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37. Forms of interstitial vidnosins Positive interstitial vidnosyni ("to help people"): 1) love is the most folding type of interstitial vidnosin, which is spinning at the high level of high-quality positive

22. Understanding performance and misconceptions A number of officials, who form a specialty, in psychology see pratsyu, performance and knowledge. Spіlkuvannya - communication between people, in the course of any kind of psychic contact, to appear in the exchange of information, in exchange for

The instability of misconceptions It is typical for all kinds of odds to be extreme - from ideals to re-endeavors. In some situations, such people are superstitiously adamant about their clothes, like, how to build, not to justify

BEFORE THE FORMULATION OF THE LEGAL LAW OF MIZHOSOBISTISNIKH VIDNOSIN In the last year I discussed a theoretical problem, as I tormented me for a long time: you can formulate all the elements in one hypothesis, such as

Importantly suchasne suspension without missobies. We spend all our life in spilkuvanna: from the rank awakening to going to sleep. The Internet, telephone, sheets - all of them are connected, you simply cannot get by without such people. The individual is held in such a rank that if the wine is not spilkuvatisya, then after a short interval of an hour it will simply be overwhelmed. Otzhe, so tse our podvitrya, tse those, without which we simply cannot live.

the appointment of the witness

As soon as it comes to the understanding of the term itself, psychologists begin to recognize the relationship between the modes, as they find it among people, and to be involved in a great deal of emotional experience. The deyakom family of lyudin transmits his inner camp to his inner light.

See and form

If you can see about those who are also different, you can see the main views, which can be non-verbal calls, the tin and the hands of the devil, the callous look of the people, the dream of the moving and the rich.

Warehouse components:

• Wine includes in itself such specialties of being seen by people, such as deyakі form pіznannya - memory, sprynattya, uyavu, mіzlennya. Skin okremiy component allows you to criticize a person, develop his individuality, and a particular psychological plan. You can only reach the point of being in the same mood, as long as you are aware of the special feature you are trying to get in touch with.
• Emotional component. It’s not a good thing, as an experience, as it’s seen as if it’s going to be with someone else. Do not forget about those who smell can be not only positive, but negative. A miraculous butt to serve as a diagnostics of miscellaneous vidnosin between cholovik and woman, as a pair. Stink of welcoming, reconciling, one to one sympathy, and one to one sympathy, but sometimes and antipathy. Likewise, the emotional component is based on respect for empathy. Tse pochuttya sp_vperezhivannya comus.
• Behavioral component. Tse mova, mіmіka. The male component is the main regulator in the interstitial grooves.

Forming a connection between people

The development of different types of people can be found only in the same way, as a singing individual can establish contact with other people. In other words, to know For all, it is innocent to be of coryslous intentions, in spilkuvanny to be attested by lightness and intelligence, emotional hardness.

Mіzhosobistіsnі zavzhdnut until reaching dovіri. The sound of the ringing gets lost, the psychological bar disappears in an hour. However, є difference between dovіroy and dovіrlivistu. I will give the merit of the dovgo, and the axis of the dovіrliv lyudin will be trusted by his word, unaffected by the way and the way.

Methods of missobistinnyh vidnosin

• Meta. Anyway, this type is formed only if people are common meta. For example, the first type is the order if the calls are established by itself, and the second type is if one person joins in with the one who is guilty (the boss is a pidlegly).
• Character. For the nature of the piece, it is possible to divide it into formal and informal. Formal - ti, which are based on the proponated rules and laws. Informal is not surrounded by official framework.
• dozens of interconnection, which are set up for robots. On the first plan is the professionalism, and only because of the special sympathy and dovir.

Rational and emotive stosunki

What is the difference between different kinds of rational and what kind of stench comes from those of the people? For now, everything is simpler.

At the first, the vipad of Lyudin is curious about rozrahunk, rozum and logic. It’s right to do the day and don’t get in touch with the individual. An application in such a situation can serve as a liaison between the chief and the ill. The efficiency of the social performance will be due to the fact that there is a stench in it, and it is quite correct to induce one to one.

Scho feel emots_ynykh vidnosin, Then the lyudin is cursing his own sentiments, zabuvayuchi about those who are є ob'ktivna dumka. This form can bring both joy and positive emotions, as well as depression, discouragement. Zakohani bets better to go to this category. For an hour, the children are robustly thoughtless, cherishing their emotions and forgetting about the inheritance.

diagnostics of vidnosin

Diagnostics of interdisciplinary misconceptions is a whole science, as it is tailored to those who vivchit people, develop them, grounded on elementary psychological knowledge. Moreover, with the help of this technique, it is possible to establish contact with oneself. Aja and ideally "I" and "I", which is not befitting in the present. After reading this table for yourself, you can see, get along well with yourself. If you can’t reach the point of being in your own specialty, then it’s just a shame to grow up with people who are desperate.

Even though it’s already smart, it’s not just as easy to reach it. Below is a drop of cinnamon joy, which will help you to crack up and speed up the process of making contact with them.

• If you didn’t manage to get stuck with Kimos Rozmov, don’t joke about the problem in some people, know there’s a lot in you. Would you like to know how well you know about your specialty? reach internal harmony with yourself.
• Warehouse psychological portrait people who want a mother right. Be guilty of the nobility of their particularity, of the intelligence, I especially respect for the animals.
• Show your excitement in the best people. You can, you know a few dots. And spіlnі interest will lie down to sleep.
• To brutalize respect for the misconceptions of all these children: they have a crazy amount of money to read. Simple, no turbot, honest.
• Remember the rule of thumb: you can’t cope with the people, because you can’t make a mistake. Navi if you don't know about your people, you will see them on your own. The individual will see that it’s not okay for you, and I won’t do it.

Love and friendship

Some of them win by themselves, but some of them need to be vitality a lot for an hour in order to stay alive. Let me add love and friendship. Yak vinikaє love? See the guy and start to see your sympathy, if the sympathy is mutual, you will have a lot of money. Maybe you don’t go to the end one by one, or all one share your emotional experiences.

I wish a woman a gift of naughty happiness abo, navpaki, develop partners who are not happy. head cause tsiogo є idealizatsiya one one. If the reality appears in the middle, below our manifestation, we see it in the heart of the rosary.

The reason for the problems in love is broadened: women become more emotional, and people, navpaki, get distant. The stench of not loving to show your respect and vvazhayut for beautiful trimatis on a safe vidstani, so how to get rid of the debris.

Whatever kind of vipad, be-like vіdnosini - majestic lady. If the partners apply a zusilla, they can do it better. Vіdnosini z protylezhnoy stattyu - the best primer for special development. The stench allows you to open up the strongest sides of the specialty.

Now trochi about friendship. Vіdnosini mіzh comrades vinikayut step by step. You know about the people, fix it with him. Dovira here is far from being immediate. For the very reason, friendship is great value. Lyudin, as I know you and mind, you won't need a rose, but you can read in your eyes about the inner camp.

Now you know that there is also a mix-and-match of the blue and what the stench is based on. We will make contact with the power of the "I", so that the intelligence of the sensible people will become more simpler.

Lecture plan:

1. Understanding "missocialsnі vіdnosini".

2. Atraction.

3. Uncertainty.

Basic understanding: Suspended vidnosini, interdisciplinary, social distance, interdisciplinary distance, atraction, intelligence.

1. In social psychology, there are two main types of differentiation: suspicious and missocial.

Hromadske Vidnosini- the price of the official, formally secured, activated, and effective calls. The stench є is indispensable in the regulation of all kinds of different kinds, including interpersonal ones. Suspіlnі vіdnosini have no special character; This day is not in the interaction of specific specialties, but rather soon, in the interaction of specific social roles.

