginning - for the development of adequate ways of ideas.

The first croc, who can (and is guilty) to grow nazustrіch children grown up, - tse "accept him and come to new", let it go (not more than that!) installation, no boolean.

The other is to find out the truth of the people about the child. Ade rush_ayna power of development of a child - the most effective way of dealing with these people, as they worry about her; mind of the comprehension of this special experience - the goal of sharing life with people. At the heart of the destructive development of specialness, aggressiveness, zhorstokosti, in the old world of power and age, there is not only confusion, but a lack of heat in an early age. Needs a lot of vision internal light children і set up the awareness of the "corrective turbot", remember the unfinished child's warmth, see his soul.

Conducted in the mainstream of psychoanalytic pedagogy of presentence (K. Buttner, E. Jill, M. Leder and іn.) Children who have gone through a lot of hassle, become suspicious, irritable. They have put themselves in front of themselves that іnsh, stinks are not built up to dovіri, but often not in tune with the powerful ones, they are cramped up to the bitter ones with those who feel, as I know and I know I want to take pride in taking care of them for their good news.

Another important moment of consulting on the problems of children-and-father's problems: during the analysis of the skin-conflict situation, the mother's mother passes through the offensive sides of the street, wishing for a ride, was wondering about those who were happy. At the same time, it is important to ask your nutrition: how could the development of my child in history lead to aggressive behavior? Chi could have provoked the sleeper into a situation? What kind of "introduction of the overgrown" in the conflict? Only so little intelligence I want it, I want it to be inserted. Like to glance into the "soul of the child" of children and fathers, the images and mental traumas, love and hate, like "the same to wipe the lives of the people".

Pre-treatment of the nature of aggressive behavior (K. Byutner, V. A. Goryanin, E. V. Olshanskaya). They showed: in the basis of any conflict, unmotivated, at first glance, the vibuha of aggression of a child lies fear. All numerical fears (before death, suspension and other representatives, persons of the protivopozhnoy state, in front of their own defended, from the point of view of morality, from the point of view of morality) are in power and children, and wicked and grown-up. The stench is recognized on the basis of the experienced negative admonition: the memory of the new one is actualized in the fear of being traumatized, screeching. Fear of being attacked in a situation in which the worst of it has passed, will transform into gniv, fierce, archaic feeling of malice.

The first croc to the truth of a humane vikhovannya - in a reasonable way, we will grow up a sub-active image of a child's saint, who are thoughtful and emotional, including those who are quiet, as in our culture they sounded negative; the other - in the pragmatic victory of fear, opening up in the blue, out in the fear, "the creeping dosage of the turbot". For the whole it is necessary to be aware of the behavior of the child and repressive visits (signs, respect, punishment, etc.), and turn to the sphere of feeling and experience of the child, in the presence of the mind of the child because of him.

The idea of ​​correcting the message of the turbot is easier to vote, lower to realizuvati. On the її way withoutlіch pereshkod. The first of them are dads, wicked in fear and lack of freedom. In addition, in the consultation of the fathers, to include the methods that give a lively knowledge and open up their own emotional-reflective sphere, so that they allow themselves to accept and feel for themselves in the interconnection with the children.

The process of consulting Batkiv can have two robot tactics:

persha is the strength of the cognitive aspect. Here, in the main, the most important nutritional and psychological development of children, girlfriends and friends are developed;

a friend - a robot, but on the emotional, sensitive side, I am in charge, the joke of the spoken, unclear reasons for the derailment of the interlocutors. It is especially respectful to come to the names of the consultant and the clients, and the main reason is often the role of modeling problematic situations and knowing the ways to go out from them. The group form of a robot is not often victorious, de mind internal and external

the change becomes the very situation of social inflow. Tse turn in the offensive:

members of the group are cured before the flow of the core and the other participants in the group process;

participants are identified one to one and the group's core;

from the participants I assign group information through the robot to the power and other people's emotional problems.

At busy times, in a particular place, an analysis of family problems, acceptance and methods of living in the native land of the past is carried out. It’s impossible to take a lot of homework for the fathers, the knowledge of the children’s games and the disclosure of the psychological aspects of this kind of gris.