MіzhosobistіsnІ stosunki- tse ob'ktively experienced, in a colorful world learned to interconnect with people. The basis of these lies in the versatility of the emotional stan- dards of interconnected people. On the other hand, there are several (instrumental) ones, which can be officially fixed, so not closed, and sometimes called expressive, sensible Mizhovoist_snі vіdnosiny є the reality of suspicious vidnosins: behind them there are no "pure" suspicious vidnosins. It is practical for all group activities that the participants act like bi in two ways: as a visitor without special social roles and as unique human specialties.

Missocials of every kind include three elements - cognitive (gnostic, informational), affective and behavioral (practical, regulatory).

cognitive element transmission of the understanding of what should be like or not be like in the miscellaneous stosunka.

affective aspect know your turn in the ages emotional experiences people to drive interconnection between them. The emotional component, as a rule, is conducive. "Price for all the positive and negative emotional states, the confrontation of the states (intrapersonal, interpersonal), emotional sensitivity, self-satisfaction, partner, robotics, etc." (Obozov, 1979, p. 5).

behavioral component mіzhosobistіsnykh vіdnosin realіzutsya in concrete diakh. If one of the partners is like the one, the behavior will be good-natured, we will direct you to provide additional help and productive sports. If the object is not pretty, then the interactive side of the splash will be complicated. Between the various behavioral poles, there is a great number of forms of interactivity, the implementation of which is summarized by the social and cultural norms of groups, to which there is a need to merge.

Mіzhoobistіsnі vіdnosіnі will be on the "vertical" (between kerіvnikі and pіdleglimі navpaki) and "horizontal" (between persons, who occupy the same status). Emotional manifest interpersonal ties to be summed up by the social and cultural norms of groups, to which there is individual views, Scho varіyuyut at the boundaries of the names of the norms. Different types of blue can be formulated from the positions of dominance - equality - order and fallowness - independence.

Social distance transferring also according to official and miscellaneous vidnosin, as it is because of the proximity to socializing, in accordance with social and cultural norms of spirituality, to some kind of stench. Social distance allows you to preserve an adequate level of latitude and distance in connection with the establishment of interconnections. It is difficult to create a range of disjunctive missobilisnyh wins (in indigenous wines, up to 52%, and in those of equal status - up to 33%), and sometimes to conflicts (Obozov, 1979).

psychological distance characterizing the steps of closeness between social partners and partners in spilkuvannyu (friends, comrades, friends, dovirchі). For our donations, there is no understanding of the pedagogical stage in the dynamism of the development of the interdisciplinary ones.

2. People do not just sleep one one, ale the stink, mold one according to the appearance to one singing, as people feel the promiscuous clamor of feeling - because they do not accept these people to sympathy, to bring love to the new. The region of doslidzhen, tied from the mechanisms of the establishment of the development of the ages of the ages to the emergence of people, I named it atractions.

atraction- the whole process of forming the admiration of people for sprymak, and the product of this process, that is, the good quality of life (G.M. Andrєєva). Mischievous addiction is a foldable psychological power of a specialty, as it is like “pulling” a partner in spirits and mimicry of wickedness with a feeling of sympathy. The charm of specialness allows people to be courteous to themselves. The addiction of people to stay in the form of their physical and social vigor, building up to health and so on. D.

Interpersonal communication development, communication with a partner has cognitive, emotional and behavioral feedback. The phenomenon of interdisciplinary readiness in friendly couples Obozov.

Attraction can be seen as a special kind of social attitudes (attitudes) on a person, in which the emotional component, since “the one” is evaluated importantly in categories that governed by assessments (L.Ya. Gozman)

Atraction is injected into the nature of the process of internal group interaction (the number of altruistic vchinki increases, the development of mutual assistance develops); the establishment of a psychologically comfortable, creative atmosphere in the group, the development of the level of conformity and imitation; lodged a member of the group of newcomers, receiving the necessary knowledge and skills and transmission of information from one member of the group to the first. Winning an attraction between partners to rob a positive inflow into a match: a communion is easier to get along with, in a larger world, the willingness to give a message to one to one is manifested, when prompting the image of a partner to overwhelm the attributions; in the group - the establishment of psychological comfort.

I have seen the development of the atraction: sympathy, friendship, love. sympathy- Emotional positive attitude towards the sub'єct of interaction. friendship- a kind of stiff, individual-vibrating, missociable vidnosins, which are characterized by a mutually responsiveness of their participants. Love is the step of an emotionally positive positioning to an individual on the basis of a borderline high assessment of his dignity, I will sip to a new, pragmatic article for a new one, especially the most significant.

3 ... witness confusion Do it widely and has long been victorious by psychologists, physicians, biologists, philosophers, etc. The tse podstyatya knew her stasis in various fields of modern science. However, it’s like a mizo-socialist phenomenon of yogo became vivchati lishe from the ear of the 50s of the 20th century.

One hundred percent to the social and psychological manifestations, the simplicity of looking at the same motive, the similarity of the views and attitudes, the demand and the system of values ​​of two or some members of the іnshih psychic qualities ".

For a large foreign value of confusion, one characteristic of rice is characteristic - an emphasis on respect to the problems of satisfying the needs of behavioral rice. So, W.C.Schutz is responsible for the sense of the sense of the characteristics of both household and individual needs, both for individual and for the role, for both the individual and the working situation, and may be in harmony with the result in the background.

The main signs of confusion, on the thought of bagatokh of presenters є:

§ an indicator of a successful performance of a professional director,

§ the satisfaction of spilkuvannya as inheritance of uzgodzhenosti,

§ Satisfaction of the spilkuvannya as a result of the manifestation of partners with friendly for the spiral performance of characterological features of particularity.

The process of madness, on the thought of K. K. Platonov, in the world of the inclusion of mental and social processes becomes more and more foldable. In addition, all the obvious and seemingly confusing ones can be seen as the hierarchical system of equipments, the uppermost of which are social-psychological, and the lowest - physiological. With the greatest visions of madness, only the upper one - socially and psychologically, can be regulated with ease. Only the inclusion of witness and emotive-volovoy spheres in the regulation of inter-modality is safe in the greater chi menshy world of the totality of people. Due to a specific type of mutual interest, it is necessary to be included in the regulation of the social activity of partners. Slide it means that in the world of power the interconnection of the participants in the sphere of social activity will be included in an increasing number of equals of madness. Іrarchіya pіvnіv sumіsnostі, on the thought of K.K. Platonov's finish is foldable. There is a transfer, so there are more home and more money in the bottom.

K.K. Platonov sees the chotiri of the types of madness: physiological, psychophysiological, psychological and social and psychological.

MM. Having outlined, looking at the problem of confusion, not seeing it, but seeing it. However, one hundred percent social and psychological preliminaries propose the development of the understanding of "intelligence" and "intelligence". Consistency and information do not miss any clear clues. According to M.M. Obozov, tse two sides of one of the manifestations of the interaction of people.

spratsovuvannya- the tse uzgodzhenism of the characteristics of sub'єktyv, as I will not be able to effectively display any kind of social performance. Understanding the workability of that can be stashed to a few, professional vidnosyn - vidnosin within the framework of a social activity. The manifestation of madness, on the mind of a spracial, is a miscellaneous phenomenon, which is sensible within the framework of special ideas based on sympathy, hard and how to serve "for the sake of spirituality". On the thought of M.M. Obozov, the confusion overnight і і mind the confession of mutual sympathies and the result in the same became positive relationships.

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Interconnection and interconnection of people. Psychology of interdisciplinary interaction begins with social attitudes to adapt, through the system of change, building up to social and psychological reflexion. Mіzhosobistіsna vzaєmodіya pummeled psychological mechanisms social perception and causal attributes.

Social Perception- social awareness of the reception of social institutions - people, ethnic groups, etc. attribution(From lat. causa- reason i attributio- I give, I hope) - sub'actively explaining the reasons and motives for the behavior of these people, the interpretation of their special qualities.

To find the style of attitudes of people in a relationship one to one - attitudes... Take a social object to be included in the meaning of the system of explicit calls for a given people. In case of similarity or mutually modalities of qualities in people, it is possible to develop positive attitudes; with unacceptable qualities, psychological insanity - negative attitudes.

The social object is also not passive - win pragmatically open hostility, form a singing image - imij, Shows the social performance of singing social groups and ensures the success of the relationship. By pouring in on a partner in spilkuvannyu, people, as a rule, will not open up the enemy, they are friendly to achieve their goals. At the same time, one can easily analyze the causes of the partner's behavioral acts.

If you reject superfluous information about the sub'єkta spilkuvannya you can win cognitive dissonance... In cichs in the fall of lyudin, there is a tendency to one categorical visnovka - the cognitive structure of the individual is pragmatic to an imbalance.

Zovnishn_y viglyad people It is interpreted as a complex of numerical information signals about their national and social affiliation, mental qualities, culture, etc. When one is spontaneous, people are trying to get away with information about the nature of other mental states of their partner, their mental states.

As soon as the hostility about the people is friendly, the tendencies of a positive assessment and all the onset of the war (""). As soon as the first hostility is negative, it is associated with unacceptable manifestations in the behavior of specialness, then in the assessment of the other behavior, it will prevail, as a rule, the negative tendency ("the effect of a negative halo").

The assessments of the behavior of these people are not only early, ahead of time, but rather logical. These are the reasons for the behavior to become too much or to change. Assessments and self-assessments of people and women are not identical. Choloviks, as a rule, characterize themselves in the categories of qualities, women - in the categories of stanіv. Women are smart about their specialties by situational factors.

Interpret the people and women in a rational way to show their little emoji. There, the girls are banging on, the choloviks are working on the riches. What is more multidimensional is the special structure of an individual, it is more plastic than it is in terms of performance and is more multidimensional than the strength of the individual, it is less than that of schilny to polar assessments. Intercourse individuals primitivize social objects.

Estimated criteria are updated in the minds of sports and anti-sports. In the minds of the conflict, dominance is directed to the appearance of weak enemy forces. The difference in status of the camp of sub'єktyv spilkuvannya also determines the nature of their mutual evaluations. The head of the price of the child is for one job, and the price of the head is for the one. The names of the kervnik signs are especially appreciated. Signs that are significant for an adult are especially seen.

In a larger-than-life type of situation, people purify one form of one singular behavioral manifestation. True tsikh ochіkuvan viklikє contentedness, unjustness - feeling annoyance, disappointment and hostility. People love the confirmation of their high-probability predictions.

Most people follow their own behavioral attitudes. Late, the planned singing result of the splash, the stench of its behavior and provoke. Lyudin is an educated person to behave like this, as if they were already portrayed, and an aggressive lyudin should not be allowed to drive, but not to "give a drive." In the foreground, people hang their own qualities, which are the most appreciated in their own. It is not uncommon for the stench to vyryadzhayutsya in someone else's "skins", inherited by non-negotiable authorities. It is not easy to start and "test kuli" - behave as if provoking the behavior of a partner.

Closely 70% of the information about partners in the spilkuvannya of lyudin will be recognized by the callous, unobtrusive features of behavior: by the miraculous, pantomical, tempo, vocal and antonic characteristics. Ale is far from being able to achieve success in the correct reading. Bagato because of the outward behavioral manifestations of people of intelligence, the stink of mindlessness at times, as the code of the vicious behavioral fleur.

People's behavior can be correlated with the sounds of the great orchestra - in which you take care of the fate of the helpless instruments, and all the stench will play that music that is needed by this individual.

The known sides of the behavior are not so easy to disguise the justified motives and the whole of the behavior. Only special diagnostic methods (content analysis, factor analysis, Special tests, the method of group assessment of the specialness and in.) Allow the development of the active day of sub-active behavioral manifestations.

Songs of hostility are formed on the basis of a new twist of people’s emotions (posture, mimic, ruhiv). However, it was here that the young people were fighting. It is possible for a person to become unsightly if he does not analyze his behavior in different minds If you throw off situational masks. Often spilkuvannya with close people is more important, less spilkuvannya with people of little knowledge. It should be explained by the way that people are more beautiful than people, the more people are known, which are unacceptable. More beautiful is the mind of one person, as they may be able to get a good idea. Ale only spiritual spirituality is the basis of a dovogo adnannya.

The skin of a lyudin has its own scale in the form of people. Knowing the person in the process of socializing, individualizing the strategy of his behavior and pragmatic to an adequate stimulation of the powerful behavior strategy. At the same time, those who are given the strategy will be assessed by a partner in spilkuvannyu, - a win social reflection... People dbayut about those who take their image in one place in the inner light, quietly, and actively interact with the stench.

If Ivanov rozmovlyaє s Petrovim, then in the whole situation there are three eight people: № 1 - Ivanov, which is vin in action; No. 2 - Ivanov, who imagines himself; No. 3 - Ivanov, yakim yogo spriymaє Petrov; № 4 - Ivanov, as a vin represents his image in the testimony of Petrov; No. 5 - Petrov, yakim vin є in action; № 6 - Petrov, I imagine it; No. 7 - Petrov, yakim vin spriymє Ivanova; № 8 - Petrov, Yakim Vin represents his image at the testimony of Ivanov.

It is not often that the efficiency of performance is reduced drastically through unreasonable motives in the behavior of partners, and more often through incorrect interpretation. There are mutual claims and images, and unfair assessments are caught. Attributed characteristics (attributes) are often found in earlier formed anticipatory estimates.

In the process of spilkuvannya people pry to assert their dignity- before the "stroking", behind the hairstyle of Erika Bern, which impresses with the "stroking" one of the social activities. When there is a whole stink, one can go in to the typical for them schemes of splitting: take the position of "dad", "grown-up" or "child". Take the position of "dad", people take the patterns of behavior, they learn from dad. But in the skinny people, the singular world of childishness, childishness is manifested. Adequate behavior - behavior for the type of "mature". In situations of increased differentiation, “grown-ups” are guilty of control and “father”, and “child”.

It’s not productive for me in the same behavior pattern(For example, "grown-up" - "grown-up"). Implementation of the misconceptions of the transmission of the reaction to the ochikuvan. Vona grows, in her own heart, an incentive for a falsified spilkuvannya. Just as an incentive for a collection of insurance brokers for an adequate scheme of the partner's behavior, and in the course of the reaction, they work according to the out-of-the-box scheme (for example, "batko" - "grown-up" or "grown-up" - "child"), then in the course of confusion.

Among young people, scholarship is meant before they love topics of spirits. This is the basis for the establishment of psychological contact with them. In the process of spilkuvannya, it is necessary to provide the type of specialty, її - to straighten up to a wide field of action, or to anticipate the lost analysis of the conditions of manifestation. In some cases, there are also settings and roles to play with.

Living positions of the individual lie in the past, autobiographical stories, especially compensatory tendencies. This position is jealously guarded, hardened and resisted. Bagatokh people hunt for information and business. Knowing the weakness of one thing, the partners spilkuvannya vikoristovuyut of different "baits", "important", so that they will not be able to see any responses. You can, obviously, and the options are widespread, without curiosity, every kind of common sense, every kind of two-sided proximity, doviri. However, often in spіlkuvannі Mayut is the place of anti-fight elements. There are a few such people who live in the face of increased anxiety and adolescence. Skin people live behind their script, realizing their life strategy.

People, even in the children of children, carry the development of "demons", so that they can impose on that one living template. "Demon" beckon for the first time to appear at the high-rise childish style, if the little kid on the pidlog їzhu і check, how to become a robot of his dad. As soon as the stink smell is tolerable, then the empty little child will appear for everything ... If the little one is punished for the price, then he must be frowning at himself, ready if it’s not okay to brawl everything Collect in the dynasty of throwing tarilki from the family. Evil and good, fearful and brave, wide-ranging and fraudulent people become the result of the minds of their social interactions.