The vibe of tactics of robotics is a trivial consultation, education, a variety of clients, type of family, how the stench can be imagined (povna abo not), I am ready for the father to be able to internal robots. However, in the process of consulting a trivial, by the type of psychological support, robot, as a rule, it has an integrative character: the focus of the consultant will override offended parties, if they want it in a different step on the older stages of the robot.

Tsi tactics can be victorious in the settings of social zakistu.

Power supply and power supply

1. Describe the main approaches to family counseling.

2. Disclose the main stages of the consultation process.

3. Describe the methods and methods used to obtain a family consultation.

4. Describe the main approaches to family counseling.

5. Name the main types of practice of robotic family consultants.

6. Who can use the main vimogi to robot with a friend?

7. Name the special features of the consultation with the folding drive for children.

those abstracts

1. Individual psychological counseling.

2. Сіmeine consultation.

3. Consulting a friend's bet.

4. Family consultant: specialty and activity.

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Bayard R., Bayard J. Your restless podlitok: A practical guide for wicked fathers. - M., 1991.

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Winnicott D. Rozmova for fathers. - M., 1994.

Vitaker K., Bamberri V. Dancing with the family. - M., 1997 ..

Gippenreiter Yu.B. Spilkuvatisya with a child ... Yak? - M., 1997 ..

Jainott H.J. Fathers and children. - M., 1992.

Losєva V.K., Lun'kov A.I. The problem is clear. - M., 1995.

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Satyr V. Yak will be for himself and his family. - M., 1992.

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ЗМІСТ

INTERCEPT 4

CHAPTER 1
SIM'YA YAK OBJECT of psychological DOSLIDZHENNYA I VPLIVU 4

1. PSYCHOLOGICHNY ZM_ST PONYATTYA "SIM'YA" 5

2.SIM'YA YAK PROSTIR ZHITTЄDIYALNOSTI 6

3.SIM'YA YAK SOCIAL INSTITUTE І SMALL GROUP 11

Spіvvіdnoshennya to understand "shlyub" and "sіm'ya" 11

Sіm'ya yak social institute 13

Sіm'ya yak mala group 14

4. SIM functions 16

5. TYPE SІMEY 23

6. SUCCESSFUL TRENDS AT ROSVITKU SIM'Ї 41

7.Eternal and confessional SPECIFICITIES OF LASTING SEASONS 48

Control food 55

literature 56

CHAPTER 2
Life cycle СІМ'Ї 58

1. ZAGALNI UNDERSTANDING 58

Viznachennya priestlya "life cycle of sіm'ї".
Stages of life cycle 58

Zavdannya development of the family. Stages of Fatherland 60

2. ETAP pre-beloved zalitsian 61

Development of the development stage at the stage of pre-loving zalitsyannya 61

Psychology of law and love 65

Motivi to choose a slave partner 74

3. YOUNG SIM'YA 75

Formation of internal community 75

Shlyubna Pleasure - Psychological Zmist 81

Main types of scenarios 82

Typical Psychological Vidnosins in Shlyubi 84

Tipi sexy stosons at shlyubi 87

4.SIM'YA WITH A LITTLE DITIN 88

Preparing the family for the children of the nation 88

The crisis of the first vaginosti 89

Snakes in the family in conjunction with the people of the child 95

5.Mature SIM'YA 98

Psychological problems of a mature whore 98

Zmіna vіdnosyn with children 99

Zmіna vіdnosin mіzh friends.

Psychology of Zradi, Jealousy 103

Zmіna vіdnosin s grandmothers 108

6.FAMILY WITH GREAT CHILDREN (LOOKING CHILDREN ІZ SIM'Ї) 110

Reconstruction of girlfriends vidnosin 110

Features of the internal community for older children 114

Mastering new family roles - babus and didus 115

7. SLUB at the elder 116

Zmіni in the life of the homeland in connection with the exit to retirement 116

Reactions to the death of a man and living of the household 116

Control food 118

literature 118

CHAPTER 3.
PROBLEM SYM'YA 120

1. VALUE UNDERSTANDING "PROBLEM SIM'YA" 120

2.SIM'YA Z LOVE DITINA 121

3.SIM'YA WITH DISTURBANCES OF INTERNAL COMMUNICATIONS 122

4. СІМ'Я - disharmony UNION. 123

5.SIM'YA IN DISTRIBUTION 126

6. INCOMPLETE SIM'YA 129

7.SIM'YA ALCOHOLIKIV 130

8. Re-MARRIAGE 131

Control food 133

literature 133

CHAPTER 4
DITINA IN SIM'Ї. INLUSION OF CRAWLERS VIDNOSIN ON PSYKHICHNE ROSVITOK DITINI 134

1. TYPES OF THE FAMILY VICHOVAN 134

2. Fatherland directive 137

3. ROLE OF DITINI IN SIM'Ї 140

4.mother's deprivation 141

5. PSYCHOLOGICAL MECHANIZMI FORMED DITINI-neurotic 142

From the point of view of a family psychologist G. Naviteis, The purpose of the psychological day-to-day life of the family is based on the goals of the psychologist's relationship with the family. G. Navaytis is negotiated with the witness of the family, as it is thoroughly done with the advice of the family psychologist. Win proponu to introduce an understanding of the family as a small group, as I will reject the professional psychological help from the side of the fahivts. Zmist understand "sim'ya" open through a row of positions.

family- group, yak to satisfy consumers of their members. Consume most successfully to be satisfied with the unique interaction of specific people.

The main feature of the family relationship is to meet the satisfaction of the growing needs.

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  For the satisfaction of the knitted with the seven requirements, the structure of the family roles is set up.
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  The family structure and functions of the family develop naturally.
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  Psychological counseling for the family of additional assistance to the consumption and satisfaction of consumption, tying with the family, optimizing the family structure and development of the family.
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  The need for advice from a family of growth at the moment of transition from one stage of development to the other.
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  Periodization of the development of the family can be started for the supremacy of the number of names that are tied to the family, of their significance.
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  On the skin stage of development, there is a specific development, without the revision of which it is unwise to go to a new stage.

Vidomy vіtchiznyany psychologist V. Druzhinin I propose a simple system of free coordinates, which are used to see the psychologist's self-designation at the vibration of the family as an object of psychological awareness. It’s worth talking about those who, before the last days, can go to seven levels on two different scales:

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  "Normal- abnormal sіm'ya ";
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  "Ideal- the family is real. "

I look at the scale, Druzhinin viznachaє the witness "normal sіm'ya" yak the homeland, which will take care of the necessary minimum for the good-natured person, for the social welfare of the members and for the socialization of children to reach their psychological and physical maturity. Such is the homeland, de vidpovidalnist for this, but not for the whole dad. All the types of families, even though it is a rule not to be seen, Druzhinin are abnormal.

Within the framework of another scale of the understand "ideal family" It starts as a normative model of the family, as it is accepted by the suspension and seen in collective manifestations of that culture, the leading rank of the religious.

Small. 1. Scheme of psychological thoughts of real families

Tse, zokrema, means that the psychological structure of the normative Orthodox family (the structure includes the particularities of the power, the view of the social closeness of the father, mother and child) is meaningful in the days of the Muslim Tipi ideal families are brought up to the rank of chief, culturologists. pid real family Rose is concrete, as a real group and object of communication. Druzhinin pidkreslyuє, when a certain type of a subject is to be seen, it is necessary to clearly understand what type of this is to be seen. In such a rank, psychologists understand the realities of the family from the point of view of seeing the norms.

The scope of social institutions is focused on the satisfaction of fundamental, vital social needs, without regard to: communes in suspensions, production of goods and after social stability... Call me to see five of the main social institutions happy suspension: Family, economics, politics, education and religion. The skin of them specializes in thinking that is fundamentally important for the vision and normal functioning of the suspension of the problem.

Social institutions establish the core of the regulatory and central structure of the suspension. The stench is to be surrounded or to bring in such people who do not need to be constrained by the general standards of behavior.

Appearing as a hundred element of the structure of the suspension, updating of th membersі їх first of all socialization. Niyake іnshe combining people is not volodі with such a laborious building of self-creation. The leaders of the people of the family of children are not only growing up on their own, ale and the uninterruptedness of human generations, their physical and spiritual decline. It is possible for a family member and a squad, a person and a woman to take on the responsibility for the life of their child, who is economical and good-natured.