Garne spilkuvannya is not spilkuvannya behind a script, but creative, emotional and socially significant interaction of people. The specialness is not covered in advance by the planned scenarios. Socialization of the specialness of transferring health to it by adequate means of social communication. Thoughts and mova people, their ideas, minutiae are guilty of giving the goals of the spilkuvannya. I am guilty of the reflexivity of my spirits, of a human being, sensitively reacting to the spilquanny's p_text, opening the help of spillover partners.

There is no mask you can’t cover up all the people: the day’s day is destined for self-expression. Ale in front of small people, individ fasting in small incidents. In the skin act, there is no need for a part of its specialness and does not depend on it.

Not all people can become victorious in their own internal potential. It is not rare to appear deprived of the "periphery" of specialness. Contacts between people are often superficial - the greater the importance for the greater the distance of the relationship. Few are built on well-known human contacts. Particularly for the reference psychic contact of all formal contact manipulations. Helpful contact of the unhappy without generosity, emotional synthony and favoritism to the accentuations of the individual. Ale slid unique і unprincipled obsequiousness, conformity.

Look at the people, the style of your target cannot be identical. Partners are guilty of being guilty in themselves, in their self-sufficiency, guilty of being adequate to themselves. People call to advise sensitivity to truthfulness, honesty, generosity and honesty of partners in spilkuvannyu.

However, in the case of bagatech people, especially in situations of super-verbalization of positions and interests, people are cunning. I kozen ma his world of deception - admitting nonsense for a mess. Ale deyaki people are rudely straightforward in their truthfulness. Such a type of truth-lover of orієntation only on himself - yomu baiduzhiy lyudin, about yaku must tell the truth. Nose of similar truth to Volodya advancing self-assessment and domagan. Win with superb ease in assessing the behavior of these people. The antipode of this type is nonsense people, conformable, unstable, neurotic, fearful and long-awaited.

Special features with advanced reflexivity, strong self-analysis, in the edge of protection and in the assessments of other people. Oh principle - do not judge, and you will not be judged yourself. Some and also the morality of the stench is presented to the others and to oneself. The stench seems to be unhappy, rubbish, complaisance, if people of special prosperity do not enjoy the situation. All people with a promotion and modernity. And conscience is a world of inclusion of zeal-people morality in the individual-moral system of specialness, zdatnist specialness to moral self-control, self-generation of their moral principles. People with "conscience ailments" take on themselves all the blame for the lack of control. All people are lousy, they are high-class and powerful behavior. Oh, no worse than a bagato, ale the stench vikladyayut people the lessons of morality.

The interaction of people is the interaction of sub'active lights, hourly super-lucid and paradoxical, organized by different categorical systems, meanings and meanings. The anticipation of the human psyche is often inadequate. Skin people are drawn in and out of anticipation, sub'-active interpretation of developmental manifestations. Dosvid individual, yogo consumer, relish, bazhannya viznachayut, so and yak vіn spryman in navkolishniy svіtі. Significant for a new podії to hypertrophy, insignificant - to change. Objects of human addictions are often inadequate to those of addictions.

On the other hand, the mechanics of an individual psychologic mind to lower the level of our bazhan and claims, to form a surrogate substitution. Inspiration in the depths of perception of behavioral stereotypes cannot be easily voiced by us in spite of our mind, but there is a lack of sympathy and antipathy. Ale, as saying Arthur Schopenhauer, please live your life well, slide mother to non-abiyaku world care and indulgence; Persha protected from shkodi and vrat, friend - from super-wire and welds.

In the midst of the commoners, there can be, viciously, winners and more than doviru, і friendship, і love. friendship winery on the basis of value-based and well-organized adnosti - zbіgu positions and evaluations, out-of-the-box svitorozmіnnya. Friendship is satisfied with the needs of the people in the intimacy, in the knowledge of their self-worth. In her youth and early stature, she is more emotionally nourished. At nastya vіkovі period won’t become a factor of social stability and abduction. In friendly people, people like to mold the etalon of different types of people, to translate them on a highly moral basis.

Cohannia- a step up to the socially positive positioning of people on the basis of a borderline high assessment of their social and physiological merits, I will pull to the new, pragmatic article for someone who is especially most significant. Love is characterized biased- to strong and strong sentiments, dominating in the psyche of people, who will unite all of them and spontaneously. Rationally-volitional activity of an individual at a time when it is not easy to cling to the dominant dominance. Being a very intimate person, love will come true claim- it’s not easy to supervise more people who are jealous. Social ear of love to integrate with the biological needs of the individual.

The psychological characteristics of the behavior of men and women, the psychology of their interrelationships in the most recent psychology becomes less fragmented. Otto Weininger's book "Sex and Character" has become very popular among foreign psychology. Do not let me see if I’m guided by deyak from them.

The basic law of article heavy, according to Weininger, is to say: "For the sake of knowledge, the cholovik -" M "and the thorough woman -" F " The sum "M" and "F" in the amount of one single isot of the same - this is the essence of the law of articles additionally. The character of an individual, - vvazha Weininger, - is not guilty of being born as a cholovichy and a woman. The food should be put like this: the pictures of a man and a woman in a given man? The skin specialty has its own rate of distribution of the human and female beginnings. Chim is more a woman is a woman, a more than a woman will see a cholovika yak cholovika. A little more in the "M" room, tim dal win from the woman's mind. "Famous women" are half women themselves. And such people are more beautiful to be with women, not "tsilny people"!

Women, actively pushing to emancipation, are in their own number of people rice. Emancipate want to lay in the woman's cholovik!

Ladies and women are sexy in the rural world. Ale the state of the state of affairs is presented to the woman by the great news. A woman on the lookout from a man is always sexy. Vaughn is all in the life of the article. A slapstick is not consumable in the state of maturity, just like a young lady is anxiously checking. Yunaki have symptoms of state of maturity, they feel like they are sturbed, the girl has great satisfaction to run after your state of affairs. Smell check love and whore yak is gone
my life. Ale zhinka mensh, niz cholovik, grasping my sexuality. Find out the check from the person of the clearing up of the intuitive phenomenon.

The mind of a man is put by a woman on the first place of the middle of his dignity. The cholovikov women have prices for style, groundness of glances and sujen. Їy be like, if the person is good mirkuє. The "I" of the woman is the name, moreover, it is a great value for the people. Їy befitting a compliment to the drive її zvnіshnostі: there is a high value of gallantry in the behavior of a cholovіk.

The life of the child is unique and the size of motherhood. І leather head for her in the world of ditina. The love of the cholovika is the head of the idealized woman. Love the woman, the cholovik vimagaє see her ... himself. Win want to bachiti in the new implementation of his own. The camp of love is the camp of special self-construction of zakokhanikh.

The family members of the family can play the role of “cholovika-sina”, “cholovika-cholovika”, “cholovika-daddy”, and the druzhina - “druzhina-daughters”, “druzhina-women”, “druzhina-mother”.

Suggestions for food: "Would you like to" give "your specialness?" And who bazhayut tsі fowl for іnshim people? Reason, spirituality, kindness, humanity, honesty, decency.

An awkward friendship and love can grow into a strong antipode - hatred and hate. The appearance in the meaning of the world is lost in the suspicion and is manifested in an unaccountable, pragmatic creation of a shkodi individual (the smell of a meaningful world generates and evil behavior). Advantage on the basis of a special attitude is an importantly surmountable difficulty. If it’s impossible to create a garden of friendship and love on її ulamka. The atavism of vorozhnechi is guilty of buty Vikorinen from the psyche of the current people. Psychically stiff one who marvels at the light of love and spirituality. Socially, it is not safe to buy one to one people. Deficiency of spilkuvannya, lack of social contacts, self-reliance is terrible for people. The joy of social intercourse, the "rozkish spilkuvannya" is not a blessing.