Sem'ya approve the primordial navkolishnє middle course in the development of the individual. Look, the child has a form of a statement about social connections and from the moment of the nation's inclusion in them. With a meaningful world, I zalucha a child to the main geological values, Moral and cultural standards of behavior. The system of values ​​will become a child, the first for everything, the founders of the first time with the fathers in the first of the seven years of life. A family of children will have a socially approved behavior, addicted to the feeling of being sick, inspire a friend, show his emotions and feelings. Some of the reasons for the versatility and intercourse of special children, and sometimes of the grown-up with old people. The growth of family members to accept a child as a hundred of unique characteristics in the great world is pouring into your manifestation about yourself.

The family of Volodya with serious passages in the socialization of the peculiarities of the establishment of a special psychological atmosphere of love and need, turbo and power, intelligence and education. The frequency and the severity of physical, emotional and social-psychological contacts in children and fathers are of great importance. Individual approach to the development of the child's specialness in the homeland becomes reality. Chuyne that respectful position of those who have grown up to a child allows them to freely evolve their health, draw attention to their interests and scholarship.

A family of individual consumers consume members and at the same hour regulate their behavior in view of the society. Institute of family - the most important mediator at the interconnection of the specialty and the suspension. The Institute itself can stand up to both totalitarianism and individualism. To that і suspension, і specialty of publicly assigned in the changing family.

Immediately, I am pragmatic to gain my autonomy, to fight for my knowledge in the society. For the whole of you, the mother is guilty of providing support for the latest threats, for example, making it possible to control the seven from the side of the state. The overwhelming involvement of the current forces in the family system will destroy the balance of the family and the suspension. The Institute of these can be found in the ordinarily ordered camp with some of the other social institutes. To that, there is a need for a pro-family policy.

The institutional character of the family is manifested in the fact that the skin of the skin can be seen only in conjunction with the other families. In the morning, it is possible to predict the future of a particular family, spiraling into the knowledge of the logic of the development of thousands of thousands of families.

Super-specific processes in the area of ​​love and family problems - the increase in the number of separations, the number of separate families and repeated love, the decrease in the population and the potential of the family and so on. Institutional crisis family. It should be manifested in the fact that a small group of people is not a part of the social institute, that, having come into one’s father, friendship, dispute, 'diseases with children of blood spores, etc.). At the same time, holding out a handful of capital to the institute of the family, demonstrating its style and new rigidity. By all appearances, more accurately, you will talk about the change of the types of the family as a small group in the middle of the social institute of the family, about the discovery of new styles of the family of ideas, about the situation of the regulation of love in the central motivation.

Sem'ya yak small group

Razumnnya sim'i yak little group to know the helplessness of their adherents in the middle of pre-ages, and those more in the middle of psychology-practitioners, a great deal of unappreciated possibilities for providing psychological assistance to the family.

With all the developmental value of the understanding of the "small group" it is possible to see the main one. Small group- a social group that is not numerous in its warehouse, the members of which are united by social goals and employees, and to be in an unprecedented, strong special contact, one by one, which is the basis for determining emots_ynykh vidnosin So і special group values ​​і norms of behavior.

Pererahuєmo main features small group:

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  social and social activities for all members of the group;
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  special contact with group members;
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  singing emotional class of all-middle groups;
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  special groups of norms and values;
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  physical and moral education of a member of the group;
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  role of the ієrarrhіya mіzh members of the group;
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  recognizable independence (autonomy) of the whole group of people;
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  principle of admission to the group;
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  group growth;
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  social and psychological control of the behavior of group members;
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  special forms and methods of managing group activities from the side of group members,

These are the first signs of a small group. In a row secondary sign enter: conformity members of the group (steps of income for the group solution), identity, homogeneity(Uniformity behind the warehouse), group stability, willingness to cooperate Individuals per group.

I would like to ask you earlier to see the food about the knowledge of the divine right to call yourself a small group. Virіshennya tsyogo nutrition є principles for the psychology of the family. Vidomy American social psychologist D. Myers propon unrecognized value: group- tse two or more specials, as they interconnect one with one, pour one on one more decilkoh mittєvsty and take a yak "mi" for oneself. A.I. Antonov napolyaga on the interpretations of the family as a small group with the ruling powers, not to be brought up to the powers of individ or couples. In general, the dyad "mother - child", which is victorious when separated, then sprymati like fragments of the form of the family.

Sem'ya be brought before the discharge primary groups. їy lured іntimni, face to face, vіdnosini mіzh people. Such a group will take care of the primary socialization and early entry of an individual into this group. The ideas and submissions of the members of the primordial group may be especially significant in the form of evidence and self-awareness of the child. You can see the process of forming the human I as a result of social interaction.

Pervinna group є informal communication. A great role in the determination and function is to foster the sympathy and antipathy of people, the spirit of their interests, looking at life, and their positive feelings. Informal groups have a lot of food to be spirited. Skin is an informal group to grow into its own special, unique culture. Є special meaning, virazi, beast and tin, which are distributed only in the middle of this stake. Vikoristovuєtsya its own symbolism, zrozumіla, as a rule, only tim, which should be established to the whole group. It is the very same way to develop a smart "mova sim", it is not easy for a new member of the family to master such a booby, but having appeared in it, for example, as a result of a repeated loyalty. This is the way to form the mitsne respecting "mi" - the psychological integrity of the group and the friendship of the members to identify themselves with the witness and the psychological group, by increasing the support of the authorities, by the look, the value.

The traditional and intimate style can be stimulated more readily and more readily by the members of the group of their own associations.

Vіtchiznyany sociologist and philosopher M.S. Komarov so I'll clarify Significance of the primary group for skin people:

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  here, the individual started to open up to himself in his intimate-good-natured ideas, I catch my own thoughts and ideas;
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  won’t give the opportunity for an individual to treat it as a special person with satisfaction in spilkuvannya with people who are close in spirit and with a glance;
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  spilkuvannya and living in the first groups allow the knowledge of stress and stress, anxiety, unconsciousness, such as suffering, a person is in overworldly social and psychological overwhelming on robots;
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  The idea of ​​the primordial group of Velmi is important for the self-assessment of the individual, raising his real status in the suspension.

Primordial informal groups, in a row of which are borrowed from a single place, store the micro-middle class of living of people and in the great world they pour on their behavior.

Sem'ya can be a visitor for an individual in the quality of the reference group. Tse podnistya vikoristovutsya in two vipadki:

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  for a designated group, as a motive for an individual, we will be accepted in niy. With the help of an individual, I adapt my attitudes, apparently before, by the look of it, we get involved in a group. The group will establish standards and wine-cities for that, that їм slіd;
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  The reference group is to serve as a kind of standard, clearly or as a point of reference for making judgments and assessments of individual self or others.

Seven may not be a reference group. For example, for a child with these persons, whose thought and assessment should be especially cherished, to serve for an hour not a bat, but his idol - a musician, an actor, an athlete, and so on. Tsim can explain the facts of the culprit in children happy families: A group of one-liners, being a reference, can be grabbed by a variety of vchynok; Hulіganstvo sprymati yak smіlivіst, stealing - yak pіdnіlivіst.

Far from all the people who are most suitable for the first groups should be close to the reference group, but only the “significant ones” are deprived of the higher education institutions. For the social well-being of the sub'ect and improving the vision of his behavior, it is important, that the members of these were among the quiet, who were especially convinced and whose unfailing reputation could serve for one’s purpose.

4. SIM functions

The zmіst zhitєdіyalnosti sіm'ї can be visually through the description of the main functions, on the implementation of some families are organized. In a number of functions that power the family at the singing stage of the historical development, they see themselves as specific goals as a small group and social institute. Victory of these functions will take care of the role of the role of all the members of the family, and for all the friends.