In the process of spilkuvannya people are constantly psychically interact one by one... Tsia vzaєmodiya can be straightforward and spontaneous, we see it and we do it. It is assured that the pouring into the partner in the spilkuvannyu is formed in a straightforward manner. reconsideration- addendum of facts and hospitality based on the preferences of the psychotic inject, the price for the partner's mind.

The objective basis of reconciliation is the validity of postulates, and the psychological reconsideration is the motivation for the subtlety of the subject before the withdrawal and mastery of general information, the manifestation of the necessary basic information. The mind of an effective reconciliation is a high moral and intellectual authority of the individual. At the same time, the process of reconnection will inevitably turn on and the mechanisms of initiation.

A type of unargumented injected - inherited(Prodzhennya butt, eye-catching). Nasliduvannya - one of the means of social navchannya, ovolodinnya social welfare. Ditina has the most accessible social awareness. In the old age, the inheritance is tied to the personalities of the individual to the idea of ​​the most authoritative person, who stands in the position of a social etalon.

Enjoyment can be called and internally motivated, comprehended. On the popular inheritance, such social and psychological phenomena are created, such as fashion and fashion.

One of the broader forms of psychic interaction є conformity(From lat. conformis- likening) - likening the necessary social standards, the act of being special to the social vice. As the inheritance is the creation of quiet images of behavior, as it is given to the settings of the specialty, then the conformity is in order to navigate the group's vimogs, as to supervise the settings and positions of the given specialty. Conformal individuals - individuals that see movements in the inflow from the side of the most significant individuals.

The inconsistency of particularity with the standard norms is called non-conformity... Vona may be based both on the ideological principles of specialness, and on the anarchic transcribed social norms and laws. (That and іnsha behavior forms are called visibility - deviant- behavior.)

The form of diffuse, pidvidomogo mental interaction of people - mentally infected: The process of transferring an advanced social camp from one individual to a mental one in a psychically stressful situation, spiralingly growing mass of an emotional camp. Massive psychiatric infection leads to the decline of social and normative organization of behavior, A sharp decrease in social behavior, dominance of socially diffuse behavior. It’s maddening for football players, panic’s country for allies, one of the men’s deaths was exalted - that is, manifest a psychic infection.

They are in the minds of the mass interaction, the psychiatric infection is lost on the day of the intercourse in the minds of the minds of the common people, the bagatorazovuyuyutsya in the minds of NATO. So, the country of mass fear or aggressiveness of the block of building of individuals rationally evaluates the situation, parallels the individual's regulation. At the same time, rigidity, rigidity of regulatory systems, mental regression, are brought to the point of value before accepted values. The specialty is passively thirsty for a whirlwind flowing pod_y, intruding on the adequacy of the mental image of action.

A chotirist of thousands of Americans saw the appearance of the Marsian, since on 30 July 1938, Vinnik masovy psychosis was connected with the radio scene ale by G. Wells "Viyna svitiv".

Raptovo winiklo gostre emotive podiya, wishing to win the actualization of the interest of the unorganized mass of people, viciously controlled, impulsive mass reactions, the service triggering mechanism of the psychoactive mass psychoanalysis. There are strong negative emotions - triviality, panic, fear, or all-inclusive hyperstimal emotions - extreme, overwhelming, vidvaga, which can be realized in intense, impulsive actions.

A kind of unargumented psychotic injected - suggestion(Naviyuvannya): pouring into the psyche in the minds of reduced criticality. The effectiveness of the invocation is initiated by the authorities of the individual - suggestor: yogo social status, With a special charisma, an intellectual-voluptuous pass; and also special features suggestion(Sub'єkta, scho arrogant naviyuvannya) - by the degree of his suggestiveness. THE COMMUNICATION of people is encouraged to learn for a direct change of motivation and specialization settings. Suggestions to name hypersuggestiy; durability before new - asuggestiya... Invasion of a zmіst is addressed not only by svidomostі, but by the svіdosvіdomostі of a suggestion.

People are stuck around everywhere. Not only mixed media, but also propaganda, propaganda, advertisements, political statements in the meaning of the world are insured for the effect of the promotion. Yaskravі images, how to wick to accept the sentiments, charming smirk of a beautiful girl, athletic cholovіki-superman - all the price should be given to the loved ones and the bazhanim who are proponated to us for the good. Naviyuvannya appears on the smallest of the forward-looking, friendly mental camp, who is rooted in the chutta, in the sphere of people, to be seen in the minds of lowering the criticality of witness. The images of nav_yuvannya imbue the character with an obsession, a mimic style “splitting”. The power instills in a stream to lay down from the imaginative accessibility, falling into the image in the zone of bazhan and prazhnen individual.

Inspired by the especially smart people are unprecedented, because of the lowering of the housekeeping, low self-esteem, highly varied, because of the decrease in the level of criticality to the intellect, as it is to be lost in the lack of authority. Find out and situational officials of advanced suggestiveness:
extreme instinct, mental demobilization, weakness, low level of knowledge and competence, a shortage of time for taking on an innovative solution, a camp of advanced communality, for an intimacy of mental capacity.

For the first time in the literature of the inter-personal (interpersonal) they were analyzed in 1975 in the book "Social Psychology".

The problem of misconceptions among the survivors and foreign psychology of the scientific world of the preschooler. The monograph by N.N. Obozov (1979) has published results empirical doslіdzhen vіtchiznyans і foreign fakhіvtsіv. The price is the best and the ground is not up to date, and in this hour it has become more relevant. The upcoming publications have little respect for the problems of misconceptions. Behind the cordon, the problem is analyzed in the guides on social psychology. Naybіlsh cіkavim sіkavim spіlіdzhennym T. Huston і G. Levinger є "Mіzosobistіsnі vіdlіvіstі and mіzhoobistіsnі vіdnosіnі" (Huston, Levinger, 1978), but did not waste the value in the Danish hour.

Infection in the press is very robust, in which problems are seen between the problems of miscellaneous and common contacts (for example), and practical recommendations are given for optimizing them (Deryabo and Yasvin, 1996; Vechir, 1996; Vechir, 1996). Some of these publications are popular viclades of results in psychological studies, hourly without writing a list of victorious literature.

Understand "missobistisnі vіdnosini". Different types of suspension are closely knitted with different types of suspensions. G. M, Andrva pidkreslyu, when the idea of ​​different forms of suspiciousness in the midst of the development of suspicious forms of suspicion is realizing in the realm of specific people, in the acts of

Suspended vidnosini - the price of official, formally secured, activated, dialed calls. The stench є is indispensable in the regulation of all kinds of different kinds, including interpersonal ones.

MіzhosobistіsnІ stosunki- tse ob'ktively experienced, in a colorful world learned to interconnect with people. The basis of these lies in the versatility of the emotional stan- dards of interconnected people. On the other hand, there are several (instrumental) ones, which can be both officially fixed, so not closed, and sometimes called expressive, sensible In the scientific plan, there is a lack of fragmentation.

Interpersonal information includes three elements - cognitive (gnostic, informational), affective and behavioral (practical, regulatory).

cognitive The element of transmission is the understanding of what to be like or not to be like in mizosobystisnyh stosunka.

affective the aspect of knowing it is its development in the emotional emotional experiences of people with the drive of interconnection between them. The emotional component, as a rule, is conducive. "Price for all the positive and negative emotional states, the confrontation of the states (intrapersonal, interpersonal), emotional sensitivity, self-satisfaction, partner, robotics, etc." (Obozov, 1979, p. 5).

Emotional change between different types of ideas (sometimes I call them valence) change in two opposite directions: from conjunctive (positive, one) to indifferent (neutral) and negative, negative Options for the manifestation of interpersonal greatness. Conjunctiveness is almost certainly manifested in different forms of positive emotions and standards, demonstration of those that indicate the readiness to approach and spirituality. Indifferent almost aspire to show a neutral protégé to the partner. You can carry baiduzhism, baiduzhism, baiduzhism, etc. Dys'junctive seems to rotate in the manifestation of the developmental forms of negative emotions and moods, as a partner, as a result of readiness until further approach and spirituality. In the vicinity of the vapors, the social zmist of the interdisciplinary ones can be ambivalent (super-sensitive).