The activity of the family system, which can lead to the achievement of a consistent result, is rich in aspect and differentiated. Schlub can’t be sex-driven. Win zumovlyu all way of life: pratsya, life of joy, sorrow. The confusion and the insanity of partners can be assessed as a proper rank in the boundaries of the family, but as a single behavioral system with dominant values ​​and singular organizing patterns. In addition to being sexually erotic, it may mean the meaning of the family's functions, being tied to a safe, child-friendly, social welfare, as well as the development of skin partnerships in general. Make friends adapt slid to look in big zagaln_y systems vzaimine, how to visualize an individualized skin connection with partners father's family and social solutions as a whole.

At science about the same saw, respect will come to an analysis function of the family.

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  Psychologists most often attribute such functions to homeland.
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  Born and vikhovannya children.
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  Preservation, development and transfer of values ​​and traditions of suspension to the advancing generations, accumulation and implementation of social and economic potential.
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  Satisfying the needs of people for psychological comfort and emotional support, feeling safe, seeing the value and significance of one's self, emotional warmth and love.

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  The development of minds for the development of the specialness of all members of the family.
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  Satisfaction with sexually erotic consumer.
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  Satisfaction with the requirements of the spіlnі carried out dosvіllja.
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  The organization of the spіlnogo voddenya home government, podіl pratsі in the family, vzaєmodopogo.
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  Contentedly consume people in spіlkuvannі with close people, in the established mіtsnіh communes with them.
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  Satisfying the individual needs in fatherhood and motherhood, contacts with children, their wickedness, self-realization in children.
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  Social control over the behavior of family members.
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  Organization of financial security of the family.
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  The recreational function is the protection of the health of family members, the organization of the family members, the nobility of the people of stress.

family psychotherapist D. Frimen vicladaє your point of view. Vin vvazhaє, with the main functions delegated to members of the family of social partners, є:

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  zabrechennya vizhivannya;
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  zakist of the family of all known factors;
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  turbot of members of the family one about one;
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  vikhovannya children;
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  the establishment of physical, social, social and economic changes for the individual development of family members;
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  pidtrimannya of the tightest emotive calls one by one;
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  social control over behavior one one.

Positions of the fahivts for their food, please, In reality, there is a degree of detail in the spheres of life of the family. For example, the sexually-erotic function of being seen as a reproductive and self-conscious self-worth of human sexuality, the role of the family in the psychosexual development of the individual, as well as the autonomy of the pro-sexual behavior.

In general, the preservation of a friendly psychologic climate, a community of sentiments, a moral and emotional attitude, intelligence and acceptance by members of the same one is often called a psychotherapeutic function. The function of organizing the dose, by all appearances, is the warehouse part of the recreational function. At its own currents, the recreational function of being intelligent is to update the emotional and energy resources of the establishment of the comfort of family combining, to get closer to the wickedness, psychotherapeutic, and communal. The function of steel spilkuvannya, from one side, can be without pre-service to the communal aspects of family life; From the other side, you can see the special needs of the members of the family in order to create the situation of spilkuvannya, to push the singing rhythm of the inner family of interaction. The legitimacy of the vision of the function of spiritual insight must be summed up. Lithuanian family psychologist G. Navytis to speak directly about those who are able to reach a lot of stable families, who do not deviate from their minds for self-realization of their members, or viskim rіvnemїх spirituality.

Having spent a lot of time in the literature, we are about to spend on the function safe, felicitological and hedonistic functions family. safety function I want to protect the biological and social butta of the family members, the guardian of physical and psychological problems, who go out to the world. They have a turn around the preoccupation of people in the pre-construction vision, stability and in the future in the future. Semeine life is ordered by a singular order, governed by norms and rules, which allow insuring all kinds of inappropriate reasons. A. Maslow Having looked at the father's welds, physical images, separation, separation and death in the homeland as moments, especially awkward for a child's well-being. The factor is to make you feel unstable, not transferable and unreliable.

Likewise, before that, as a courtier little boy, he will be responsible for his mother, read tata from the glances of those who do not know; Seven see the value of their life and draw on the strength to fit in with fear, pain, sickness. Behavior in superstitious circumstances (such as war, earthquake, war, etc.) The readiness of people to sacrifice themselves to the heart of their loved ones and relatives.

Chances to see for a lot of development, as there is a lot to see about us. The function of safety is manifested in the fact that the seven internally resist the changes and re-incarnations, the bachachi in them is a threat to the stability of their own understanding.

Felicitological function in every world and hope of the skin of the people for the rejection of family happiness. In the case of the understanding "happy child," people contribute an agile zmist: for some, the spirit of glances and extraordinary thinking, for others - material wealth, for the third - talents and schoolchildren's success. The symbols of family happiness can be a boutique and an apartment, and a high-priced bedroom for a little boy, and a child's day, and the joy of a happy holiday. Nastіlki rіznomanіtni look at the general statements about those who, happily, as the country of the greatest pleasure are most often experienced in the number of families. At the homeland, our praise and bazhania are victorious, the images applied to the weathered are compensated, our health and happiness are appreciated. The members of the family share the success and joy of one one. Feel the satisfaction of the sub'єkt vidchuvє and todi, if it is good for your kohanikh to grow up.

Semeine Happiness is a product of collective creativity. In the family of yak systems, it is unfortunate, but it’s either happy or unhappy is isolated; the experience of one people so that they will receive them. That will be so great if you will show the empathy and the divine nature of love: from the spilnyh zusil to lie down, the result is right.

In the Ideal, the Vicon and hedonistic function. The very name of the central function is designed for those who are tied to the satisfaction of consumers in physical and mental comfort. Perebryuyuchi in the home, in the middle of dear to heart people, people reach the quiet and radiant soul. All the good knowledge of seeing nasolod with savory ryzhe, carefree delivery, unimpressed atmosphere for the hour of these saints, that is just a dream. Take the same thoughts, fantasies, thoughts. In addition, you will be satisfied with the fact that you spend an hour with children. Promenades, іgri, attractions, sports activities, circus and theatrical performances ... The list of fun and activities can be great.

Kupatysya and live for sonechka, give malt, borsatisya in the notice, ride out of the cart and navigate the garden bed more fun with all the light, not one at a time. "In the family and the line licorice". Why is it not for the one to love the whole seven years of sitting on the TV screen ?!

People who have grown up in dysfunctional families, it is difficult to have fun, to relax. The very thought about the joy of life can be impermissible. Tim will be able to build up in an hour, come out of everyday life, take part in the group, show the completeness and feel humor - all the characteristics of a great specialty.

Be yak the function of the family is manifested in a rational way on the level of individual and suspension. With a glance at this important particularity, it is possible to achieve greater precision and accuracy in the analysis of family functions. Perekonlivy to that butt - classification, proponated M.S. Matskovskaya (Div. Table 1).

Analysis of family functions

Table 1

Sphere of family activity	community functions	INDIVIDUAL FUNCTIONS
reproductive	Biological development of the suspension	Satisfying the needs of children
Vikhovna	Socialization of the young generation	Satisfaction with the needs of the father, contacts with children, their wickedness, self-realization in children
Gospodarsko-pobutova	Meeting the physical health of the members of the suspension, looking after the children and people who have been abducted by the members of the family	Otrimaniya gospodar-pobutovyh services by some members of the family of all
economical	Economic support for non-permanent and non-permanent members of the suspension	Rejection of material contributions by some members of the family of all (in case of non-acceptance, for in exchange for services)
Sphere of primary social control	Moral regulation of the behavior of family members in the industrial spheres of life, as well as regulation of the communication and production of family members among friends, fathers and middle children, representatives of the older	Formation and adoption of legal and moral sanctions for unreliable incidents and violation of moral norms of mutual relations between members of the family

The family for the bagatokh is for the first time on earth. Warm home in a fire - a place in which friends are eager to know peace and tranquility. Ale inodi substitute for the positive and calm life to bring deprivation of discouragement and malice. Why do more couples see the style of problems in their living? What is the reason for such a great number of separations and unhappy wholesomeness in a funky suspension? What needs to be done, what is the best way to open up a happy child?

Get into food cichs in addition to the help of the family psychology. Tsei razdіl psychology vivchaє will induce harmony and great allegiance among members of the middle of the suspension. For the cob, let’s spare it, but also this one.

What is it like?