Conventional manifestations of emoticons and sensitivities in the forms and methods characteristic of quiet groups, representatives of those who enter into intercourse contacts, may, from one side, take a for professional, social and for small groups and for vicious learning of non-verbal skills).

behavioral the component of the miscellaneous innovations is realized in specific diyakh. If one of the partners is like the one, the behavior will be good-natured, we will direct you to provide additional help and productive sports. If the object is not pretty, then the interactive side of the splash will be complicated. Between the various behavioral poles, there is a great number of forms of interactivity, the implementation of which is summarized by the social and cultural norms of groups, to which there is a need to merge.

Mіzhoobistіsnі vіdnosіnі will be on the "vertical" (between the core and the pіdleglim and navpaki) and "horizontal" (between the persons, who occupy the same status). Emotional manifestations of interpersonal ties are summarized by the social and cultural norms of groups, to which there is a problem, and individual ideas, which vary at the boundaries of the named norms. Different types of blue can be formulated from the positions of dominance - equality - order and fallowness - independence.

Social distance transferring also according to official and miscellaneous vidnosin, as it is because of the proximity to socializing, in accordance with social and cultural norms of spirituality, to some kind of stench. Social distance allows you to preserve an adequate level of latitude and distance in connection with the establishment of interconnections. It is difficult to create a range of disjunctive missobilisnyh wins (in indigenous wines, up to 52%, and in those of equal status - up to 33%), and sometimes to conflicts (Obozov, 1979).

psychological distance characterizing the steps of closeness between social partners and partners in spilkuvannyu (friends, comrades, friends, dovirchі). For our donations, there is no understanding of the pedagogical stage in the dynamism of the development of the interdisciplinary ones.

missocialism- it is more optimal to learn about the psychological characteristics of partners, so that you can take advantage of the optimization, spirituality and efficiency. It is equally important to say that “harmonization”, “uzgodzhenist”, “consolidation” and “consolidation” are used. Mizoobistisna sumptuity is based on the principles of similarity and mutually modular. Ї Indicators є Satisfaction with the social interaction and the result. The second result is the appearance of mutual sympathy. The antipathy phenomenon of insanity is the price of insanity, and it seems that it is antipathy. The process and the result can be seen as a misconception, the process and the result (Obozov, 1979). Vona develops within a spacious-hourly framework і specific minds (normal, extreme and ін.), Yaki pour on її manifest. For the value of interpersonal consistency, one needs to use hardware and technical methods and a homeostat.

missocial adaptability- a very foldable psychological power of the specialty, as it is like “pulling” to myself a partner in conjunction and mimicry with a new feeling of sympathy. The charm of specialness allows people to be courteous to themselves. The addiction of people to stay in the form of their physical and social life, building up to the age of being and so on. D.

Interpersonal communication development, communication with a partner has cognitive, emotional and behavioral feedback. Phenomenon of interdisciplinary readiness in friendly couples of report criticism in NN Obozov's presenterties.

In science and popular literature, it is often "Emotional addiction"- the building of specialties until the mental states of the partner in the spilkuvannyu і especially - up to: spіvpersivannya with him. Remaining (goodness before the experience) to manifest itself in the sentimentality of feeling on the other side. Dane the understanding is deafly vuzhche;

On our thought, there is a lack of adaptation in the scientific plan. At the same time, from the applied positions of the witness, one can see the phenomenon of singing іmіdzhu... In recent science, such a pidhid is actively developing during 1991 rock, if there is a real need for psychological recommendations to formulate the image (image) of a policy of a common people. Publications about this problem will have a problem for the sake of the start of an adorable political action (according to zovnishnim viglyadom, Statement of voice, performance of verbal and non-verbal recordings of speech and inn.). Fakhіvtsі appeared about the given problem - іmіdzhmakers. For psychologists, the problem seems promising.

With regard to the practical significance of the problem of principal pledges, To develop psychologists, to introduce a special course "Formation of the psychologist's image". Tse allow the graduates to succeed in getting to the future robots, gripping them in the eyes of the clients and establishing themselves with the knowledge of the necessary contact.

The understanding of "atraction" is clearly tied with a multi-purpose attachment. Some observers look at the attraction as a process and one hour the result of the attraction of one people for the whole; Seeing in the new (sympathy, friendship, love) and tying it on the perceptual side of the spilkuvannya (Andrva, 1999). Інші vvazayut, so atraktsіya is a completely unconventional social attitude, in which there is a positive emotional component (Gozman, 1987). In, N. Kunitsyna, on an attractive mind, the process of meeting some people with others, a lot of hard work between people, and mutual sympathy. On її Dumka, atraktsіya obumovlena zovnіshnіmi factors (stage virazhenostі in Lyudin required in afіlіatsії, emotsіynim pitched partnerіv on spіlkuvannyu, prostorovoї blizkіstyu Georeferencing of residing abo robot spіlkuyutsya) i vnutrіshnіmi, Vlasna mіzhosobistіsnimi determіnantami (fіzichnoyu privablivіstyu, demonstrovanih style povedіnki, factor podіbnostі mіzh partners, virazom a special assignment to a partner in the process of spilkuvannya) (Kunitsina, Kazarinova, Pogolsha, 2001). Yak can be seen from the vicious, the richness of the understanding of the "atraction" and the distortion of it with other phenomena accelerating the viciousness of the term and explaining the lack of awareness of the psychology. This understanding is suspicious of the Anglo-American psychology and is twisted with the twisted term “missocial admiration”. At the connection with the cims, the terms are called equivalents for a bit.

to understand "Heavy" Rise of the needs of the same people will be at once with their own singing features, as they will receive a positive assessment of the spryman. This is how to experience sympathy for the best people. Heavy can be unidirectional and bidirectional (Obozov. 1979). opposed to understanding "Vidshtovkhuvannya" (negatsii) tied explicitly with a spilkuvannyu partner psychological features, I have a feeling of being negative and evaluating it negatively; to that partner wiklicka negative emotions.

Particulars of specialties, which are added to the formulation of interdisciplinary materials. A friendly change of mind for the successful formation of different types of ideas and the mutual information of partners, one about one, is formed on the basis of a mixed understanding. The development of mіzhosobistіsnyh vіdnosin is abundant in what can be summed up in the peculiarities of spіlkuyutsya. Before them become, vik, nationality, power, temperament, health, profession, education with people and deyaki special characteristics.

Pidlog. The genuineness of the misconceptions between the articles appears in the same children. Lads in good condition with children in childish actively enter into contacts, take part in collective games, interact with one-liners. This is a picture of the older choloviks. Children are heavy until spilkuvannya in a large university. The stench vstanovlyuyut vіdnosini z timi, who їm befitting. And the wisdom of spilnoy dyyalnosti for them is not even more important (among the lads of the navpaki). Among women, the number of spilkuvannya is less significant, but not among the choloviks. In the case of the multi-cultural stench, there is a much greater need for self-awareness, transmission of special information about themselves. Most often it stinks on self-consciousness (Kon, 1987).

For women, there are more significant features, which are manifested in different types of qualities, and for people - in small qualities,

In mіzhosobistіsnyh wіdnіchnіy females steel harnessing on the reduction of social distance and the establishment of psychological closeness with people. In friendly women, the emphasis is on goodwill, emotional education and intimacy. “Friendly women at mensh stiyki women. Powerful friendship is closeness with a wide range of food, negotiating the nuances of vlastnykh vzaimladnyuє їkh "(Kon, 1987, p. 267). Robustness, unreasonableness and efficiency in picking up women from among personal innos.

Among the choloviks of the interdisciplinary nature, these nines are characterized by a greater emotional streaming and subject matter. The stench is easier to roar in front of unknowable people. Їх style of mіzhosobistіsnіh vіdnosіn conjunctions on the admission of their imіdzhu in the eyes of a partner in spіlkuvannyu, showing their achievements and domagan. At the friendly hundred-ssunka of the cholovik, I felt comradeship and given a mutual welcome.

Вік. The need for emotional warmth is to be in the child and, in a step-by-step manner, to be transformed into a rational stage of learning the psychological well-being of children to people who create psychological comfort for them (Kon, 1987, 1989). In this way, people step by step draw into the misconceptions of the power of youth. Numerical social and cultural norms (especially professional and ethnical) are imposed on behavior. The number of contacts is especially sounded when young people enter into love and appear as children in the family. The numerical interdisciplinarity is changing and manifested in various and disputed spheres. In the middle of the year, if the children are growing up, they will expand again. Senior i abducted vіtsі interpersonal wins It will be explained by the fact that the children have grown and they have their own habits, the labor force is active to end, when the spilkuvannya is loudly sounding. In the kidnapped old friends, the little ones play a special role.

Nationality. Ethnic norms to summarize comradeship, behavioral framework, rules for the formulation of misconceptions. In young ethnic spirits, the interpersonal connection will be related to the position of the people in the suspension, state-of-the-art status, belonging to the social beliefs and the religious groups.

acts of power temperament vplyuyut on the mold of the missobistinnyh vidnosin. It has been experimentally established that choleric and sanguine people can easily establish contacts, and phlegmatic and melancholy people are difficult. The consolidation of interpersonal differences in pairs "choleric with choleric" "sanguine with sanguine" and "choleric with sanguine" is difficult. Stylish interpersonal communication is established in pairs "melancholy with phlegmatic", "melancholic with sanguine" and "phlegmatic sanguine" (Obozov, 1979).

I'm healthy. The known physical shortcomings, as a rule, are negatively signified on the "I-concept" and in the end bag accelerate the formulation of intergovernmental differences.

Timing ailments infuse into friendliness and style of interpersonal contacts. Entrapment of the thyroid gland, development of neurosis and of the disease

Profession. Mіzhoobistіsnі vіdnosini are molded in all spheres of life of people, ala naybіlsh stiykimi. which are the result of the social work. In the course of the display of functional conditions, not only a few contacts are closed, but they originate and develop in different ways, as they develop a wide-ranging and glib character. Yaksho for the family professional performance If people are constantly connected with people, then they have some tips for establishing inter-social contacts (for example, with lawyers, journalists, etc.).

Dosvid spіlkuvannya s people spriy nabuttyu stiykikh min i nauchik іnterpersonalnyh vіdnosin, based on the social norms of regulation, with representatives " small groups in suspensions (Bobneva, 1978). Dosvid spіlkuvannya allows you to practically master and fix the rational norms of spilkuvannya z smart peopleі formulate social control over the manifestation of your emotions.

Self-assessment. Adequate self-assessment allows for the specialness of an active assessment of one's own particularities and characteristics of the individual and psychological qualities of a partner in socializing, depending on the situation, to vibrate the specific style of various

Self-esteem is envisioned to bring in the interpersonal elements of lightness and bliss. As a partner in spilkuvannyu vlashtovuu such a style of miscellaneous vidnosins, but the stench will reach the stiyki, in the least, the stench will inflate the character of stress.

The self-assessment of the specialness of the snake is underestimated to the style of the versatility, which is promoted by the partner in the spilkuvannyu. At the same time, it is possible to bring in a singular mental stress in the interdisciplinarity of the difference in connection with the internal discomfort of a particularity.

The need for spilkuvanni, established intergovernmental contacts with people, a fundamental characteristic of people. At the same time from among people there are individuals who have a need for good spirit (affirmation) and mercy (altruism) are often envious. Friendship interpersonalities are most often formed with the same people or special persons, and affiliation and altruism, as a rule, are manifested before many people. The result is that it’s possible to show that additional help is shown in people who are willing to accept, in a high degree of self-control and to accept independent solution... Indicators of affiliative behavior - positive verbal communication, trivial contact of the eyes, good-natured expressions of exposure, better display of verbal and non-verbal signs of the age, positive calls by phone and other. The characteristic of the affiliation behavior for the form of the stage of friendly changes is determined, and the indicators are the criteria for the development of positive mixed messages. In the course of the day, the bully saw specialties of quality, how to speed up development of mіzhoobistіsnyh wіdnosin. To the first group, self-indulgence, intelligence, intelligence, self-satisfaction and Marnoslawism have gone. To the other group, there is dogmatism, the strength is not podzhuvatisya with a partner. The third group included guile and weakness (Kunitsina, Kazarinova, Pogolsha, 2001)

The process of forming interpersonal messages. Wine includes dynamics, regulation mechanism (empathy) and development.

Dynamism of interdisciplinary activities. Interpersonal vidnosyuyutsya, zakryplyuyutsya, reach the singing maturity, for whom it can be slack and then lean back. The stench grows in a continuum, may cause singing dynamism.

In his robots, N.N. American ancestors also see some category groups, the basis of which is the closeness of intergovernmental people (know, good friends, close friends and make friends), Ale analysis is isolated, not open to development (Huston, Levinger, 1978).

The dynamism of the development of inter-social networks in a time-consuming continuum is to pass through a series of stages (stages): knowledge, friends, comrades and friends. The process of weakening the interconnectedness in the "zorotny" side is also dynamical (the transition from friends to comradely, friendly and sometimes due to viciousness). The triviality of the skin stage is to be found in the storage of interpersonal forms.

knowledge process stay in the fallowness of the social and cultural and professional norms of the suspension, up to which there may be partners in spilkuvannyu.

buddy stosunki molding readiness - unpreparedness for the development of miscellaneous wins. If the partners have a positive attitude, then the price є with a friendly change of mind to a fake splurge.

Tovariski stosunki allow you to close the contact. Here you will see the closeness of the glances and the reception of the education one to one (at the whole stage of the victorious act of such a witness, like “vchiniti in a comradely way”, “comrade in the wake” and in.). At the stage of the stage, the mixed style is characterized by a style and singularity. Among the most popular publications for the optimization of young people, recommendations are given on victorious promises of promiscuous promises, how to allow victorious promises, sympathy of partners in sports, 1996;

at last friends (dovirchikh) vidnosin good results and good results І. S. Kon, N. N. Obozovim, T. P. Skripkina (Obozov, 1979; Kon, 1987, 1989; Skripkina, 1997). On the thought of I. S. Kona, friendships with each other are dependent on something else - the spirit of interests, the goals of performance, in which friends come together (get together), and immediately transfer to me (1987).

Unimportant to the similarity of glances, giving an emotional and creative approach to one to one, with friends, there can be a sense of difference. You can see utilitarian (instrumental-versatile, practical-for-divine) and emotional-expressive (emotional-spovidal) friendship. Amicable shots are manifested in a different form: from interdisciplinary sympathy to mutual consumption in spilkuvanni. This kind of blue can be developed both in an official setting, and in an informal one. Friends, sometimes with comrades, are characterized by a greater glycemic and more dignified (Kon, 1987). Friends will talk to a friend about a lot of aspects in their life, including the special features of people who are able to socialize and know them.

An important characteristic of friendships in a dovira. T.P. Skripkina, in her pre-dictionaries, has opened up empirical relationships to bring people to other people and to themselves (Skripkina, 1997).