Sem'ya is a whole group of people, tied by their homeland or by love bonds, to live one by one, to lead a spiritual statehood and a budget. Become the basis of the family to serve your friends and children. However, not so young people live at once with the fathers of one of the partners. Kozhen from the members of the family has his own obligations, since the guilt is guilty of the viconuvati for the sake of the welfare.

Those who are going to be here are designed to be delivered with a wide range of factors. At the same time, it is infused with the knowledge of friends, as well as cultural rivn. It is also a great value to know partners in mind one of one, they know the solution in confrontational situations, show turbo and patience.

Deyaki cause the unhappy whore

It’s a bagato to skarzhitsya on those who are partners, who smelled the stench with a stench, not true ochikuvan. Vyavlyatsya, what a little girl, yaka suffered all her dignity through those who became an angry, hisistic alcoholic, who went in for such a nonsense. Why did it become so? The psychology of the family life is stverdzhu, how the basis of such common things is laid down in childish rock.

It’s very obvious that the little dads show the child the image of the one who is guilty of buty shlyub.

The axis and go, as soon as Lyudin shukk a partner, similar to one of his fathers, continues the endless cycle of one and the same pardons. Even the children of such people build up their own family, spiraling into the lives of their fathers, promoting the negative traditions of their ancestors.

Another problem of the field is that it’s not easy for people to start looking at them without knowing one thing like a slid. They ruin the addiction for lack of vaginism. A little more of these families will fall into the first time of the social life. Simeina psychology to learn, well, first, not translate it into such a serious rivn, it is necessary as a follower of a partner's knowledge, to accept him in such a way.

Love in the family

When choosing a partner, people take care of the sexual attraction of people, of their calling. Solodki movi romantics about the divine nature of their sentiments in a great number of vipadkiv - you should try to embellish the action. If only for that, as among people, there is a miraculous emotional call and the smell of an inner light is one of one, love. All say that I will be on love, but why are there so many people suffering from unstable warmth and outburst?

On the right, in that it is rare for people to love just for those who are guilty, taking all their dignity and shortcomings.

Make love to see yak zahochennya for good vchinki, with threats of amusement, as the partner will not be seen as an ideal eye. The fundamentals of family psychology are to love your partner by virtue of yo yos, filthy and good. To replace that grisly cholovik for its shortcomings, more beautifully on the passages, as it is possible more often to loosen up your sympathy and turboboat.

Psychology of family life. Last Conflicts

Another problem of family life is the incorrect transmission of conflict situations. Most often, serious conflicts, or wiping in the family, are susceptible to the harshness of one of the friends or not to get overwhelmed. Such a camp is right to lead to the accumulation of mutual dissatisfaction and dissatisfaction one by one. Semeina psychology recommends at once virishuvati spirni abo Conflict Situations, Listen to the cholovik, shake yo or її dumka. This is the rank you will have on a social robot, see if you can get together and shift your information to a new one.

Psychology. Semeyne Consulting

If there is a problem in the family not to go viral with your own forces, or if there is a reason for saving a whore, then you can turn to a family psychologist. An outsider can more efficiently assess the real camp of speeches, lower squad members.

If you zvazhilis nevertheless zvernututsya to fakhivtsya, then be honest with him, depriving this of his help, there will be a chance for success.

It is more beautiful to be brutal for the help of a psychologist, beware of secondary doctors, as they practice anti-science, adolescent methods. As long as you є know your friends, as if you have already helped a friend of yours, listen to all the messages and, as the stench is positive, be brutal before the people.

Self-determination of problems

If you don’t want to blame for the smittya from the hut, if you do not want to blame your vidnosini, then you don’t want to independently rake up the psychological smitty, the accumulation of the rocks of the social life. For the whole and ісnu family of psychology. The family is to look at the whole science from the sidelines, through the hundreds of versatile methods for changing the bonds of love. The deyakі from them perakhovanі vische.

There are a few important periods to cleanse the skin of a young child, but if you go through it all at once, if you will become closer one to one. The folk of children, old, singing onuks and rich stages of family life, go through yak through butter, as if they were friends with friends, they had a good time. Check out the problems, how to find out from the girls, to replace them simply by adding them. Once you will become a member of the harmonious and happy motherland. If you have a lot of great spiritual life, the family psychology will come to help you.