This is the result of the problems of the most important problems, which were discarded before the test conducted by V. N. Kunitsin at the student's vibration. “Dovіrlivі stosunki in the situation of the group overgrowing over the most common fallow lands. The third of those who live in it start their own vidnosini with mater as dovirchi, partners; more than half of them vvazayut, but for all that, there is often a lot of fallowness from the material, at that time it is only possible to evaluate one of them as good and partners. Viyavilosya, where there are blue leaves with one significant people often compensate through the inducement of partnerships with significant people. As soon as in the course of accumulating information the people have formulated a lack of hope for the establishment of close ones with people, then sometimes they do it and they often find it out with one, but not with the mother "(Kunitsina. Kazarinova, Pogolsha, 2001). Friendship can be slack and lean, as if some of your friends can’t keep secrets to them, don’t steal one in their sight, and also jealously put themselves before others in their intercourse (Argyll, 1990).

Friends in young rockers are accompanied by intense contacts, psychological violence and great importance. At the same time, it is highly valued for humor and comradeship.

Growing up in friendships is more appreciated chuinism, honesty and social accessibility. Amicable stosunki in the whole period are more stable. “In an active middle age, the emphasis on psychological intelligence is a sign of friendship, but a weakness and friendship, both of which will draw in their halo of totality” (Kon, 1987, p. 251),

The friends of the older generation of the older generation are tied with family ties and people who may share the same life with them and value.

The problem of criteria for friendships is inadequate. Some presenters will provide them with mutual assistance, vitality and psychological closeness, and refer to the competence in conjunction with partners, turbot about them, children and behavior transfer.

Empathy as a mechanism for the development of various types of communication. Empathy is the result of the same specialness for the experience of the inshoi. Some precursors are involved in the whole process, cognitive process... Super-verbose thoughts are drawn from the drive of the one who reads the phenomenon through the process of power.

N.N.Obozov looking at empathy as a process (mechanism) and including in new cognitive, emotional and divine components. On a yogo thought, Empatiya is three rubles.

Cognitive empathy lies at the heart of the structural-dynamic model (first rіven) I will come to see the minds of the psychotic, I will become a human being without a trace of my own.

Another rіven of empathy transferring to emotional empathy, not only in the eyes of the minds of becoming the first people, but also in the spirits and feelings of the people, in the sympathetic responses. The form of empathy is given, including two options. The first dressing for the simplest spas, which is based on the need for the well-being. Insha, the transitional form from emotional to the age of empathy, is to know its turn in the minds, which is based on the need for the well-being of the people.

The third stage of empathy- a form that includes cognitive, emotional and behavioral components. Vona in the new world bends mіzhosostіsnu іdentifіkatsіyu, as it є not only clear (sleep and be smart) and sensitive (to survive), ale and divine. At the same time, real events and actions appear on the basis of additional help and assistance to the partner in the match (inodi such style of behavior is called additional help). Between the three forms of empathy, there are foldable interdependences (Obozov, 1979). At the same time, it’s the first rivn (cognitive empathy), tying with the minds of the camp of those people without a change), є, for our gifts, a purely cognitive process.

Yak show results experimental doslіdzhen in Russia and beyond the cordon, sympathy for one of the main forms of the manifestation of sympathy. Z Kona, N.N. Obozov. T, P. Gavrilova, F, Haider, T. Newcome, L. Festinger, C. Osgood and P. Tannenbaum.

If the principle of the need to not manifest itself in being able to get along, then talk about the indifference of the senses If they have an inconsistency and especially rubbing, then it is more difficult to disharmony (imbalance) in the cognitive structure.

In order to show the results until later, most often they are grounded on the principle of similarity (optional), and sometimes on the principle of additional information. Remain twisting in the fact that, for example, with the choice of comrades, friends, maybutny friends and in. People are unaware, but in some and in some way, they choose such individuals as they can satisfy each other. On the basis of this, there can be positive interpersonal relationships.

Having shown sympathy for the possibility of intensifying the transition from one stage of various types of synonyms to the last, as well as expanding and loving interpersonal types of synonyms. Sympathy, as well as antipathy, can be one-sided (without interrelation) and distinctly direct (interdependent).

Even close to the understanding "empathy" the understanding "Sintotost" For a reason, it’s worthwhile to get to the emotional life of the individual, amazed by the need for emotional contact. In vіtchiznyanіy literature, the danny of the understanding is to learn to finish up rіdko.

The development of empathy is based on the sensitivity of people to their own and someone else's. In the course of development of empathy as power and specialness, the development of empathy and quality of forecasting emotional mill of people. Empathy can be the growth world of learning. She can volodyti one or offend a partner in spilkuvannyu. The level of empathy was experimentally started in the preliminaries of T. P. Gavrilova and N. N. Obozov. Individuals with a high level of empathy appear to be attractive in other people, plastic, emotional and optimistic. For individuals who have a low level of empathy, are characterized by difficult contacts, introversion, rigidity and his centricity.

Empathy may not only appear in the real world of people, albeit with the help of creation imaginative mystery, In the theater and t. D.

Empathy is the mechanism of shaping the inter-social development and stabilization, allowing the pressure of partners not only in the winners, but also in the important, extreme cleverly, if they are especially demanding. On the basis of the mechanism of empathy, we can become mobile and powerful impressions.

Be mindful of the development of misconceptions. Mixed shafts are formed in singing minds, which inject into dynamism, latitude and glybin (Ross, Nisbett, 1999).

In the minds of the townspeople from the Silk way of life to achieve a high pace of life, often the change in the work of robots and living, high rіven huge control. As a result, there is a great number of interstitial contacts, a short frequency and a manifestation of functional-role communication. It should be done to the point where there is a lot of psychology to the partner. In order to get rid of tight calls, it’s not easy to get paid in the second special hour, because of psychic overwhelming, material resources, etc.

Until the end of the cordon it’s going to be done, so what more often people start out, because it’s the smell of being built one by one. Mabut, and navpaki, who are more aware of it, are more likely to be able to get away from them. The spaciousness of the proximity is especially infused into the interiors of the children. Whenever they move from one school to another, they usually have contact with them.

More important is the meaning of the formulation of the misconceptions of those who think it is specific, in which people are united. The first thing for all the price is tied to the types of social activity, in the course of which there are established interpersonal contacts (navchannya, robot, etc.), with the situation (very important or extreme), different middle resources (mono- or multiple resources).

Zagalnovidomo, scho mizosobistisnі vіdnosini quickly develop (go through all stages right up to the next) in on values(For example, in lіkarnі, go to ін.). Dane is a manifestation, mabut, surrounded by a strong fallowness from zovnishnikh officials, Short-term social life and spaciousness. It is a pity that we do not have much more than a lot of time spent in the name of the minds.

The value of a time official in interpersonal personalities is due to the fact that in a specific social and cultural environment the stench develops (Ross, Nisbett, 1999).

In a way, the hour factor in the ethnic middle. In older cultures, the development of interstitial varieties is bi-stretched in hours, and in the backward cultures - “spraying”, dynamically. Robit, how to imagine the advancement of the time factor on the interdiscipline of every day, in our literature there is no need to develop.

For visualization of the different aspects of the interdisciplinary ones, there are numerical methods and tests. Among them are diagnostics of interdisciplinary tests by T. Liri (dominance-to-order, friendliness-aggressiveness), method "Q-grade" (fallowness-independence, friendliness-lack of tolerance, tolerance , compromise, uniqueness, preoccupation), the methodology of J. Moreno's misconceptions according to the sociometric status in the group (re-negotiation-witnessing), an expert on the sympathetic tendencies of A. Mehrabyan and N. Epstein. methodology of vvnya empatichnykh zdіbnosti V.V. Boyko, method І. M. Yusupov for the development of empathy tendencies, the author's methodology of V. N. Kunitsin, the questionnaire method of V. Azarov for the development of impulsiveness and volitional regulation in the mindset, the method of assessment of the development of F. Russian fellows.

The problem of misconceptions among the survivors and the foreign psychological scientific world of vivchen. There are not many scientific dosages from special stoosunks in Danish hour. Prospective problems є: confusion in different and different types of life, social distance in them, confidence in other types of interpersonal criteria, as well as the specialty of interpersonal